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TL;DR - The officer who made the call did so without authorization. He was a white knight who tried to bait me into going down and incriminating myself. He was suspended without pay for a very short time, and I was told will be under strict monitoring when he returns. The LTR made sure to convey the fact that I did nothing wrong.


So I did notice that the voicemail was a little scratchy, like it came from mobile. It didn't come from a landline. I still called the LTR, noticeably pissed.

She insisted she only told them my first name, and she said, "after I realized the conclusion that they immediately came to when I said we got into a 'fight', I went stone faced and reiterated that you didn't do anything bad". She said one officer was just jotting things down, and the other was trying to extract more information about me, but she wouldn't budge.

LTR called the station with me on the other line, and had their badge numbers as identification, and once I gave them the number that called me, they confirmed it was the "interrogator" officer's cell phone. After a short pause, they said he used his company computer to search her Facebook, and get my name. From there, getting my cell number was a piece of cake. The other officer's notes confirm what the LTR said. We actually talked to him on the phone, he said he's been doing this for 20 years, he knows signs when he sees them, and we were good.

The officer was given two week's suspension without pay, and will be on heavy watch when he returns. The LTR and I will both be filling restraining orders against this officer.

This went from a lesson in not trusting women, to always being on the lookout for white knights.