Summary: I talk about how knowing certain guys, having certain social circles, and being involved in certain activities matters so much if you want to get hot girls here in the USA. In this thread I will also share my experience with other methods like cold approach and online dating, why they are not as useful when it comes to getting some of the better looking women that America has to offer.

And now for the post:

To the Americans in here who went to colleges loaded with hot girls, you probably had Greek Life on campus. Now the one thing I noticed about fraternity brothers who were in a high status fraternity was not only the fact that they partied a lot and came from rich families, they also got the hottest girls on campus in most cases. College athletes were probably the only guys who managed to do better than them. For the guys who were not in a fraternity or playing a sport, their only hope was to somehow ally themselves with that fraternity or with college athletes in the hope that the hottest girls on campus would notice them.

Compared to my life after I graduated college, I never had much luck landing hot girls in college. Fortunately, college left me with a very important lesson about the US dating culture that I would never forget. In order for you to get some of the better looking women that the USA has to offer, in most cases, you must shake the right hands.

What do I mean by that?

I feel like that in every city, there certain groups of men and certain social circles that hot girls run in. To get these girls, you have to somehow be affiliated with that social circle or have some sort of a connection within that social circle. Two years ago I slept with this tall and beautiful brunette who I would not have been able to land, the reason I was able to fuck her is because one of my friends was a model photographer and we just met that way. In the course of a few weeks, she comes over to my apartment and we fuck.

Let me summarize that for you, in order for you to get hot girls in the USA, you have to find a way to be cool with the guys that get hot girls in a given area. You have to make yourself a part of their crowd and circle to get access to some of the girls.

Club promoters, model photographers, and the kinds of guys that are constantly surrounded by hot girls. I know it sounds sad but as an American guy, I've noticed that this is just how the game works here. You should obviously do everything to make yourself a desirable option (lift, workout, learn game, and get a nice career) but fact of the matter is, a lot of the guys who are getting these hot girls are getting them through this type of social circle game. Ever wonder how you see beautiful women with guys that aren't that great looking themselves, well this is how!

It is like a process in a way: first you raise the SMV, then you make friends with higher SMV guys, and then once they invite you into their social circles with other higher SMV guys you start to meet hot girls who congregate around them. Once you meet those hot girls, you can run your usual game and apply the red pill.

Why cold approach doesn't work.

Because most women find it creepy, in most cases women are just not comfortable with some stranger coming up to them and chatting them up. Attractive women are used to cold approaches and that type of stuff, they will hardly respond well that way. Even if they give a number, they will give a fake one so the guy can leave them alone.

Why online dating is a bad idea.

It is purely about looks and by that I mean looking like Nick Bateman. Women have a clear advantage and a lot of good looking women only use online dating and Tinder for validation. Good looking women are not going online to meet guys, they don't have to because they have enough hot guys in their lives already. You would have to be exceptionally handsome in order to get the 8 or 9 through online game, it is hard to do!

Lessons learned:

To get hot girls in the western world, you have to shake the right hands. You need to find social circles and activities that attract hot girls and be cool with the guys in those circles.