Women mirror male emotional states. When you get all worked up, then she's going to get all worked up. When she's all worked up and you're an emotional rock, then it settles her down as you become her emotional anchor. This is why women don't want Mr Fix-It, but rather a man who will just listen, pat them on the proverbial head, and tell them everything will be ok.

This is also a major driver of why women shit test: they are screening for non-reactive men. This tracks with why Dark Triad types do so well with women... they often don't care about other people. Now you know why being aloof Is such an attractive quality.

More info:

https://youtu.be/8_trPoyIhz8