I’ve noticed something super dumb, my mom has a preference for helping out random chicks more than me, I don’t know if it’s female nature or what, but I’m her son, her own flesh and blood and it pisses me off.

For context I’m 19 M living at home, trying to figure my shit out going to college (taking a break right now for mental health reasons).

As an example I was seeing this chick at work like 6 months ago, long story short I invited her over and tried to escalate once or twice, my mom went into my room every time and put a stop to it, lucky break my mom leaves for 20 minutes to go to work and I still try we make out and some hand holding type shit but the girl isn’t feeling it, whatever (later on I found the girl was psycho and I was a dumbass).

My moms ended up giving this other chick strategies to get the edge on me, coming from the girl herself.

She’s done this type of stuff for most of my life growing up, always was the super overbearing/overprotective type.

Right now I’m selling all of my shit, dating around, going to hitchhike around for a bit and find myself in a few months, planning to do online classes next fall, and move in with my dad ASAP, my mom tried her best but I’m doing me.

Anyway why is she like this and/or is this a normal thing for females?