“What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?”

Satchmo84 · 2013-10-17T22:50:30+00:00

When I had it happen to me back in 2010, she was drunk, slapped me in the face, then threatened to slit my throat in my sleep and attacked me while I was on the phone with 911. I put her hands behind her back and had her pinned face down on the floor using my knee till the police arrived and took her away. I'm thankful I got out of that as safely as I did.

unassuming_aussie · 2013-10-17T21:56:25+00:00

Ever heard of "husband bashing bruises"? They're the bruises a woman gets along her arms from her husband defending himself against her onslaught. My ex had them all the time over the 10 years we were together (talk about beta blue pill).

That is until one day I waited until there were witnesses (she usually carried on in private or only in front of the kids), I let one through so people saw her connect, then pow, I landed a perfect uppercut that nearly knocked her out. I leaned over and said very loudly that if she ever hit me again, then she would get hit back. I then went back to my place, called the police and asked for to be charged with assault.

The cops came over to charge me, because she had called them as well thinking I'd be in the shit. They said because her story was the same as mine and the witnesses (she struck first) that the only way they could charge me was if I charged her. They were visibly upset that they couldn't legally take me away. I didn't have her charged, but she has never raised a hand or even her voice to me since (this incident happened 4 years ago).

goodtimeswithcash · 2013-10-17T21:11:40+00:00

I was SOOOO confused with the comments here, wondering if TRP had truly lost their minds. I read the title as "What do you do when a girl hits ON you?" lol

kingssman · 2013-10-17T22:57:32+00:00

when a woman hits me? Usually she ends up hurting herself, I'm a bit dense boned with rough skin.

ilovemyself101 · 2013-10-18T03:25:47+00:00

Two words: Hidden Camera.

Another two words: Hidden Witness.

In some jurisdictions it is illegal to videotape someone without their knowledge. Hidden witness may be a work around. If someone is beating you, they usually will beat you when faced with a certain stimulus. Initiate that stimulus and draw out the beating while the hidden witness observes. The hidden witness has plausible deniability. "I was just in the kitchen helping myself to a soda, and I heard an argument, went into the other room and saw her hitting him."

Three more words: Document, Document, Document.

As soon as someone abuses you, they declare war on you. You must defend yourself by any and all means that will actually work. With women, it's tricky because the law is SEXIST and biased in favor of them, even if they are abusive.

redpillschool · 2013-10-17T19:04:31+00:00

Mind you, this is the good men project, which is basically a bullshit site, but this story is worth a read. Relevant link from Vox: http://alphagameplan.blogspot.com/2013/10/what-to-do-when-girl-hits-you.html

2013-10-18T03:12:17+00:00

Fuck, totally forgot about this / repressed this memory. Like 10 plus years ago I caught my high school "first love" hooking up with a guy at a house party. We were together for 3 years prior and our dream was to get the fuck out of our shitty neighborhoods and situations. Well, it happened but not as how I imagined it. I was 20, she was 17, and he was 28. I was so beta I don't really even blame her for playing me the way she did.

Well, I get her in my car and go for a drive all the while trying to "work things out" (the fuck was I thinking). I park and attempt to "win her back" and she was just not having it, obviously. She started screaming for me to take her back to the party and I said no and that I was going take her home because she was drunk and drugged up (I am so lucky the cops didn't pull me over). She started hitting and punching me while I was driving back to her house. I had to stop the car again because she tried grabbing the wheel to what I assume to was an attempt to crash the car. She then did the most amazing, and by amazing I mean unfuckingbelievable, act of hate I have even had happen to me to date. She slowly put her fist to my cheek and slashed my face with a heart-shaped diamond ring, that she had begged me for, which I had bought her that Christmas.

At that moment I reached a moment of clarity. I was in university and trying to make something of myself and she was just some hood rat hanging out with other lowlifes from my shitty neighborhood. All soon to be worthless vestiges of my past. I just said "OK" and drove her back to the party.

Sad part is the clarity didn't last and I subjected myself once more to even more hurt and pain by her and THEN I was able to move on. The beta was strong with me.

She actually hit me up on Facebook a year back or so and apologized to me and thanked me for having a positive impact on her life. I was completely taken back. However karma didn't come into play, at all. She partied all through her 20's and managed to snatch up a well off guy and become a happy house wife before she lost her good looks.

ThrowAwayAlphaDelta · 2013-10-17T23:02:16+00:00

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no_game_player · 2013-10-17T21:42:53+00:00

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FuckOffSRSCunts · 2013-10-18T06:13:17+00:00

I'm totally new to this subreddit:
You contact your lawyer first, then you contact the police and have your lawyer do the speaking for you. People incriminate themselves when they talk directly to the police, because they're investigating the situation. They don't know if you're lying or not, and the justice system isn't perfect, so whoever looks more guilty is going to be found guilty.

2013-10-18T03:12:04+00:00

If a woman hit me I would LAY. HER. ASS. OUT. You want equal treatment? You hit me and I will hit you. You don't hit me, I don't hit you. Problem solved.

For the guy in this article I don't feel sorry for him. He should have outsmarted her and recorded her ridiculous behavior and taken it to the police immediately. Being someone's punching bag is not the answer, especially letting it happen in front of your kids. Those kids will never be the same after they witnessed this kind of behavior. If that didn't work, steal the kids and flee the country. Obviously this woman is not mentally stable with this behavior.

destraht · 2013-10-18T02:13:14+00:00

When I was in fourth grade a girl slapped me all of the way from her hips while I was sitting down. I stood up and punched her square in her cheek bone. She was standing up dazed and barely conscious for about ten seconds. Then we were both suspended.

redpillschool · 2013-10-17T19:26:04+00:00

What's with all the men's rights posts lately? A red pill alpha managing his relationships properly would not be in this situation in the first place. You next her before she gets crazy and/or your frame is strong enough that her craziness is not allowed to materialize.

Yes, it sucks that the legal system and society offer no protection to abused men, but the situation is exactly analogous to that of a drunk girl who gets raped walking down a dark alley: it's not your "fault" but if you take reasonable precautions and exercise good sense you won't have to deal with it.

Clauderoughly · 2013-10-18T01:19:36+00:00

Bullshit mangina site run by feminists pretending to give a fuck about mens issues.

Downvote

NahDudeFkThat · 2013-10-18T03:20:26+00:00

definitely casually, and lightly, wrestle her to the ground and neutralize her until she calms down

she'd definitely be fueled with anger and tingles tho just by getting manhandled, but if she displays this type of behavior, she's most likely fat and masculine so I'd curve her and wait til she's escorted or something

2013-10-18T04:18:00+00:00

There's no need for retaliation; grab her wrists, pin her down, be stern and say "Never hit me again". This comes naturally to me though, probably from fighting with my sister as a kid.

2013-10-18T14:05:45+00:00

I had an ex when I was 18-20 who hit me. She hit relatively hard on the arm, and I would hit her back. Of course that relationship didn't last.

"You can't hit girls!" Yeah right.

dischordiasnightmare · 2013-10-19T00:58:44+00:00

I'm all for equal treatment, and I agree with being able to hit back if you get hit.

However, guys are sooo much stronger than girls, so my only word on this would be that if you're going to hit a chick then perhaps dial it back a few notches rather than use 100% strength.

Source- Am female.

2013-10-19T02:26:07+00:00

To all people saying you just have to restrain women - you really think women learn from that shit?

"Oh I hit him and he just restrained me? OMG!!!!!"

Really?

TheD_ · 2013-10-19T07:28:19+00:00

In my own experience, I was raised by an emotionally and physically abusive mother. Her favorite past time was publicly chastising and slapping me.

In my twenties, she tried pulling that shit on me, slapped me a couple of times before getting counter-slapped. My father wanted me to apologize, but I was like nah -- and that's how I've lost contact with my parents.

Drvibe · 2013-10-19T16:19:24+00:00

thats fucked, if male or female hits me they are asking for a fight, I get knocked out, or you do. Simple.

2013-10-22T02:02:48+00:00

Just leave. It's a no-win situation.

G3T-FUKT-PHAGGOT · 2013-10-17T21:22:35+00:00

Nothing, at first.

To the idiots saying

"same thing as when a man does it"

You're implying that men and women are to be treated in similar ways, that's the opposite of RedPill thinking.

I'm fortunate enough to have never been in that situation. Usually a woman who's psycho enough to hit a guy without a reasonable cause will be giving off red flags way before physical violence has a chance to occur, and you should be avoiding those types.

If I did find myself in that situation, it would depend on why the woman is hitting me. Did I do something stupid like hit her first, smack her dog or kill her entire family? If so I understand where she's coming from and I take whatever flailing punches her little arms throw at me.

If it's over some bullshit like forgetting to take out the trash, not washing my dish or forgetting our anniversary, I play defense, but I'd never actively aim to seriously hurt a woman, if I can help it.

rapey_raperson · 2013-10-17T19:59:58+00:00

Same thing you do when a guy hits you. Just make sure you get the whole thing on video, because otherwise you'll probably go to jail.

2013-10-17T22:50:03+00:00

If a woman EVER hit me, I would take her fucking car and crash it into a barricade. no respect

Geofferey · 2013-10-17T22:05:42+00:00

Men should be respected and feared, as the proper leaders we are. We gain nothing if we knowingly give women power. Their strength is really ours. So as simply as we gave out, we can easily take back.

Everything depends on the frame and its integrity. I pray for the marine.

IllimitableMan · 2013-10-17T20:03:01+00:00

The first thing that entered my head was "slap the bitch, hold eye contact and then tell her you're going to fuck her for being a bad girl"

mheyk · 2013-10-18T05:47:08+00:00

Proof read your shit next time Marine I felt like I was reading a article from a down syndrome kid

2013-10-17T21:13:32+00:00

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Title	“What Do You Do When A Girl Hits You?”
Author	redpillschool
Upvotes	75
Comments	99
Date	October 17, 2013 7:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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