Women will Beauty/Swole-shame while Men offer Praise (How men & women differ in their approach to higher status entities)

no_face · 2014-07-26T22:55:03+00:00

I am not an easy girl

Translation: I'm an easy girl

Software_Engineer · 2014-07-26T22:04:52+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/XXYxcPd.jpg

women complain that there is a mountain top and declare wherever they to be the new mountain top

http://i.imgur.com/MJhOXgC.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/n0gjReC.jpg

http://24.media.tumblr.com/b78f2b829a823d404511e9af73538730/tumblr_mqbb0mutJQ1symmvdo1_1280.jpg

when women encounter something/someone that is higher status than them, they desperately want it to be a part of it.

http://i.imgur.com/lfsVW6i.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/jcOnLyZ.jpg what does she mean by "honored"?

http://i.imgur.com/BWP2gqt.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/vwzQYre.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/DKELHg5.jpg

IllimitableMan · 2014-07-27T00:51:21+00:00

The amount of power/money/popularity her physical appearance is capable of commanding alone is absolutely astounding. She could be a massive thundercunt and it wouldn't stop people obsessing over her, if she turns out to be a decent person that "good nature" will be pedestalised and praised ten-fold because of how beautiful she is, eg: she donates $100 to some kazakh charity and everyone's talking about how she's the next mother teresa, she plants a tree and people think she should get a serious and well-paid position in greenpeace. You get the idea. Sex is one of the core themes behind everything that happens in life, everything fundamentally comes back to sex or leveraging sex appeal to acquire resources, shit, even when it's not a conscious process (and for most people looking attractive is a conscious process because they are not naturally attractive) you will benefit from being attractive whether you like it or not via the halo effect, whether you want that power and attention or not you don't get a choice, the only way to rid yourself of the power of attraction is to become unattractive.

Attraction is one of the key cornerstones of power, alongside money/status and raw Machiavellian skill. With this woman, judging the way the article is written, it suggests she never specifically sought out the power of beauty but was blessed with it, just "being her" when all of a sudden some media exposure sent men crazy over how beautiful she is, and thus there was no intent or conscious consent for her to attain this power and wield it to make money/get famous, but simply by winning the genetic lottery and maintaining herself she has the beauty she has and people are obsessing over it; the women, negatively, as she's perceived as competition, the men, positively, as they're viewing her as an object of desire and most likely all fantasising about how tight her vagina would feel and what she looks like staring up at them naked in missionary. Women will boycott her, men will pedestalise her, that's what the power of beauty will do, that's no real problem for her, wealthy men propositioning her and betas lining up to orbit and "be her friend" will take care of every need she could ever imagine. She could have a guy that grabs her morning coffee, a cuddle buddy, a few other guys she goes out with to the movies and other shit where she's the centre of attention, an alpha fucks and a sugar daddy, guys could be like louis vuitton bags for a woman with that kind of power, different guys for different occasions.

Attractive women are immensely powerful, men will put them on a pedestal, other women will wish they had that power and hate them because they don't, nothing new at all. Shit I even think with swole men who are considered 9's and 10's aesthetically, have the best jawlines and bone structure, good skin with no stretch marks/acne/skin disorders, little hair covering their muscles get a fair amount of (unvoiced) jealousy from other men, sure some men get inspired to lift and dress well by high smv guys but the betas and omegas are massively jealous of the top 20% alphas getting all the pussy, plenty of them see the competition and just lose all confidence by feeling so immensely inadequate and inferior in comparison to such a guy, they're the people who rather hang out in places where people are fatter/uglier than them so they don't feel so inadequate with themselves, guys who are physically high smv and aesthetic get shamed by other men behind their backs for being "pretty boys", as "well-kept guys" generally wax/laser/shave a lot of hair off their bodies using tanning beds (if they're white and in a non-sunny place - it's common here in the UK) and get their eyebrows done or in the case of most asians, just don't have any hair to begin with. Yeah I don't think it's as bad as it is with women and more men than perhaps women will up their game as a result of what they've seen rather than just get jealous and self-loathing, but jealousy is a universal human trait and although "swole shaming" isn't really a thing, it doesn't stop other guys feeling like crap next to Mr. Aesthetic Adonis Chad McThunderHung.

SoreBallsBoy · 2014-07-27T01:39:06+00:00

Is this why women cry about gender equality etc to get gender ratios up so they can get a job they don't deserve when compared to other applicants? They get the validation of the status of 'x' job without actually doing anything for it and try to put down anyone else who has the same job.

BlueChilli · 2014-07-27T02:17:54+00:00

My ex-gf and some of her friends were talking about other people on campus (like they do). Up comes the subject of a friend of mine, a hot Czech volleyplayer. The comments they had about her were mind boggling.

"She wears so much makeup she looks like she's 40!"

"Look how muscular she is, she's manly"

Etc, etc.

The volleyball player is both younger and hotter than my ex and her friends. Their insecurities blare like a fog horn.

ashastry · 2014-07-27T06:19:13+00:00

Not necessarily, a good numbers of guys give me shit for "acting buff" or "flexing", when I'm quite literally just standing there with my arms crossed or walking. Or get called a "tool" or "douchebag" just because I drive a few nice cars and have a few decent watches.

DoubleKnee · 2014-07-27T12:16:08+00:00

I teach group exercise classes part time; and I think this is completely true. I've got a roughly 70/30 mix; female to male in most of my classes, and for both men and women, it's a pretty broad spectrum of bodies; young and old; thin, normal, and fatties.

And once and a while you get a woman that has really busted her ass, and most of the other girls hate her. She might have had kids, and she might not have had kids, and the latter are the ones that are hated even more.

But here is reality about this sculpted woman. Maybe this woman won in the genetic lottery, maybe she eats well, and maybe she busts her ass more in the gym (and even a combo of all those factors). But the women wouldn't stop to think about those 3 things.

I remember one named B%$#a, she had incredibly sculpted shoulders. The other women were nice to her, but they also talked about her behind her back. But what B%$#a could do, and the other women couldn't, was like 30 pushups on her toes, with form that might rival a grunt Marine. And B%$#a was in her 40's. She took care of herself, and she looked feminine when she was out of the gym.

The other women, they never got the connection, that it was the work that set B%$#a apart, the work that got her the shoulders they hated.

And then their rationalizations hamsters would kick in. "I could look like that if all I did was the gym..."

This was all before I was red pill.

fapuffin · 2014-07-28T19:24:58+00:00

Great insight!

The only way women feel validated is by being part of something higher status.

Men can self validate because they are strong enough to be self sufficient. However, they are not entirely self sufficient, they also have a strong need to be validated by sleeping with beautiful women.

ShinyBrah · 2014-07-27T02:44:14+00:00

I do get pissed sometimes when it seems that a fit body image pretty much requires steroids. Like you are watching a movie and a girl comments that a guy is hot, you explain that he isn't natural and they argue vehemently.

It'd be nice if people had a better idea of what sort of build was natural vs enhanced, because people in the know can pretty much tell by looking at them. At the end of the day though, the solution is to just take roids as well.

Trpimir · 2014-07-27T11:31:50+00:00

I couldn't agree at first because the first thing that came to my mind were so many instances where males in my country swole-shame very well-built guys. But then I remembered that all of those are mostly betas whose best personal quality, if they're adults, is making an average barbecue. And if they're teenagers or adolescents, they don't matter anyway.

roskybosky · 2014-07-27T23:11:56+00:00

Most women admire others who are gifted in any way; I swear, I've never come across all these crazy 'syndromes' that I read about here. Women would come up to me on the street and tell me what a great figure I had, they were always asking me how tall I was and how much I weighed. I don't recall any crazy jealousy-but my body was more natural, not pumped up. On the beach, any girl around me would always say "You look so great-you are so lucky!" Maybe I just didn't flaunt it.

Oh, By the way, Tyra Banks weighs 160, and she's considered one of the greatest beauties in the world. But she is tall, granted.

jefecaminador1 · 2014-07-27T15:19:54+00:00

Damn, I really like asian chicks, but honestly she's not super attractive.

Title	Women will Beauty/Swole-shame while Men offer Praise (How men & women differ in their approach to higher status entities)
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Date	July 26, 2014 9:16 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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