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Why I did the right thing and not listened the advice on AskTrp (newbie learning by pain)

August 22, 2020

I posted a thread (now deleted) a few weeks ago about my ex-GF wanting to rebound with me. In my mind I could achieve great things as she was willing to do much to be with me. I wanted to meet other girls and her to be exclusive to me. Almost every guy trashed me for digging out the trash, I didn't listened as I could have a "perfect" relationship with a submissive hot caring girl AND have freedom to better myself.

Of course the majority of advice was right about not digging the trash, but I'm glad I did what I did so I could swallow the pill and stop being a bitch. If I didn't went on with this stupid idea I would always thought she was a great person and I was wrong about dumping her.

I told her I would only be with her in those conditions, and of course I could've convinced her better, but in any way she refused. Cried, fainted, etc.

12 hours pass and she sends me a message, I was toxic and blablabla, and she was for the past 3 months a cam whore, and said she was afraid to tell me. She send the link to her stream and I deleted right away. Well, guess what, I thought she was doing exactly that to get money... Well well;

The funniest things are:

  • We literally didn't worked out because because prior to me she was a whore and lied about her past, causing me to forever have a strange feeling about who she really was

  • She said that being a cam whore she met (online people I presume) that recognizes a real woman and even pays for it! It's funny how she honestly thinks she deserves money and being treated as a queen just by being a woman.

  • Maybe if she was upfront about all, I wouldn't mind her milking money from incels and whatnot, I would not even bother being her pimp, but she preferred lying to her "perfect boyfriend"

Bottom line: AWALT, RedPill is truth even if you don't want to take it, thrust your guts, don't stop learning, society is f'up, don't be captain save a hoe.

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Title Why I did the right thing and not listened the advice on AskTrp (newbie learning by pain)
Author ForeverInYou
Upvotes 24
Comments 19
Date August 22, 2020 4:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/TheRedPill
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/why-i-did-the-right-thing-and-not-listened-the.168623
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[–]TecnoParadox38 points39 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

There is no right or wrong choice. Listen to the advice given, grasp it to the best of your abilities but never blindly trust anyone’s word.

You alone will face all of the hardships of the decision made.

Ultimately only you are accountable to your life.

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah you're right, in any way we're so much ready as we can be. We're here to learn.

[–]StrongWamyn2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You need to be the top upvoted comment. So many people here are giving OP (u/ForeverInYou) so much closed minded egotistical BS advice...

OP u/TecnoParadox is giving you the right message listen!

[–]metalzforbreakfast35 points36 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

I feel like this was written by an autist lmao

[–]redhorndog33 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

An autist who learnt his lesson.

[–]EPArt11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This that's the most important part.

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 6 points7 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Lol tell me why bro, I want to improve my writing

[–]seanconneryfan_6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

It's not the writing, it's the content. As soon as you say that she's been a cam whore for 3 months, the reader places a judgement on you as being foolish because it took you that long to realize. Because there were definitely clues that you missed. And, on the off chance there wasn't, we still think you're foolish because you don't have the common sense to realize you fucked up majorly in an embarrassing way and chose to share it here, instead of take it to the grave as an embarrassing fuck up. If you really wanted to share this in a way where people don't perceive you as foolish, I would suggest changing the story to you found out she was cheating on you for 3 months instead of cam girl. That's more relatable and not as judgement-worthy.

[–]Afraid of WomenCormandragon14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hey man, I agree with what you're saying that if a woman that OP was interested in saw this it would end whatever they had going. But this guy is opening up and sharing his mistake for critique on a public forum I don't think he should have lied about what happened at all. Owning it shows masculinity and the first step to owning it is yeah it happened, it won't again. Gotta remember we're all strangers on the internet and you should never let a random stranger dictate your life.

[–]seanconneryfan_2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is rationalization for being viewed as autistic. Reread the comment chain- OP asked why people think he’s autistic. I broke down the social dynamics/subtext for him and now you’re saying “Hey man, it’s okay to be autistic on the internet. One love”. If you act autistic on the internet, more often than not, you’re doing it in real life too. Your reply is blue pill, a la “just be yourself”

[–]ForeverInYou[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I actually not that comfortable writing long texts, so I shorted things up. The story is much more complex, she was a whore only before I met her and only discovered the fact when we broke up our 6 month relationship. I only had 'strange feelings' that she was not who she said she was.

Months passed and she wanted to reconnect, I was treating her like a plate, at this time I sensed some things that were also strange. I thought she was being a camgirl or simply a prostitute or something, even tho I didn't had ANY proof, only my gut feeling. This is why the moral of the story was to thrust your guts and so on.

Of course, even with this info we all know I could've done better, this is not an excuse, only an P.S.

I really appreciate your comment, I'll work better on painting a better picture in the future, thanks brother.

[–]StrongWamyn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude don't waste your time "painting a better picture in the future" this guy is on some 'I'm an "APHA-MALE" who never shows weakness EGO stroking non-sense'

I don't care if every guy on TRP thinks I'm a cock-sucking bootlicking commie tweeker... I'm not on here to make dudes think I'm cool... I'm not here to climb some internet points e-peen social hierarchy.

I get sex, AND I'm vulnerable with both women and men. I don't care if every person on the planet thinks I'm an Autist, I judge by results. If my dick is wet, my relationships are solid, and I have a good life then I could not, and YOU should not, give two slimy wet hott shits what some dude LARPing as an ALPHA-MALE!!!!! on a semi-anonymous board thinks...

For all you know dude is an INCEL commie sjw snowflake sowing disinformation. I'm NOT saying he is, most likely he's not. My point is you have no way of vetting his advice as good... You also have no way of vetting my Advice...

So the conclusion should be: 1. Trust nothing implicitly 1. Assume EVERYONE is an idiot, or acting in bad-faith 2. Consider (vet) all advice carefully 3. Test all ideas/theories/etc... rigorously to see see if they net good results 4. Discard and or modify as needed 5. Share what you learned unfiltered (stay safe: DOXXing/LEGAL ISSUES) so you may receive an honest critique and improve youself/life further

P.S. Don't explain yourself to people stroking their ego making lazy single word critiques 'autist'. Anyone who has no nuance in criticism lacks nuance in thought...

[–]2Beegoop1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thrust your gut bro.

[–]Keith_Valentine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Trust your gut before you thrust her guts.

[–]arakouzo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It sounds like the advice you were given was a correct assessment of your situation, but by not listening to the advice of men who knew better than you, you were able to experience their correctness first hand.

That fact that you thought The Red Pill was wrong and you were possibly right about your girlfriend and had to see for yourself isn't a virtue. You wasted time and energy and emotional resources going down this road, and for what? Because you didn't want to always wonder whether you were right or not?

The real lesson isn't that the woman sucked and the men who told you she sucked were right. That's not the point at all.

The point is that if you're the kind of man who can get other women easily, it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong about this specific woman. You just get a gut feeling or don't like something about her, and you move on. Because there are always other women. If you happen to be wrong about a woman, so what? It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, fair or unfair, because there are other women. If you are an attractive man who can get laid easily, all women can be replaced, and it really doesn't matter if you are right or wrong about any of them.

Sure, this specific woman sucked. So what? You shouldn't have had time to find out because you should have been in bed with another woman by then.

[–]trollreign0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Note to readers: please do NOT thrust your guts!

[–]mrsammysam0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Biggest load of bullshit I've read but the point is correct.

[–]nothingtimestwo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bruh your ex wants to rebound with you and your first thought is this is an opportunity to get with her and still be able to fuck all you want. She makes money through sex work and SHE’S the whore? How fucking hypocritical can you be? This is sad honestly lmao.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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