Outline - The thing that attracts other people including women is power. This is the ultimate red pill truth, all societies for obvious reasons want to hide this ultimate truth.

Alpha means you control events, beta means you are reacting to events. It is an extremely simple concept, and like most simple concepts people have problems grasping it because it is so simple. They over think things and think there has to be more to it then that.

Everything boils down to a power dynamic, humans unlike other animals associate symbols with power. So a king or tribal leader had a staff, this staff had almost mystical powers it symbolized the power he holds. Modern example of this is the pope, on his official visits he carries a staff, this is a left over tradition from when the pope commanded armies it symbolizes when the pope represented God on earth and it was through this staff he was able to crown kings and emperors.

Today we have other symbols of power. What do the following things have in common ?

  • a huge well built guy with muscles
  • a cop in a uniform
  • a guy who is out of shape, broke, dresses poorly but has a small band that plays in bars on week ends.
  • a tattooed freak who has brutally killed 4 guys and is in prison
  • your run of the mill asshole

Every single one of these people has the ability to excert power over others. The power does not have to be positive or negative. Power means influence.

So the asshole and the tattooed freak of a criminal both have power over others. This often isn't directly evident. Charles Manson has been behind bars for decades, but yet he still has power over the general population. In this case his power is fear, that people who where born after Manson was sent to prison and know who he is shows this.

The asshole also isn't quite as clear cut also. The asshole gets his power because he is able to make other people react. I am an asshole, so I am sitting in a bar minding my own business. Some guy comes along with a chick, the chick is paying no attention to me. The guy talks to me, I am an asshole. All of a sudden the chick's eyes light up and she starts paying attention to me. By getting the guy to react I am demonstrating power.

People are vulnerable to associations, so cops and security guards act as gatekeepers. So I know a few cops and security guards, I shoot the shit with them. So I am with a chick, a cop or security guard sees me and says wankalot how is it going ? The cop/guard has power, indirectly because he recognizes me some of the power is transfered to me.

Bossing other people around is a sign of power. This is why elite alphas never do stuff like fetch drinks from the bar etc. They get their minions to do it. This demonstrates power. In some cultures it is extremely important you don't get stuff yourself, it is a sign of weakness.

Muscles by themselves do not give you power, as a result they don't give women the tingles. Example of this is a week long over chat shittest that took place with a woman. She was highly intelligent, we basically debated. Everything I would knock down her arguments I would call her a stunned cunt, dirty whore or other nasty things.

Anyway after a week she wants to meet up. Where I am, kidnapping and assasination is an accepted risk of life. She comes from a well off family with connects they have maybe 4 guards at any given time, she repeatedly bosses these guards around for amusement. These guys are probably a physcially in a lot better shape then me. They are a lot younger then me. In her own words she basically said no one ever stood up to her because she is little princess and it was a big turn on.

For all of you fat slobs, I am not saying sit on your ass and stuff donuts down your face all day. Get into the best shape you can. Myself I am probably a lot older then most of you, I can't rely on my looks anymore. But I try and keep in shape, it has benefits both mentally and physically. But realize that muscles by themselves are just a tool.

Humans and especially women are highly aware of social dynamics. In my opinion this occurs at a subconscious level it is wired into us. Always keep this in mind.

Summary - once you understand that people and particularly women are attracted to power, everything else starts to fall into place. Watch the social dynamics of how alphas excert control over their minnions. In the civilized world it is largely hidden.

The best place I can think of is bars where the lower members of society congregate. So bars with drug dealers and pimps in them. Observe how they act and what they do. Sometimes if he sees you just hanging out he might be curious what you are doing. Hold frame and just talk to him normally. Probably he will throw out a couple of shittests.