first post here after being on ask trp. was going to put this there as a question but i feel like it belongs here more.

before i found the red pill, my grandfather told me a valuable thing that to this day i stick to, " work is for money get your money and leave everything else not related to it for outside". so after swallowing the pill in november of last year, seeing that this was a main rule of the red pill made my transition into this lifestyle alot easier and i got to see first hand why my grandfather said this to me.

so now like 6 years after my first job (27 now btw as a cook ) im now seeing why not shitting where you eat is a good idea. your work place, while everyone by age is an adult, employs childern at heart.

  • you smash a co worker? the whole department knows about it.

  • you go drinking after work? (while this one is debatable since sone will say this doesnt count), the whole building is telling stories about how you are an alcoholic.

  • or better yet you tried shooting your shot like prime kobe and airballed like rookie kobe? you are now known as that creep who really thought ill (the girl) go out with him.

  • hell at times you dont even need to be dating the girl for rumors to fly

do i even have to go into all the sexual harassment/rape bs? don't need to get your self into unneeded trouble and hassle. its not worth it bros.

shit like this makes work in my eyes a elevated school. not college, but grade school. all the simple minded bs but now you're being paid.

now this is when the newer crowd and BP/betas come in like , "BUT XT3M3.... YOU GOTTA TAKE 1 SHOT MAN. YOU ARE MISSING OUT ON ALL THE EASY PUSSY. ITS NOT ALL BAD DUDE".

and you're right there been some cases of good. but why do we always have to wait for the bad to happen to learn. then again im sure waiting for the bad is why some of us found TRP to change our ways. is that so?

back on topic tho, the same guys who push the date at work b.s. only seem to do it cause its easier to game those who you work with than those random girls out side. to further prove this, i have 2 guys who are mad at me at work cause i naturally attract girls without really doing anything. while they go the next mile and get rejected, then they get mad when i tell them im not fucking them or etc. these same guys call me a bitch and etc when i stand my ground. but then when we do things after work, and girls give them iois ( much better looking girls than those at our job) they act scared to do anything and lets them get away.

why not use all that energy you use trying to smash that cashier, to get girls thats not going to cause you hell or issuses at work? alot less stressful as well as you dont have to see this person everyday and should shit hit the fan it will never reach your job. since i started this job every girl i fucked/dated have been outside of my job atm i have 2 plates and working on adding 1 more i met at a festival. while breaking 1 recently who is trying to come back.

so tell me why are you still shitting where you eat? is it worth it? no. stop lying to your self if you think it is. you are causing yourself more headache by being in a fake "marriage" with a girl you're seeing everyday while putting your rep on the line. and robbing yourself of an actual challenge of gaming girls outside.

if you really want thst work babe, don't pull a carmelo anthony and force action (a trade) wait for the offseason to make a move , (either you leave the job or she does first.) before you shoot your shot