For instance, I never knew there were actually women who will 'fall in love' with a guy when they hit the wall, only to subconsciously 'fall out of love' with him after a couple of years (post baby) - meaning they almost randomly picked the guy because he was willing to make kids with her-just what she needed.

Also, some women will keep you focused on the things you do wrong to subconsciously keep your focus off of the things they do wrong - instead of being fair about things and keeping a fair focus on things you could both be doing better.

Furthermore, there are women who (almost subconsciously) work with the 'never give in/never admit' strategy about several themes, such as sex, lust, anxiety, low self image, even the fact that women can be very mean in the way some of them conjure up ways to manipulate situations, for instance by using vulnerability or charm. What gives them away is when there's another woman in the receiving end of that manipulative behavior and she recognizes it and blows the other ones cover.

Another one: some women will solely hold their spouse responsible for their own libido, meaning only if he does this or that, will they 'naturally' feel inclined to have sex - instead of holding herself accountable for her level of energy/desire/admiration/respect/cooperation etc.

These are phenomena that I have had to discover on my own.

What are some you've discovered that would broaden our horizon as to 'things to avoid' about 'bad girls' (as opposed to 'bad guys' type)?

Edit: thanks for your responses, everyone even though I forgot flair.

Edit²: last one, getting oneupmanship at the cheapest possible rate: they'll make you think they've nevver done anal before, they hate it!, except, with you, it's truly the bomb! Yeh. Sure.