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Who The Fuck Are You?

August 31, 2018

Every week we get a field report in, convoluted theory, or some question that always talks to the point of woman. How to fuck them, get them, did I do good, why is my dick green, HOLY SHIT what is this growth, or my favorite. I suck I can't do better.....blah blah blah.

Listen. Before you go any further in reading this post take a deep breath and remember who the fuck you are.

You are a man. Your goals are for you and developing who you are and what you want to do. Women, sex, the lifestyle are results of your hardwork. Everything else is building a more interesting you. Most of you think you are climbing the ladder. You aren't. You are trying to get to the ladder. Once you've internalized the Pill then you can climb the fucking ladder. So relax, monkey boy, you aren't even there yet.

Some of you keyboard warriors are likely pouring your guts out here looking for a kernel of advice or that iching and suddenly it will make sense. I know. I did it. Most have done it and many still do. Sorry, bub, doesn't work that way. This is the research center, your library. You need to get out there and learn. You need to develop who you are. A more interesting you. Have to do something cool in your life right? Your stories will be yours and you can establish the price of telling them. Your stories and experiences are not free. One day you will sit on your porch and smile at the shit you did. No one else did it. Maybe you will tell people, maybe you won't. I don't tell all my stories. Few have gained that level of access.

My boys are doing more than their peers who are playing video games and talking Call of Duty. My kids? They live it. At 13 my youngest has a SCUBA License and has dived up to 90 feet. The Non Profit organization he belongs to is contracted by other organizations to perform diving operations for them. This summer he has learned and executed underwater construction techniques and built amazing shit underwater. He has also mapped and explored ship wrecks for the local government to turn into tourist spots. This is at 13.

My oldest at 16 just got his pilot's license through Civil Air Patrol with 120 flight hours. He is search and rescue qualified and has helped the FAA several times. Spending his summers on Air Force bases and training he has 200 hours or more on Air Force jet simulators. Most recently he had to land a plane on a solo flight when its instruments went out.

He is also attending a local Community college that created a high school program. He will leave in 2 years (3 total started when he was 15) with a High School diploma and a paramedic license. Oh did I mention no college tuition? Paid for by the public schools. His intent is to join the military but I have taught him to cultivate many options. He has listened.

These kids at their ages have experiences and training no one else in their group has. They have heard some of my stories and I push them to develop theirs. What are doing to make yourself more interesting and a cut above? What are you doing?

You can waste your time worrying about her. Wondering at red flags, at vetting, at all those things. When you are missing the trees for the forest. It's not about any of it. It's about you. What you will and will not put up with. What you want to do and how you go about doing it. Don't misunderstand you will end up leaving some seemingly fantastic women behind. They won't be able to keep up. Will you slow down?

Some of you have real life obstacles in your way. I get that. I offer this advice:

My drill sergeant used to tell us there are 3 ways to handle an obstacle on the battlefield.

  1. Go over it.
  2. Go around it.
  3. Go through it.

Not one of those tells you to turn around and go back.

The best advice I got in my first few months of understanding the Red Pill was this:

I am a ship at sea. Women are the barnacles. Some stay longer than others, either way I have a destination and I am headed that way.

What's your destination?

Who the fuck are you?

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Title Who The Fuck Are You?
Author ReddJive
Upvotes 956
Comments 127
Date August 31, 2018 2:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 413 points414 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

So i'm not the only one who got fed up with trp becoming seddit 2

[–]RedForEducation 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Seddit As in sex is a big goal, or as in 'useless platitudes to cope with not getting laid' seddit

[–]rigbed-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Seddit needs more action. Stop using TRP for stuff that belongs there.

[–]1Mr_Badass112 points113 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Most young men need a hobby that they're passionate about. Having a hobby encourages you to focus on improving yourself or your skills.

[–]InsulinDaddy15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would argue that literally anyone should start a martial art he is passionate about

Could be boxing, grappling, karate like I care

But man it makes you calm in stressed situations, teaches you humility and is great for discipline

Just don't go to a meme gym

[–]Devoidoxatom2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Only thing i regret is not doing it earlier. Got one year left of college(i hope so lol) before i joined the judo club.

[–]Arabian_Wolf43 points44 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm planning to go back to LEGO brick building and painting, my childhood hobbies and perhaps they'll lead me to my purpose in life.

[–]1mrthrowaway41331 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I started learning guitar and piano, scuba diving, intramural soccer, and founded a fraternity when I was 18 starting college.

Also, people here shit on video games. I play rocket league and we have an Esports team, I won a nice scholarship for it and have more money ahead. I just tell girls I get scholarship money playing a video game and hold frame, and they find it interesting.

You need really believe in what you enjoy.

Im now 20 and life has never been so good.

I cannot recommend getting hobbies enough.

[–]1Your_Coke_Dealer8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lego got me into the field of design and engineering, for what it’s worth

[–]Toastlove106 points107 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

One day you will sit on your porch and smile at the shit you did. No one else did it.

I ignore the stuff here about getting women, most of its cringey and hard to read. If you make a good life for yourself, you won't struggle to get women.

[–]matiasibarra2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah, I used to read it a lot but now is just a shit show, sometimes you find a good post like this and it's like water in the desert

[–]excelwithexcel62 points63 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

What organization let's 13yr olds receive overhead training? Or the maping you're speaking about is just coordinate wise?

And construction you mean like lift bags training required for AOW?

Cave diver here

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 39 points40 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Navy sea cadets.

I dont understand all that it is. They worked with other hard Hats and were likely doing grunt work and smaller jobs. Still big stuff for a kid.

I intentionally stay out. Merely a proud dad. I find it important for them to learn leadership under other men as well as me.

[–]excelwithexcel18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Cool. Not familiar with their programs. Scuba has been great for me. Lots of great experiences and people.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm blown away by it. Being army the Jr rotc programs are jokes. Sea cadets has done amazing things for him.

[–]excelwithexcel15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I did Jr rotc and rotc in college. Was alright. Nothing mind-blowing. It's great that you him learning those skills early. Lots of scuba diving tasks require a clear head and critical thinking skills + teamwork. Because you actually need them underwater. I'm land locked now though, so pilots license is next.

My parents gave me these opportunities when I was younger but I spent it on video games and drugs instead, funny how once I became an adult they pulled my interest once again.

[–]Cheeseking11 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy Link

Huh? You talk shit about raising your kids to be skilled but you’re no different than a lazy dad dropping them off at daycare then fucking off for the day based on your reply! What have you done to impart skills on your kids instead of handing them over to better men who do?

Who the fuck are you?

[–]theXald14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Your reply sounds reads as if you read his post, took personal offense to it, and replied with a preteen level "comeback". There was a point to the whole thing and that wasn't it

[–]modTheRedPike[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who the fuck are you?

An EC. Chill the fuck out.

[–]voxiqs170 points171 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ put down the caveman coffee

Good job on the parenting though, sounds like great kids with a great mentor. I really wish my Dad had been involved in my life and can’t wait to do it right

[–]Rian_Stone117 points118 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

Meh, plenty of dads have failed. At some point ya gotta just do what he failed to.

TRP, for the whole, is here because the last 3 generations failed to answer 'how do you make men in the modern world?'.

we gave boomers/silents/genxers enough time to fuck it up, we got it from here

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I love the last line, gave me a chill, lol. Yeah, it's about time I said it - "Get off my case, Dad, I done given you enough time to fuck up. I got it from here."

[–]Rian_Stone27 points28 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Words are cheap, don't say a word, it would only be for validation or shitlfting ones self ownership anyways

[–]Chitlinsandgravy2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I read your "shifting" typo as shitlifting. As in a form of mental masturbation. I like it.

[–]Rian_Stone0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

God bless this stupid fucking phone

[–]Chitlinsandgravy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It works tho. Unexpected gold.

[–]ArchetypicalDegen0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol same, and I really like it as a term to describe artificially building yourself up inside your head.

[–]Chitlinsandgravy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That was my interpretation. Definitely using it from now on.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I understand that. I meant more of telling him that in my head anyway, not irl. I ain't got time for his shit rationalizations to actually have that conversation, lol.

Thanks for the heads up anyway, appreciate that.

[–]friendlynaboureeno4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I got a couple questions. What generation is silents? and whats the current generation called? the ones after millenials - the worst generation

[–]VoxVirilis4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Silents are the generation that were alive during world war 2 but too young to fight in it.

[–]Rian_Stone4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link


Don't take it literal,.I'm illustrating a point

[–]friendlynaboureeno0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

take what literally?

apparently Im a millenial, which doesnt make any sense seeing as i was born in 85. I dont and cant even have conversations with millenials, there just glued to there damn phone

[–]2dfx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Many names for them

Gen Z, the iGeneration, the YouTube generation etc

[–]hearse22321 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I used to always be perplexed watching cartoons where the Dad tries his hardest to bond with the son who doesn't want to go fishing or on trips and shit.

​Why the fuck wouldn't you want to do cool shit with your Dad?

​I hope all the teenagers in this sub realize that those efforts your father is making to bond is only to give you experiences he probably didn't have.

[–]1empatheticapathetic7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's all sorts of reasons. Shame on the side of the son. Poor social skills on the side of the dad or the son. A poor perception drilled into the son by other people (mother etc). My dad always used to want to take me for a run or eat food with me and stuff like that but he really had no interest in my life so i just always said no. He never understood why we never gelled and neither did i tbh. One reason can throw lots of things off. I hated sports as well because i bullied by the type of people who were sporty. So we just didn't click. Now i am basically my dad but not as much of a boss (working on it).

[–]Jlewis123112 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"If our father's are our role models for God, and our father's bail? What does that say about God?" -Tyler Durden

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

TRP just gets masculine man. It's like when the boys fight even fist fight, but still have mutual respect for each other. 99% men society in a way lol

Lol, it gets funny seeing TRP men going full cave man. Think if an entire society like this.

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_LOOSE_ASS16 points17 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Hes not graduating with a paramedic liscense. Hes graduating as an EMT basic. Which is like a slightly more qualified first aid.

I'm a paramedic in the US who teaches the EMT-B class in a high school.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I thought the same.

As I am also a medic (volunteer at local fire department) I looked into it.

they sure enough do get one. It's not national. State only. They receive the EMT in the first year then move on through. It's a 3 year course

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_LOOSE_ASS2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ah I was assuming NREMT. If your state has different requirements then good job.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep. I thought it odd too but it's the colleges response to the medic shortage in our state. Even still I think it's a bit risky to put an 18 year old behind a rig.

It's a new program so I've been talking it up to those I know. Drivers programs need to get far more serious than they are.

[–]PM_ME_YOUR_LOOSE_ASS2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Which state if you don't mind me asking?

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

One important takeaway from this is that young men without strong and effective fathers struggle to get through daily life, slowly reinvent themselves, and then work to catch up, while young men with strong and effective fathers hit the ground running.

[–]Gl0weN31 points32 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

This can very well be a new copy pasta that replaces the ''im tracking your ip as we speak I finished top of my class and have over 3k kills.''

Yes it's that stupid.

[–][deleted] 28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Started off making a very valid point about how you need a destination, life experiences and how important being an interesting man is but all that cringe son shit lost me...

My boys are doing more than their peers who are playing video games and talking Call of Duty. My kids? They live it.

Couldn't take this post seriously after this.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

theredpill is dating advice from cringelords to cringelords

[–]macheagle13 points14 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

OP, as much as your post resonates with me I just need to clarify one thing - I’m a pilot and also in the CAP. The federal minimum age to be eligible for a PPL is 17. At 16, your kid at most could have legally only soloed. I’m sure he is well on his way to his PPL, no doubt.

Thought I should make this clear for those who may be interested in the aviator’s path and so that there’s no inadvertent misinformation on that end.


[–]randomTATRP0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What? My friend has been doing PPLPPLR since he was 15.

[–]Tylerdeedot22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

i don't care about your kids, dog

[–]Burt_9339 points40 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little shit? Ill have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and Ive been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and Im the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. Youre fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and thats just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little clever comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldnt, you didnt, and now youre paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. Youre fucking dead, kiddo.

[–]Gingham_Argile-3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah. Whatever dude. You missed the point completely.

All of the SEALs I have known would never speaker of their work or profession the way you have in this post. I question the quiet professional you are espouse to be.

Either, way go get wet.

[–]IFap2PoolPartyDraven12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not sure if you're 3 steps ahead of me and you're being sarcastic or if you're not and that actually went over your head.

[–]confusedguy91191116 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

None of the posts about woman(conquerors ,or slut shaming) are worth much as a stand alone topic on TRP and for that matter any singled out redpill theory to latch on to for life purpose .The fundamental take away for RP is having purpose , for yourself .I tend to believe for men this can be learnt easier than for woman ,not because they are inferior intellectually but because of how society has been laid out.

To be a man there is no check box chart, every one of us will do it differently,as long as forward movement(purpose ) is happening we are doing it right.One guy can lift,work ,build furniture or old cars , raise his kids and learn something new every month.Another can not lift at all but read a book a day , grow plants , swim or jog for training and not have a family at all.The whole point is not to stay stagnant,not to feel victimized that the world is too hard,and to have self respect .Never letting anyone take those things from you is what makes you a better man, and to the OPs point ,it makes you “who the fuck you are “, an individual not a follower.

Men are designed for logical behavior, this site opens your eyes to what most don’t see ( even the 1000’s) of posts a month on how a woman fucked over some guy or cheated has some take away if your paying attention.Its like reading mini books on what to look for out there in our complicated world.If your still unsure what to look for keep reading them,if you chose to ignore the information,deal with the consequences first hand and learn that way.Being bitter towards things that haven’t worked out for you and inhaling the all mighty woman are evil and beta men are ruining society stuff, only further prevents you from seeing your potential .Be above paying attention to this shit constantly, learn it yes , then move on with the knowledge of it like a tool in your aresenal.

As an older member (early 40’s) the only information I can guaranty to you young guys out there that is 100% flawless ..... time on this planet is really short , don’t waste it on Woman only , anymore than you would waste it figuring out why the universe is infinite.Live everyday like it was your last and ENJOY it ,don’t try figuring out everything it’s exhausting and purposeless.

[–]beachbbqlover 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

I heard that specialization is for ants. At 35, I'm on my 3rd career. I have been responsible for more than 100 servers at a bank, was lock-out authority for a refinery shutdown, and wrote a JITC. Now I'm about to build my own house.

I'm also on my 3rd kid, and had an 8 year marriage, a 2 year LTR, and a 10 year LTR between the other ones. You'll notice there's a math problem in there. But I have been monogamous for the last several years.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 30 points31 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Some of you will find that an example. Some of you will call that small. But that's what I've done.

The title of the post was specifically chosen. It's either a question or statement. Depends on your ego.

Who the fuck you are is up to you to judge. No one else.

[–]Dabunghole12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a great father. I’m glad some people are driving their sons to become men; fatherhood has become a lost art. Have them pass it on to the next generation as they get older.

[–]Pope_Lucious23 points24 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Seriously though, why is my dick green?

[–]omega_fat15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Stop sticking it into pesto you pervert.

[–]Pope_Lucious6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pesto enemas are the only thing that make me feel alive anymore tho.

[–]HierEncore14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's all relative.

The meaning of life is what you want it to be. It is very possible that it has none. We are just a group of subatomic particles that happen to form in a way to give us perceived sentient thought and abilities for a short time. But so do microbes and viruses. It's pretty narcissistic to assume that there must be meaning to our lives.

[–]4matting4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The saying is "missing the forest for the trees", not "missing the trees for the forest".

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] -3 points-2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It is.

But think about it and you'll gain some understanding

[–]4matting3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What you're saying is "missing the details for the big picture". Are you critiquing the reader, or giving him an advice to follow?

If it's the later, then I agree.

[–]onehabala20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like you are raising some privileged fuckers, nice brag. Good luck chasing women with your empty goals and whatever else you convinced yourself adds real value to your life. You really are interesting, but not in any good way. Somethings missing here.

[–]Lontar478 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Heading into my first powerlifting meet next month, this is what I needed to hear to help me embrace the fear and channel it into excitement.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Did my first last month. It was a strong man competition. Not a bad showing. Training for my next in December

Success to you

[–]Flying_Wingback6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

“Success to you” sounds so much better than “good luck”

[–]Lontar473 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks, man. My gym is equipped for strongman and I've trained a few of the movements. Hats off to the level of work it takes to compete.

[–]SpaderAce2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love this subreddit because it seems like any time something happens in my life, or I get rejected, I receive exactly the type of encouragement in a post I needed in that moment. I recently forgot to focus on my life and what I wanted, but I'm back to my mission. This post helped me remember that.

[–]TheBadGoy20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I hope I don't get banned for this but fuck it... OP humblebragging and telling millennials to man up won't do shit. TRP has been overtaken by young guys and they are a whole different breed compared to older generations. So you won't understand the existential crisis they suffer, I've been here since this sub had 10000 subs so I understand the insanity and nihilism that TRP and the absolute truth can bring to you. You need to drop the drill sergeant act and dig a bit deeper into the millennial mindset and culture.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They came here. The message doesn't need to be watered down.

[–]surfingjesus21 points22 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

My oldest at 16 just got his pilot's license through Civil Air Patrol with 120 flight hours.

Uh huh...

[–]DeeJay_Roomba9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Also, to be fair, you can get solo privileges (within 10 NM of your home airport) at 16 not under CAP.

Source: Me, young pilot.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

CAP allows 16 as long he flies under them. He cannot just walk on any airport and fly

[–]Paralegallyblonde 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

You sound like a great dad! I wonder how your daughters would be if you had them? Would you have emphasized different things or just encouraged her to develop and pursue her own interests?

[–]Gobraves442 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Are you married? You didn’t mention this in your post. Do you not try and make wife happy at all? Genuinely asking.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

To the first. Yes for another 7 months.

To second. No. Not my job

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I needed to hear this. Thank you

[–]TheStoicCrane2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am a ship at sea. Women are the barnacles. Some stay longer than others, either way I have a destination and I am headed that way.

Funny isn't it? Alot of men make the barnacles their destination. Such a waste of fuel.

[–]idobermanlover1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

1.Go over it. 2.Go around it. 3.Go through it. Will you please elaborate this what does that really mean here? I don't know anything about military.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Should be pretty self explanatory. What do you do when there's something in the road blocking your path?

The hardest one to understand is go through it What that means is blow it up. Put some C4 to that bitch and nuke it sky high.

The same reasoning can be applied to obstacles in your life. Most obstacles in our life are put there by our own ego. If we put them there we can remove them. If you didn't put them there, you have other options at your disposal.

[–]Menchstick1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah man but my dick is still green, I'm kinda starting to freak out.

[–]awakeningthecat3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ. Don't break an arm jerking yourself off.

[–]OfficerJohnMaldonday 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

My god you sound like a cunt

[–]TheApexMindset2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Awesome post man, screenshotted the section about about overcoming obstacles!

[–]Zgredu 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

None of your business but I know for sure that you are a loser who has to vent out his rage on dumb subreddits

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I am the only thing Conor McGregor ever defended. Who am I?

[–]bowhunter60 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great post. You've really been on a roll lately.

[–]Aloongish0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with this post. Everything we have, own, is really up to us. It’s never the external factors. The external is trying to help you. This states that people shouldn’t get angry at whoever just because he/she didn’t want to do it. That’s just entitled mindset. There are child geniuses like Mozart, Sarah Chang, Bobby Fischer, and lots other people. We have to keep working our goal and not give up. I would suggest to everyone just to find their strength and work on it. Also, don’t be too hard on yourself either. Just try your best and see how to improve. Also, do not compared yourself with other people. There will always be people that are better than you in certain areas.

[–]nester790 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Good post. I agree with your train of thought. Men need to stop living for women to get laid and live for themselves. Getting laid will come with it.

My dad was military and raised me the same way. Learn to be resourceful and survive, then make the world better and stay useful.

I worked in college while running track and eventually ended up as a trauma surgeon. I now work part time only to donate time to overseas disaster areas and train for triathlons. Getting laid was far from my mind when I had a goal to achieve. After achieving my goals getting laid was never that hard.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Your close yet you are falling into the trap of "not my priority right now".

Wrong thinking. yet there is hope. I am working on that post right now as it is a valuable discussion and a skill I see young men are not taught any more.

As a military brat you may recognize the mantra I am about to throw out. Stand by. More to follow.

[–]nester790 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not too much of a military brat. I stayed in San Diego most of my life and my dad was an oncologist in the hospital there.

[–]yammyha0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Race motorcycles at the track and become a fearless man! Check out the track day subreddit !

[–]rockyp320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You sound like a great father developing ur kids in a great way. I think you right you see a lot of people that are very successful and sociable and what did they do? They spent a lot of time working on themselves and creating themselves. I think nowadays most people don’t get that when they should be improving or developing they look at social media play video games smoke weed or ignore it. I’m mostly one of those people but I’m trying to improve myself

[–]digital_dreams0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You the someone would do that? Just get on the internet and tell lies?

[–]sashank100 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Now this is something i needed to read !!! Amazing post.

[–]wanderer2319880 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most of members here are struggling to feel like a MAN. They try to fill the void with women. My opinion - it takes time. Regardles of accomplishments, I have seen very few guys younger then 30 who are mature and experienced in life.

But today everything has to be fast and now so this line of thought is rarely to be seen around here.

Also, all this young guys here talking about women - what else should they talk about at 19 or 20? I think it is perfectly healthy thing.

[–]TheCreatorOfCritical0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Your kids sound like future successes but most parents aren't like you. That's why most kids end up procrastinating life until their mid twenties or thirties even these days. I'm not naysaying you, I'm just saying we don't all have that same guidance and learning it on your own in the midst of of call of duty and meaningless school drama is challenging or undoable for many. I'm 20 and currently planning a small business but I was not the outgoing type in my early years and parents consoled me rather than telling me to get off my ass. Some of us just aren't wired that way. Or I should say some of us don't get wired that way by our parents. But we all have the ability to self develop and succeed.

[–]tempolaca0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

As a single father that's struggling with his kid education, are you married? do you get help from their mother?

My kid's mother basically dissapeared and it's very hard to do work, raise my kid and do basic stuff like clean/do dishes, etc. Not mentioning actually getting any women.

[–]Endorsed ContributorReddJive[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

are you married?

I am but not for much longer.

do you get help from their mother?

No. Why do I need it?

raise my kid and do basic stuff like clean/do dishes, etc. Not mentioning actually getting any women.

This is a mistake. You don't need to directly mention Red Pill until they are much older and able to research on their own but not talking about the principles is a mistake. young boys are far more receptive to direct and blunt truths than older men/boys.

there is a sub for Red Pill fathering, i haven't posted there until i saw results from my efforts. This weekend I plan on posting my methods for others to read.

[–]Cloudsurf89[🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Excellent - nail on the head right there. It's all about having vision and acting towards it. Post more please

[–]MGTOW-Academy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, I wish my parents would support my dreams :( Props to you for being supportive!👍

[–]Sajutsu0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Finally a post that isn’t bragging about banging a plate, lucking out using TRP on oneitis, deep as a shallow puddle philosophy and how to AMOG I wanna be an alpha

This subreddit has devolved so much since those flooded this place

[–]TheGodHunter-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

One of best posts up here so far.

[–]2Stoned0Jaguar9deux-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I hear thay. These girla can give a fuck about our shit until it means something to them. They might as tell us " who the fuck are you" while we are coming up.

[–][deleted] -5 points-4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't know but I know damnit!

I'm a God loving man who thinks about sin daily with a high monkey sex drive like my dad. Dang, but the women are messed up making it harder to think about marriage as a God believing man...

[–]bowhunter63 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What the fuck are you babbling about?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, not that high of a sex drive. It's genetic though.

In a society where sex sells and woman are bitchy making marriage harder, makes me think. Who am I as a supposed Christian? High sex drive, Christianity, fucked up society, and marriage isn't an easy mix.

[–]jalo392 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

interesting answer

[–]ToiletPaperPringles-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for this post seriously. I’m quite young (probably for this subreddit) and this subreddit kind of helps me see what type of future I want to have. I’m doing everything I can to do things I want and more. I volunteered for my local hospital, went Army Cadets and even did Duke of Edinburgh Award this summer while my friends stayed home and played video games all night. I’m going to get friends my mindset or just me if it benefits me, but in this generation, can you really? Anyways, thank you for the post. Really inspiring.

[–]ddjdjjdjtdjjddjjd-5 points-4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone get this man a father of the year award!

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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