Greetings Gentlemen:

I poured my heart and soul into this book for quite a few months using all my research skills. Yes, I really am a PhD with more than 14 academic publications and I used the manosphere as my primary data source for this book. In particular I cite the Rational Male, The Red Pill, Married Red Pill, Dalrock, and a series of more than 50 Red Pill books, over and over again in this manuscript.

The final product came to a staggering 100,000 words and 310 pages with more than 240 foot notes, most directly linking to the pertinent manosphere post.

"Saving A Low Sex Marriage: A Man's Guide to Dread, Seduction, and the Long Game" is now available for just $5.99 on Kindle. Sorry, tech-phobes, no print version of the book yet but you really need to get it on Kindle to access the footnote links. Don't trust what I say, read the linked posts and figure out for yourself if you agree.

Follow this link:

https://bluepillprofessor.wordpress.com/2015/05/22/hello-world/

to buy the book or search it on Kindle.

I want to thank /u/ianironwood for inspiring me to write this with his books: "A New Hope for Masculinity" and "The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves" and for reviewing early versions of this, and encouraging me to keep working and rewriting. I want to especially thank The Red Pill Reddit and Rollo Tomossi's the Rational Male book and blog for the wealth of information they have provided and continue to provide. Of course I must also thank the Married Red Pill (MRP) Reddit for helping to refine these ideas for marriages and for inspiring me to carry on through the drudgery of editing (although some claim with good reason I did not edit the Kindle version enough :) Yes there are some spelling errors and misused words as there are in many self-published kindle books but the raw data is all there and it is flawless. Trust me.

The take home message in this post is that almost nothing in this book is "mine" or "my idea." Yes, the overall organization of the 12 levels of Dread was my concept, but manosphere and Red Pill thought is tightly wrapped and deeply baked into each level. There is nothing new under the sun. All of the details in these 300+ pages is nothing more than the collective wisdom of thousands of Redditors and manospherians stumbling along as we figure out that which has been so carefully hidden from us. So thanks to one and all! You are all a part of this!

Finally, I want to thank a host of reviewers for this piece including:

/u/jacktenofhearts and /u/FearDearg2015 and /u/Trainingthebrain (aka /u/thefamilyalpha) along with the legendary "Deti" (I know his secret Reddit name but you guys don't- Hint, OF COURSE he is EC on The Red Pill even though nobody else knows). Thanks to all you guys for your extensive reviews and input into this book.

The book follows my posts on the "12 Levels of Dread" (google it) and introduces them in considerably more detail. For example, the section on Level 4 Dread- which SO MANY guys have royally screwed up- ended up at more than 5,000 words as I explained when and how to withhold Time, Attention, Affection, and "Presence" from a sexually withdrawing wife and how to solve "The Husband's Dilemma: When to withhold affection" (another good one to google).

Essentially this is a guide to unplugging while married. You begin on day 1 recognizing shit tests. This is level 1. At the same time you can begin level 2- put together your action plan. Item number one on your MAP must be:

GET IN SHAPE BY LIFTING HEAVY WEIGHTS.

Therefore, after much debate on the Married Red Pill (MRP) reddit, we have overwhelmingly concluded that you should do Level 1 and 2 from day 1. Get to the gym. Get your shit together. It is a process. Take AT LEAST 2 MONTHS Level 1 and 2: Understanding shit tests, getting in shape and getting your shit together BEFORE moving further. Until then, Shut the fuck up and spend your time reading and worshiping at the Iron Temple. Do it for at least 8 weeks. That is the deal. Some guys on MRP (usually fat, pathetic fucks) need a lot longer than 8 weeks to advance. I say, if you are not able to report the INCREASE in your bench max from when you first started to now, then you have not even started your Dread Games.

FOR ALL THE OTHER LEVELS 3-10 TAKE AT LEAST ONE MONTH BEFORE ADVANCING. THERE ARE BOOKS TO READ AND IF YOU HAVE NOT READ THEM YOU ARE NOT READY TO ADVANCE. IN ADDITION, IF YOU ADVANCE FASTER, YOUR WIFE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO KEEP UP AND IT WILL DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE/LTR!!

WE HAVE SEEN THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. DON'T RUSH THROUGH THE LEVELS BECAUSE YOU ARE A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE OR BECAUSE YOU HAVE A PHD, ARE A MILLIONAIRE, WAS ALWAYS GOOD WITH GIRLS, HAVE AN N-COUNT OF 700, OR YOU HAVE A 10 INCH COCK. YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE AND UNTIL YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE NOT A BEAUTIFUL AND UNIQUE SNOWFLAKE YOU HAVE NOT EVEN STARTED. REALITY, A/K/A THE RED PILL MEANS THAT YOU ARE THE SAME DECAYING ORGANIC MATTER AS EVERYTHING ELSE. WE'RE ALL PART OF THE SAME COMPOST HEAP. SINGING AND DANCING IN CRAP.

The rule established by Athol Kay several years ago was to take an entire year of your MAP (aka "unplugging") before quitting on your marriage and our analysis is almost exactly the same. Take your time. Do YOU first before you think about changing her (Pro tip: You can't).

This is the Summary of the 12 Levels of Dread from the book:

THE 12 STEP PLAN OF DREAD: RECOVERING FROM A LOW SEX MARRIAGE, RESTORING SEX, RESTORING RESPECT

Dread Level 1: This is Your Life: You are A Man, descended from 10,000 generations of warriors, poets, and kings. Start acting like it! Begin responding to your wife confidently and appropriately. Readings: Married Man’s Sex Life Primer & No More Mr. Nice Guy

Dread Level 2: This is Your Plan: You Are a Man With a Plan so get one and get working on it. Put together your “Man Action Plan” and start to build. Start by building muscle at the gym and by reading books and blog entries. Take notes and understand them. Write out your complete "MAP" to improve 5 areas of your life (physical, psychological, financial, emotional, & spiritual) and start your new life today. Readings: The Book of Pook & The Mindful Attraction Plan

Dread Level 3: Your Great Mission: You are an In-Charge Man with a busy, fun, active life. Get a hobby, some solid friends, some goals and a mission in life. Get busy. Readings: When I Say No I Feel Guilty

Dread Level 4: Your Options and Your Consequences: You are a busy man with options, and you don’t have time for negative influences, such as wives who are not attracted to you. As I indicated above this is a very tricky stage and it must be handled right. Butthurt or angry is not going to cut it. Readings: The Rational Male & How To Win Friends and Influence People

Dread Level 5: You are a HOT guy: You Are Important: Look the Part. Upgrade your wardrobe. Start dressing a little bit nicer, even at home and especially when you go out in public. Readings: The Way of the Superior Male & The Art of Seduction

Dread Level 6: You Are a Mighty Hunter: Study Your Prey. Begin to study pickup artistry, leave books on PUA around the house and practice actively “gaming” and seducing your wife. Readings: The Natural & Bang: The Pickup Bible

Dread Level 7: The Pickup Artist: Begin to practice PUA on random women who draw your attention, practice Makes Perfect but be aware this is a very dangerous step. Don’t fail "the test" and cheat! Readings: Day Bang: How to Pick Up Girls during the day & Real Secrets of PUA: A strategy that works

Dread Level 8: Demonstrations: You are getting good at flirting and in matters of love, so SHOW your wife that you are capable of talking to pretty girls in public. Ideally this is a natural extension of your PUA practice. Of course, that girl was hitting on me—do you blame her? Don’t be afraid to leave some PUA books sitting around the house. Readings: The Sex God Method & The Ironwood Collection of Alpha Moves

Dread Level 9: The Soft Ultimatum You have had enough. You have improved yourself for a year or more and are in the best shape of your life. You have read not 1-2-3 books but 10 or more. All of your skills are improved, but your wife still doesn’t respond to you. It is time to tell her exactly what you need to stay married. Readings: The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of War

Dread Level 10: The Hard Ultimatum This Level is covered in detail in Athol Kay’s book, the Mindful Attraction Plan as “Option A or Option B” and can be as basic as telling her “fuck me or fuck you.” You must have the divorce papers already drafted before you have this discussion and, NO, I am not kidding. If you are not absolutely prepared to follow through, don’t even bother going to Level 9. Readings: The Meditations of Marcus Aralias

Dread Level 11: The Hail Mary Pass If you can’t get what you need in marriage, and you have done what you can do to get it over a year or more, and you can’t leave the marriage, the solution is to get what you need outside the marriage. Readings: The Bible

Dread Level 12: Thermonuclear Tell your wife that you have a (other) girlfriend(s). Honesty from a cheater? It is controversial but what do you have to lose? Yes, I have actually seen it work several times to hold a marriage together. While I wouldn’t take the bet, there is hardly a downside by this point. No readings. We are done.

Let me post the Table of Contents with the subheadings for you: I am happy to answer any questions or respond to any comments.

Thanks again guys!

TABLE OF CONTENTS

The 12 Step Plan of Dread: Saving a Low Sex Marriage

  • Preface: Saving a Low Sex Marriage
  • Preface For Women
  • Preface For Men
  • Preface For Those of Uncertain Gender Identity or Marital Status
  • Preface for those who are planning to continue with this book no matter what I say
  • Who am I?
  • Introduction:

Chapter 1: On The Nature of Female Tests, and How to Recognize Them

  • Dread Level 1: Your Life

CHAPTER 2: How To Pass Shit Tests and Start Building Attraction Shit Test Responses in Marriage

  • Dread Level 2: Your Plan

Chapter 3: Dread and Secondary Selection

  • Dread Level 3: Your Great Mission

Chapter 4: Female Attraction Triggers

  • Dread Level 4: Options and Consequences

Chapter 5: Alphas, Betas, and Omegas and Oaks

  • Dread Level 5: The Hot Guy

Chapter 6: Game or Imitating the Alpha Dog—Fake it till you make it. * Kino1(Introduction to Touching) * Dread Level 6: Practice

Chapter 7: Displays of Value

  • Dread Level 7 “The Pickup Artist:"

CHAPTER 8: Frame

  • Dread Level 8: Demonstrations:

Chapter 9: Framing Marriage- The Captain/First Officer Model:

  • Dread Level 9: The Soft Ultimatum

Chapter 10: Covert Contracts, Nice Guys, Seduction, and Commanding Desire in Women

  • Kino2 (Touching and Physical Escalation).

  • Dread Level 10: The Hard Ultimatum: a/k/a “Option A or Option B”

Chapter 11: On Emotion

  • Dread Level 11: The Hail Mary Pass

Chapter 12: What if I am a believing Christian?

  • Dread Level 12: The Nuclear Option:

*Conclusion: Defining Victory

  • Appendix A: The Steps of Dread
  • Appendix B: The Married Red Pill Sidebar
  • Appendix C: The Titanium Rules of the Manosphere
  • Appendix D: The Rules of Poon
  • EndNotes

TLDR: DON'T GET MARRIED!!! But...if you tasted the Bitter Red Pill while still married, we have got you covered and this plan can turn things around and you will have a sweet, sexually submissive, kind, gentle, feminine sex partner. We just can't guarantee it will be your current wife.