TLDR- women are attracted to successful men the way we are attracted to sexy women. The most reliable way to obtain pussy is by obtaining success as a man.

Success as a man can be broadstroaks broken up into:

1. Purpose. Find your highest purpose. Prioritize it, chase after it, throw yourself into it. Pussy will come I guarantee it.

2. Freedom as a man. Don't have kids, don't get married. Guard your commitment. Learn the value of your time and attention as a man.

3. Physical and mental health. Lift. Meditate. Keep learning, keep improving, get as healthy as you can. Physical and mental health are very attractive to women.

4. Financial independence, freedom, and eventually abundance. This will make such a difference in the quantity and quality of pussy you're not going to believe it. If you really want frivolous pussy, get rich. Trust me.

5. Status. Ascend the dominance hierarchy. That is where they keep the top-shelf pussy. Earn the respect of men your respect. Become a leader, starting with yourself

6. Dominance. The status of a man, in the eyes of her female primate brain, is his dominance in social interactions. This doesn't mean to be an asshole (this will get you pussy). Be open and friendly but have firm boundaries and always prioritize your own happiness. Meet people with a smile and a firm handshake.

7. Friendship. If you don't have real homies, get some. My closest Male friendship has been by far the sweetest and most intimate relationship of my life. I wouldn't trade a brother for any amount of pussy there is no comparison. And by the way, if you ever put a chick before a friend she will instantly lose her respect for you as a man.

8. Strength. Literally become physically strong. This gets it's own point, although it was already mentioned under health because it is so foundational to your success as a man. Lift.

9. Frame. Frame is everything.

10. Lifestyle. Build and live the life of your dreams. Pursue cool hobbies. Do fun shit. My brother taught me this lesson. Bald ginger with giant beak nose and a head like a fucking canoe. But his lifestyle as an outdoors-loving backpacker/ climber/ kayaker / biker netted him so much quality pussy it amazed me. He never touched a barbell in his life, and even as an EMT pulled model-tier hippie types with ease.

11. Competence as a man in general and eventually Mastery in your domain (get after your Purpose!)

So don't complain about chicks being shallow. Of course they are shallow. I am shallow- you think I care if a girl has a PHD or runs Google? Fuck no. I want the nice ass and the perky tits; they want the sparkling glittery treasure. All you need to do is become that treasure, and she will chase after you.

So embrace hypergamy. Become the success object, in as many areas of your life as you can. The results are tremendous.

Good luck boys.