Yes, Virginia, you do have to be an asshole.

Whisper · 2017-09-21T02:26:48+00:00

Paraphrasing one of the first Chateau Hertiste posts:

Eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. Every lost woman is a lethal blow to humanity's repopulation project but we only need one man for that job.

Rise above this fundamental truth by first accepting it and then taking the short stick that us men were given and sharpening it and jamming it through the heart of anything that gets in our way

SasquatchMcKraken · 2017-09-20T23:03:44+00:00

Great post. What women mean by asshole and what men mean by asshole are not the same thing. It's the same dilemma you run into when a dude asks "does dick size matter" and chicks go "of course not." We're talking past each other, often on purpose (especially the women). Women typically mean asshole as a dude who knows what he wants and doesn't always give her what she wants (i.e. he isn't a pushover). Men use the term to mean a generally horrible human being. Granted there's often a lot of overlap between the two. But again, they're not the same thing, and this confuses the shit out of BP dudes. You don't have to actually be an asshole by the male definition for women to see you as one. Which incidentally works out great for us.

MRuleZ · 2017-09-21T07:44:24+00:00

Being capable of cruelty and then not being cruel is better than being unable to be cruel, because in the latter case you're always the victim.

Paraphrasing Jordan Peterson here.

That sentence really hit home with me because you often see people trying to be non confrontational in their rethoric and general attitude, which makes them more inclined to fill the victim role.

Metalgear222 · 2017-09-21T05:20:44+00:00

Spot on. These girls will throw up their hands in horror when you "apply the pressure" of serving yourself before them, but in their head they are so fucking thankful to be interacting with a masculine man that knows what he wants and goes for it. It gets them wet and they respect you more for it.

My most recent plate is an avid fit girl at my gym, I'm the only one that has ever had the balls to tell her she'd look better 10 pounds lighter (obviously I'm motivating her to do this so I can have better sex with her). She always says I'm "so mean because I called her fat", I just hold frame and she always comes around and says "You're right.." and playfully slaps me on the arm.

GayLubeOil · 2017-09-21T03:24:51+00:00

The truth is radical it's not democratic. If the sky is blue and 99% of the population believes it to be yellow, compromising and saying that it's green isn't helping anyone, least of all you.

We live in a feminist Cuck-fag society that promotes a Cuck-fag dating strategy. The Red Pill is an emphatic rejection of both. Going half Cuck-fag isn't going to help you. There is nothing noble about compromising with idiots. You have to go all the way.

Thotwrecker · 2017-09-21T03:10:56+00:00

And to fellow TRPers, just SHUT THE FUCK UP if you think to yourself, I'm going to post on some thread saying "you don't have to be an asshole, assholes aren't real alphas."

You do. You don't have to be an asshole completely, but you generally have to be more of an asshole than I guarantee 99% of you are comfortable with. Every single person who says that, every single one, is just on the same old, same old "benevolent alphas who care are the best healthy example of male masculinity hurr durr" kick. And they're always getting their panties in a bunch about things like fucking another dude's bitch, because obviously they are still butthurt about asshole guys running over their interests, so they want to preach the gospel about how "you don't have to be like those guys."

No you don't have to. But you can be. I learned this through years of pushing the limits to see how much I could get away with - and the answer is it changes as you get higher SMV. You all are presumably working out, working on your game, your appearance, your finances, etc. Push it - you will get away with so much more than you used to, and being an asshole is not something you need to have a value judgment about.

All you obligatory ass people who always have to add "disclaimers" and shit, like "hey, whoa there, you know that you don't actually have to be an asshole to get her wet, just have the confidence and behaviors of an asshole with a good guy heart!" Like why don't you instead of commenting that, go think about why asshole behavior makes you uncomfortable.

When women talk about assholes, always just confirm that you are unapologetically one. I like "I didn't get much discipline as a child". But when you feel uneasy about asshole behavior and you feel obliged to bring morals and autistic interpretations of commonly understood TRP lingo onto here, just shut up and think for a second. Chances are, you just know that you, as a low value male, cannot get away with asshole behavior, so you are decrying it for everyone else.

BluepillProfessor · 2017-09-21T03:15:47+00:00

I believe that women have a 6 to 1 in group preference in favor of women while Men have a 4 to 1 out group preference in favor of women. We see it in jury pools, judges, and every interaction in life. It is a considerable barrier to overcome for men and it is almost entirely invisible.

There is an alternative to men being forced to be "an asshole" and only care about himself. If men actually had the power in society over women and over their families (like they had for, you know, all of human history before 3rd wave feminism) then men typically put their wives and families first and were considerably less "savage to women."

max_peenor · 2017-09-21T14:47:33+00:00

This isn't a plot cooked up by leftists, or feminists, or communist infiltrators seeking to sap and impurify our precious bodily fluids.

The irony of this is that in the end, it was the sane men (and those that could still get it up, unlike General fluids) that ended up eradicating most of the other men in the world so they could horde the women for themselves.

Aggression always wins

Though you have to remember it's the tribe aggression that got us here. A dozen men went mammoth hunting and only a 11 came back? They were still all fed and there were always more men coming of age. A dozen men raided another tribe to bring back the women and only 11 came back? The same number of women would be impregnated. This is why it was a winner, because it usually resulted in the same success.

Now, these days society wants to remove aggression from the tribe. It makes society easy to control. And no, there doesn't have to be some grand conspiracy to make this happen, but rather diverse intersecting purposes. For feminists, it gives them power. For corporations, it gives them loyal consumers. For governments, it gives them compliant citizens and so forth.

So what does this mean to us? Well, aggression is still a winner the only difference is there is no tribe immunity. You will be taking a risk on your own. The question is what is the reward? Well, we are already seeing it, yes? For President Trump, he gets to sit in the most important office in the world. For mister muscles the cad on Tinder, his dick is so wet it's getting a case of swamp-foot. So the question is what sort of life do you want? Sitting in a padded room laughing at feminist memes and devouring Cheetoes? Or out in the world seeking greatness?

learn-relearn · 2017-09-20T23:13:44+00:00

They say you are what you eat. And I'm definitely an asshole

Rian_Stone · 2017-09-21T09:18:37+00:00

It's not bad, IRL you'll notice between acquaintances a constant jockeying for virtue signalling... 'dude, don't say that' or 'I was stupid like that too'

Blow through it.

In Greece now, two other couples. I said something 'stupid' and the other guys gang up, tell me to be nice or we are on the couch.

"I paid for the bed, I'm sleeping in the bed. If they can carry me, then I'll sleep where they put me"

Now the one guy (indian, lol) wants me to show him how to do that.... That, and how to French omelette.

I should probably check online, because I know I do this here...

The funny part though, no girl actually spoke up, got offended etc. Was only the guys assuming they would.

Solistx · 2017-09-21T15:43:43+00:00

How do I get over being uncomfortable about being an asshole to women? It pisses me off to no extent because everytime I feel like I should say something blunt I always retract and self censor.

TunedtoPerfection · 2017-09-21T02:51:35+00:00

Your answer to this and any question should always be the one that gives just enough information to make your point. How you give that answer should be based on getting your point the best reception from the intended audience.

When talking with women there is always the societal pressure for a man to follow the blue pill methodologies. Being an "asshole" by utilizing Agree and Amplify signifies you will not be following those methodologies. This excites women and makes them attracted to us. This works so well in fact, that most the time what you say means dick all. The attitude, style, and delivery of the message is what signals the attraction in women. So yes Agree and Amplify to the extreme.

But if I am talking with a fellow member on this sub reddit or producing an article, agree and amplify is not the best way to go about getting my message across. I'd wager a bet that if two successful redpill'd men were to enter into a discuss on any topic and they both just A&A'd like they did when they were meeting women nothing would end up being discussed.

The second and third constant factors that govern victory are Heaven and Earth. - Sun Tzu

[deleted] · 2017-09-21T09:09:24+00:00

This is refreshing man. There's a negative anger feedback loop here and I think it's because most of the guys who have accepted what you say here, they leave, because they get it, and they don't need this anymore. We end up with a lot of young angry guys who spend too much time wishing things were different. TRP isn't a response to "modern women" or some shit. Modern women just aren't worth wifing down for the most part. That means nothing in terms of biological, sexual dynamics, which are the crux of TRP. This shit would have worked at any point in history.

[deleted] · 2017-09-21T09:22:09+00:00

Dead right. If you even try to play that game "oh it is just PC society's fault" then you are tacitly accepting that your behaviour is unacceptable. You gotta own that shit. Women fucking love it anyway, why do you think they fuck drug dealers and thugs? It's not because they are good providers, it is precisely because they are assholes.

[deleted] · 2017-09-21T11:24:44+00:00

We prefer the term "Ethically Challenged".

Fucking love you guys hahahahahahaha

Scandinavianredpill · 2017-09-21T14:13:41+00:00

I think this is a great post, original content. However - aside from what you write is inherent something that rubs us the wrong way inside if we act in our own self interest, there is also a need for a man to have companion. You do not get companionship from plates you spin, you get it from a woman that you know well. That's my biggest issue with TRP. I am throughoutly redpilled but I truly enjoy female company... and no don't give me the spiel about self reliance etc. etc. It's a natural male thing to enjoy female companionship above and beyond purely sex. That's the one thing I wouldn't satisfy by adopting this approach. Ultimately you have to ask yourself how you can generate the most happiness for yourself. Personally I think it's through mostly monogamous dating.

WhySoRuff · 2017-09-20T23:54:32+00:00

This isn't a plot cooked up by leftists

Except it is. Every human instinct has an emotional hot button connected to it: Tribalism, sympathy, fear, altruism etc, they lay out the buttons like a keyboard and type away until the right combination manipulates people to do whatever is necessary to further the agenda under the guise of morality and progress. They claim tribalism and sexism is bad as they use those exact ism's to play people against each other. I wonder if their lips hurt from talking out of both sides of their mouth for so long.

zagermaster · 2017-09-21T18:30:46+00:00

"Zager, can you give me a ride/ help carry something for me/ pick me up something?" "Mmmmm, doesn't sound like me"

LOST_TALE · 2017-09-21T19:24:25+00:00

the fuck? ''bad guy'' is a compliment. I like being what I am.

wtffellification · 2017-09-25T15:44:51+00:00

"Women don't like harmless men, they wanna claw them apart. Women like dangerous men who are civilised. And they wanna help civilise them." Jordan Peterson

GreenPiller · 2017-09-21T02:42:44+00:00

Funny, I was watching the Lion King and Scar reminded me of alot of us, thrown into celibacy wastelands. We are just hyenas tired of eating the bones that society and feminism throw at us.

yxngdrilla19 · 2017-09-22T09:22:59+00:00

I can strongly testify to high smv males get away with more. Was in class today and had a debate about consumerism. I said something along the lines that people follow trends and are stupi, indirectly offending my entire class. The entire class laughed and even applauded me afterwards. But I know for a FACT, if I hadn't worked on self improvement for nearly a year now I would have been absolutely slaughtered.

J_AsapGem · 2017-09-23T14:26:14+00:00

exactly, in truth, an " asshole " is not really being an asshole it's just someone that doesn't give af about anyone else opinions but their own it's also a man that doesn't need attachment to feel good about himself, when we don't have a need for attachment that's when we're true to who we really are and we can say " No " that's basically what being an asshole is, as you said someone that's true to himself, does what he wants and doesn't care about the opinions of others.

PantsonFire1234 · 2017-09-22T00:38:36+00:00

Christ your post is a clusterfuck man. I didn't follow a thing you said. The only thing that made sense was the apparent comment of a woman you quoted. Imagine that. So i'll just give me thoughts on her reply.

Is[n't] there a way for men to look out for their own interests without being so savage/harsh/brutal to women? ... to which you, being sane, introspective, analytical sorts of young men, are tempted to respond with something

I can't actually believe a woman got further than "omg men are jerks, tee hee he's such an asshole but I like him/hate him". Apart from that I doubt there's anything to simulate the real thing she's hoping for. She just wants to play the game and win.

TeflonShit · 2017-09-20T23:22:41+00:00

Besides the "joking" bit, I agree with you. Men need to put women back where they belong. I actively oppose feminism and any movement that preaches women are anything but objects. Objects that are integral into social hierarchy, but objects nonetheless.

TeflonShit · 2017-09-20T22:33:00+00:00

For real. I've been fucking background sluts right in front of my main sluts eyes. She begs me to stop but I made sure to train her to know that she's nothing but abused up slut now that I fucked her. I told her nobody is going to want a usesless used up pussy like her so she better stick around no matter how many sluts I'm fucking instead of her.

She's terrified I'll leave her for one of the better ones (I told her she's the third best looking of the plates I juggle), so she's willing to do anything. She stays home, cooks, doesn't dare get a job or see many friends. She's home and ready to present herself to me or suck my cock when I get home. The one time she isn't, she knows her ass is on the curb and at that point her usefulness is basically over.

Also I keep slipping crushed-up plan B into her drinks to get her to hate herself for not being able to bear me any children. Now she thinks she's barren, too. So now she's double useless if she leaves me.

This is the kind of evil you should aim for. Fuck Ethics, this is how men are naturally supposed to be.

Macheako · 2017-09-21T14:33:49+00:00

Blsh blah blah blah blah blah. Get a fuckin hobby.

Bonnofly · 2017-09-21T02:01:05+00:00

Holy shit, I guarantee you all that as long as you think and act this way you will remain a sad virgin. Don't say you're a pussyslayer because it's quite clear that you aren't. You are only lying to yourselves. Get help.

Title	Yes, Virginia, you do have to be an asshole.
Author	Whisper
Upvotes	461
Comments	173
Date	September 20, 2017 10:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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