Sometime ago, someone mention Kevin Samuel's on an article and I finally sat down to watch his podcasts (and OMG!). I have never met an alpha put women in their place, not only is he helping women open their eyes, he is actually helping women understand relationships. There is one particular topic that really cuaght my attention and it's how women contribute to poverty.

I'll try my best to explain it because it's a brain teaser and not easily understood.

Biologically speaking:

Male animals are sexual driven. Female animals are motherhood driven.

So is people.

Men are sexually driven. Women are motherhood driven.

Men prefers sex over relationships while women prefers motherhood over relationships.

Situations where mom and dad are both raising kids = RELATIONSHIP.

Situations where mothers are raising children alone but the fathers are still providing financially = RELATIONSHIP.

Situations where mothers are raising children alone but the father is absent and doesnt provid financial assistance = NO RELATIONSHIP.

Situation:

Single mother of one works as a call agent and makes $300 weekly in her small town. She has no relationship with the father. She paids 300 on rent, 200 on bills, 150 on babysitter, 200 monthly on food and the rest on other stuff. Not to mention the kids coming education, clothing and other necessities he/she will need for 16 years. It short words, she is scraping to be alive.Children are expensive.

(So why the f@€k are so many women giving men children without relationships??? Why are women putting themselves instight struggles).

She is currently dating Dick. He has:

No Job=🚩🚩🚩 He's from the streets=🚩🚩🚩 Smokes Pot=🚩🚩🚩 No Ambition=🚩🚩🚩

And she rejected nice guy joe:

Security guard:👍👍👍 No kids: 👍👍👍 Workaholic: 👍👍👍 Do no drugs:👍👍👍

In other words, Dick is a guy that can provide sex but no relationship. While Joe can provide a relationship.

You can ofcourse tell yourself that you are in a relationship with Dick, but sincerely you're lying to yourself. A relationship requires devotion beyond sex where if you get pregnant, he will take responsibility to help you with HIS CHILD. Both financial and in parenthood regardless if you are with him or not.

Single mother of one eventually gets pregnant and Dick ofcourse leaves. Dick cannot provide a relationship of any sort. Now she has double the expenses and can't maintain the children = POVERTY!!!

Motherhood cames first for this single mother. Nice guy Joe can provide stability but bad boy Dick can provide children.She is turn on by Dick so much because of his dangerous attitude. it's a forbidden fruit. She can't ignore her feelings, which are confuse with love in the short term but not in the long run.Love really is blind!

How the cycle repeats itself.

Children doesnt know what a father relationship is. They never had a father provide or protect them. So they believe only mothers can provide all. The girls goes out to become mothers themselves while the sons becomes street gangster because of poverty and the fact that he was already exposed to that world.

Meanwhile, the mother finally sees that she needs a man to provide. She's looking for a father. Joe ofcourse feels like it's too much responsibility and he'll be better elsewhere.

Meanwhile, feminist and the government are praising them for their amazing strength and giving them viladation when in fact, they put themselves in that position. And here I thought, that only men had defects.