Young women makes tinder profile as a male and is extremely disappointed. Redpill on the Front Page.

May 27, 2020

Earlier today, a youtube video about an 18 year old woman attempting the tinder game as a male made its way to the front page and videos subreddit.

Now this experiment has been done multiple times, and the results are not shocking to any person who understands hypergamy. Alexander Grace, the creator of the video, is more of a purple pill youtuber. He says some questionable things on his content (E.g, some men need a strong balance of feminine tendencies, chads who fuck a lot of women aren't really fucking quality women... like they give a fuck). But regardless, this video had some solid points that I'm glad is getting some screen time.

1. Don't ever ask a woman for advice on how to get with women: Now anyone who used tinder will know that nothing dries panties up more than an opener of "hey, how are you?" This woman not only used that opener for each match, but her bio had city, occupation, and "looking for a quality relationship" - listen to this woman on all things NOT to do when making a profile. Side note, she asked at the beginning if AG had any shirtless pics she could use pretending to be him. These women will push academics and intellect but even she knew from the beginning she wanted to the stallion to catch the eye.

2. They don't understand or even sympathize with males: She was shocked at the lack of responses. Only 7 matches in a day?! She had no idea how males could find motivation, especially to the lack of any substance in conversations. She doesn't comprehend that men have to chase, have to be witty, and have to hold attention all while competing with hundreds of other men. She ultimately said she knows how easy it is being a female and can't wait to go back.

3. The Wall is real: Hearing this from a woman makes it more real. "Yeah I got some matches, but most of them were over the age of 30 and some weren't really that attractive." Coming from a man that would sound superficial and vain, but we all know age breeds desperation. As trite as it is, men know we age like wine, you will have options in your 30's and 40's. Keep working on yourself

4. Don't let dating apps mess with your psyche. Use it for what it is and nothing more: She says herself how she felt depressed after the lack of responses. And AG mentions the Tinder algorithm of high matches early on and tapering it off do ensure naive young users will pay for the service (which I don't recommend but if you got it, why not) This is an exaggerated marketplace of 80/20 rule, top 20% (probably closer to top 10%) of males will get the attention. There are benefits to these apps if you use them how they are meant. But your time will be better spent lifting and talking to girls irl.

Overall - females do not understand the plight of men, and they really don't care at all. Keep moving forward, work on yourself and understand videos like these prove that no woman is worth more than your sanity.

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Title Young women makes tinder profile as a male and is extremely disappointed. Redpill on the Front Page.
Author drbrockstar69
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Date May 27, 2020 6:13 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]Casanova-Quinn185 points186 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Girl in this video: "It will be easy..."

Classic solipsism. She thinks it will be easy because it was easy for her. And on a deeper level, it's because she only romantically interacts with above average guys, who actually do have it easier. The struggle of the average beta is invisible to her.

Props to her though for recognizing her biased expectations at the end.

Edit: Also it's funny how she thought she knew how to seduce women. Then we see her texts and it's simply "Hi [name] how are you?" LOL

[–]medicineandsports87 points88 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

The first messages of “Hi [name]” got me lmaoooo she’s like “why did you match with me if you’re not going to reply?” It was a funny video.

I remember one of my plates got mad at me once when she thought her tinder game is better than mine and I told her “you’re just an attractive woman with an eh personality.” She really thought she had game like me or other guys who are successful with women. She was getting more and more mad because I couldn’t stop laughing

[–]PlainTundra19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the same with beautiful girls believing men like them because they are interesting and funny. When they hit the wall they can't understand why men don't pay as much attention to them despite thinking that with age and experience they should be more interesting and funnier.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

god dude, you're such a misogynist. Don't be so mean to your plates.... you big fat meany pants. grrr, how can you be so callous 😢 😢 😢

[–]BitchesBrew_MF1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer the term chauvinist

[–]Lion_Of_Mara0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

'misogynist' we get that from outside pretty much nowadays.

[–]FJackxd15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally every time you ask a women how to open and they tell you text hey or hi. Great she finds out how it actuality works.

[–]when_its_too_late192 points193 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

That's why I don't bother with social media or dating apps. Keep yourself a mystery, approach face to face, let them figure it out by putting in physical effort.

[–]Science4Lawlz56 points57 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I agree brother! The only social media I mess with is LinkedIn(if you even want to consider it that) and I only use that for professional networking. It's just easier to find specific people in specific industries that way. But everything else, I deleted back in 2013 and couldn't be happier. Half the shit you see on social media is a lie anyway. My sister is guilty of it. She's living proof that it's all a lie.

[–]Senth9929 points30 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Of course social media is a lie; it only shows the highlights of ones life, but never the lowest.

[–]babybopp3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is so funny about how in the video, SHE ASKED HIM IF HE HAS A SHIRTLESS PIC. She just answered his question subconsciously within five minutes as to what women want.

[–]SteveSan8235 points36 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Right now Tinder is a waste of time. Its now full of women seeking attention. No one wants to meet. It's far easier to just go outside and day game.

[–]RealJoeDee7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

100% agreed. The lock-down has modified things a bit, but a lot of that is just women being bored and more interested in attention and validation than actually wanting to meet guys and get to know them. I've been lucky and have had a pretty good run of virtual dates, but I'm told I'm also good looking. Granted most guys are good looking to a certain group of women. Just the way it goes.

[–]facelessbastard4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Not really. I started a relationship on tinder, during lockdown. Video dates that progressed to us meeting in person after restrictions eased.

[–]EPArt11 points12 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Good luck with that. Around a month ago I stumbled across a woman's website in how to get a lockdown bf. Essentially was all about how to string someone along for a long time have them not talk to anyone else. And then how to get rid of him when lockdown ends as he has probably served his purpose and is no longer needed. Don't hold out on the meet after restrictions thing. It's the new beta orbiter.

[–]user123456786547 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude. No luck needed. Just invite the slut over. She is either up for it or not. If not move on.

I've had a couple wanting to come over. Most just threw up the "after quarantine card". Some unmatch after mentioning meeting up. You handle them the same way when they want to be friends. Yes and then go cold and talk to other women.

[–]BitchesBrew_MF1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly, we know these sluts be breaking quarantine, or at least some of them. Fuck or walk.

[–]barnowl50 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

What is the website, out of interest? (or tell me what to search for...) Just curious

[–]EPArt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

just paste this into google. thetab how-to-get-a-quarantine-boyfriend-and-maintain-him-throughout-lockdown

[–]barnowl50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks...I like how blatent she was;-)

[–]TheRealBlueBadger1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Idk man, since my country has come out of lockdown seems as easy to pull on Tinder as ever. Wouldn't have spent more than a couple of hours on tinder while I'd be fucking around on my phone at night anyway.

If you're following rules one and two (which admittedly is way harder on tinder than in real life) it's a pretty easy supplement to whatever else you've got going on still.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yea youre right, ive been fucking alot of girls on tinder even during covid. Theres too many guys on this subreddit who are letting negative beliefs drive their results rather then attempting to find the optimal strategy to get what they want given any circumstance

[–]CommyO1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with your point but I would still go with dating apps to maximize your plates.

Just like making money, it's good to diversify your sources. I personally don't use my real name on Tinder and don't touch the cancer that is social media.

[–]ReimsHistoriae45 points46 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

When I started using dating apps I got few matches every week, a few daily with luck. I had set up the age range 18-24 (I'm 30) then I switched it to 35 and started getting more matches, but mainly ugly chicks, single moms or desperate thots who want to lock someone before their eggs dry. The ones I found attractive barely answered, but I got a couple lays.

Just for shits and giggles I turned it to males and holy shit I started getting tens of messages saying "hey", "hello", "how are you". It blew my mind that if I'd liked dudes I'd be getting so much ass, but by being straight I was getting just crap. I turned the notifications off because they were bugging me and later turned it back the way it was. Then I understand what regular females get when using these apps, male attention is so abundant and easy to get that you cannot even focus.

[–][deleted] 200 points201 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

In a weird way I understand women. NOT agree with them.

When in high school I was a male attention-whore if there is such a thing.

I got shit tons of attention & validation from women. I objectified everyone. Extreme narcissism.

However im a man, so it really didn't mean shit after awhile.

your time will be better spent lifting...


[–]tdfrantz46 points47 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not weird at all, we're all here to understand the world better, whether we like it or not

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[–]SteveSan8222 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Online dating sucks during corona. Apps got flooded by attention seekers. When I say let's meet, the typical response is "after corona"

[–]E_Anonymous7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The only use I see of it right now is to hook in girls your interested in, maybe one or two lines yada yada and then when things (bars/restaurants) open up just send out a generic message to all your interested in and see who responds.

Other than that though I’ve been spending less and less time on apps and just getting my actual house, mind and body in order. Nobody wants to meet rn and zoom dates are fuckin dumb.

[–]Jugrnot82 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

exactly. I just peace out. Don't give thots attention.

[–]Longgbottom99 points100 points  (47 children) | Copy Link

I used it for a week, never got a match.

Created a bi profile of my ex (girlfriend back then) on Saturday (for fun, she was involved too). The coming Monday she had 30 + matches with more than 10 women matches.


[–]drbrockstar69[S] 108 points109 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Tinder is maximized to get as many Betas to pay for the service as possible. They dangle "potential" matches in front on you. Also your girlfriends could have made a profile as a butch diehard lesbian and she would probably still get more matches from the opposite sex, its definitely rigged

[–]Longgbottom26 points27 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

As teenager, texting felt nice and convenient & online dating seemed the solution to all the problems (typical keyboard warrior you see)

A couple of failed LTRs later & as adulthood set in, preference shifted to calling people & meeting IRL (still was texting tho)

After learning about RP - texting is only for LOGISTICS!

Edit: Also online dating is shit unless you are a Greek God.

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[–]Dumloko24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The idea is to be truthfully busy building your kickass life that you don't have time to waste in hours of texting.

And no, it's not an excuse not to develop text game. It's because in many cases, texting too much is counterproductive. "Less is more".

[–]MilkMoney11134 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah just use info here as a toolset, nothing set in stone. People can get a little autistic with "rules." Some dude swore up and down that I'd dry panties if I ever used an emoji. As I was literally spinning like 3 broads at the time all whom I constantly used stupid emojis on... 🤷‍♂️

[–]PolukranosWordEater15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it's a good rule of thumb for beginners. She's looking to disqualify you and the longer you let it go on the greater the probability of an error.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I kinda agree with this. The calculated stuff seems desperate and sorta needy tbh. If you legitimately are busy then once in a while your texts will take a bit. I think people can sense that, especially women.

[–]Youngyoda8910 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s for the founders of TRP. They have lived out most of their lives without smart phones. Can’t blame them.

[–]SteveSan822 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

What are you saying to them where they dont end up just using you for attention?

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[–]acoltismypassport6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

The voice of reason. This is exactly right. Only spergs parrot that bullshit.

[–]MarvelousWhale11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've always had conversations, albeit short ones, with girls via text and whenever I strictly talk logistics I come off as asperger-y, who the fuck responds to "heyyyy whats up this weekend?" Or "how have you been?"

"My place at 9 dress nice" and then ignore lmao

Who the fuck came up with this advice

[–]acoltismypassport11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a tough guy, Chad pussy destroyer meme at this stage. I'm sure this kinda ultra terse game works for some men; but it certainly isn't the majority. TRP is full of Chad larping spergs and neck beards, and stuff like this is where the cracks start to show.

I chat with all girls before I fuck them, sometimes a lot. Never hurt my chances at all.

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Too much texting means too much availability. They want the chase.

[–]aBetterNation64 points65 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

I use tinder gold and have 1100 matches sitting there. I don’t reply to women. I just use it to make sure I’m doing aight.

This is how you’re supposed to take pics.

[–]alien_race_42047 points48 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Step 1: get absolutely ripped Step 2: fun activity pictures

Thanks man nice 4 real

[–]CommyO0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That guy gets a lot of matches but also pays and uses the passport thing.

I'm not shredded and most of my pics are decent quality DSLRs or selfies; all with a shirt on. I can still get 40-100 matches a week.

I have yet to give tinder a single cent.

[–]rpaarchivethrowaway31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is probably one of the best examples of a high value tinder profile I've seen, I always see people write paragraph after paragraph about how to make a good profile but don't want to share the profile itself because they're scared of showing their face. Pissed myself at the photo of you carrying the dog on to the private jet, almost seems like taking the typical advice too far - but clearly it works. Appreciate you sharing, I've got something to work towards. If you're interested, making your own post about your profile would probably be better than 90% of the content on here these days.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

How do you maintain that level of bodyfat consistently?

[–]aBetterNation8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

and im not kidding. you want to look like that all the time and get there relatively quick, (2 years of training,), ya gotta hit the sauce.

[–]ImAlmostCooler0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Ditch the last 2 pics (don’t need em) and this is literally the perfect tinder profile

[–]aBetterNation0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Last 2 are videos, one of me wake boarding and the other one is me lifting my shirt but it shows my quads. but thanks for your opinion lets see your tinder

[–]ImAlmostCooler1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

If they’re vids that’s actually dope, just seemed repetitive to have 2/3 water sport shots and 2 lifting the shirt up shots. Might work better to have a sports/party based second shirtless pic? Idk you’re clearly chillin lmao not like you need improvement.

I actually haven’t used tinder in like 2 years so I got nothing to show. But mine was 1 shirtless Halloween costume (firefighter) pic, one suit&tie sitting outdoors drinking whiskey, 1 doing a gainer off of a bridge into water, one with some friends pumping gas (live in jersey so it’s kinda funny), one on a beach shirtless playing frisbee, one hiking at arches national park, and one mid backflip on skis. I’m not as ripped as you but I’m pretty decent (5’10 180 similar bf%) so the amount of shirtless pics worked well.

Bio was “skiing is the most fun you can have with your clothes on”

What I look like for reference:

[–]aBetterNation1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

lmao I always expect everyone here to be an ugly cringe loser.

[–]oldertybasterd3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Were you carrying dogs onto private jets before you found this place ? Fuckn hell they should just put your profile into the side bar.

[–]aBetterNation5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

lol actually no.

i went from like a pathetic shit in an unhappy marriage with a decent job to badass 6 figure job, ripped, ex wife crying daily to get back with me.

I know tattoos aren't for everyone, but i got a sleeve which ive always wanted to do., but was afraid because of my career and it was an amazing decision.

this place saved my life when i found it. 4-5 years ago.

[–]Gidanocitiahisyt1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty motivational story here. Out of curiosity how old are you now? And how long have you been on "the sauce"?

[–]oldertybasterd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for lighting a fire under my ass. I might not have the 6 figure or 6 pack but you definitely a role model showing it can be done.

[–]abc123SuckMyD0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah, the "just take a picture of yourself getting on a private jet" theory in action

[–]aBetterNation0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Didn’t have the pj pic until recently. Don’t need it tbh

[–]Dspsblyuth7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s always been in women’s favor. There is no reason to actively rig it since it happens naturally

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[–]PolukranosWordEater6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Huh. Mine was the opposite. Put almost nothing down but have a few quality pics and get matches. The more info I put down the less interested they were.

[–]DF-RP6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The more pictures & info you add, the likelier you are to fuck yourself over.

You are only as good as your worst picture / least attractive part of bio. One picture looks bad? "Oh he actually is kinda ugle in real life, the other pictures were just 'lucky'". Long bio? More ideas where she can disagree / think you are beta.

Put enough to showcase high SMV and stop there. Let her imagination fill in the rest. If you look high SMV, she will assume that and fill in rest accordingly.

[–]Balderdash793 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The more info I put down the less interested they were.


1 shirtless selfie in the gym mirror, with a tagline of

"you, me, and a box of wine at the beach."

let it marinate 3 days. every swipe is a match

How do I accomplish it?

1) i don't own an L-box or a gaystation. i own motorcycles and boats

2) little debbie doesn't exist in my world. today for dinner I am having an entire half gallon of buttermilk and a pack of pre-cooked bacon

3) i gym. previously workout anytime but lately a rock climbing gym. want a good place to take a date? hello. rock climbing gym

For anybody who doesn't have luck with online dating: it isn't luck.

Stop being a boring tubby lazy "gamer" sperg.

Man up.

Lay off all that faggoty video game crap, stop eating cookies and candies like a fat bitch, and work out.

It's seriously easy.

[–]Andgelyo2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s not rigged. Tinder is heavily looks based, it’s sweet if you’re in the 8-10 looks scale (if you are a guy). Anything below that and you better be witty and have some dope ass pics.

[–]FJackxd0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I used the passport feature this lockdown. Got so much more matches from foreign chicks compared to what I would usually get. A lot of them were 9s and 10s too

[–]Youngyoda89-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow are you serious? I got 120 matches in a week.

[–]pacjax24 points25 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

no one good looking must be commenting in this because none of you realize what you text on tinder (within reason) as an opening is completely irrelevant to success. it literally only matters if youre good looking enough in your pictures

[–]King_Crimson_0015 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The problem with saying "Good looking" is that it's relative. As red pill men we understand that "good looking" basically means you're in the top 5% of attractiveness. That means 95% of men will not meet that standard. That's like saying "Well guys you don't have 9 inch dicks or make $200k/year so tough luck"

Online dating and social media has completely broken the game as we know it. I would consider myself top 25% by my own standards and I had to give up on tinder. It's a waste of time and I'm jacked and fairly attractive.

[–]macdaddymarte4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup with good pics I can literally have a chick text me in less than 3 messages through tinder and set up plans for literally that same night.

[–]OSaraiva62 points63 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

To be fair, Portuguese women are absolutely spoiled, and every single one of them believes to be the most special princess in the whole world. No wonder they drown in anti-depressives, from their marble tower.

Right next to us, in Spain, women are much less of a pain, much more approachable, easy going and fun to be with.

[–]urbana115 points16 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Sou inglês mas falo português porque gosto muito. Acho q até as espanholas serão chatas depois de algum tempo. Quase todas as mulheres são difíceis. Estou casado com uma mexicana e é uma mulher ruim. Sempre me fala com desprezo. Quero-me separar. Hope you don’t mind me talking in Portuguese. I’ve not practiced for a while. Cumprimentos bro

[–]OSaraiva18 points19 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Haha, fez-me rir a história. Força nisso!

When we go away, mostly on Erasmus, we know that whenever you want to find the Portuguese girls in a night out, you look for the group frowning in a corner, mad at not being the center of the action so they could dismiss all the guys like some bitchy princesses.

While everyone else is having fun of course.

[–]urbana111 points12 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Hahahaha I was not aware of this image of Portuguese women. They do sound a pain in the arse. I have a few Brazilian friends here in UK, the Brazilian women seem okay. A bit gossipy and nag their husbands but that’s pretty normal lol. I’ve not met many Portuguese women though. The male Portuguese people I’ve met are bem legais!! I get the feeling you don’t mind Brits too much in Portugal whereas in Spain they hate us hahaha. Anyway I learned something new today about Portuguese women haha. I will avoid them like the plague! Mesmo assim se me chegasse Susana Félix não vou tirá-la da cama kkkk

[–]OSaraiva6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

You're welcome mate. Sempre bem vindo aqui.

Well, don't generalize, some women are fine as everywhere else. And this is also my opinion (and many peoples opinion as well, not only men, but still). Nothing like coming here and checking for yourself.

[–]urbana10 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Man, I’d love to go to Portugal some day! It’s top of my list to visit when everything has settled down and I save some money for a holiday there. I’m not sure which city or town to visit but I just know it’s on my bucket list.

[–]SlapsButts5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Go to azores or madeira, a bit different mentality than mainland, but good people. Or Porto in the mainland. I've probably spent too long on Lisbon to recommend it first, even Aveiro is awesome. If you don't care about culture and want to fuck, have nature and best european beaches, Faro/Quarteira are your answer.

Also I'm portuguese and agree that portuguese women think they are 9/10 if they're above a 6, under 6 they know they ugly. Personal taste, in Portugal always go for the romanian/moldovan, they are 7/8 thinking they are a 5 and many of them are actually smart cause their parents gave them that spirit of achieve what i couldn't and they go trough university and do well and are curious, unlike many portuguese.

[–]urbana11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d like to go to Madeira. That’s where Ronaldo is from isn’t it? You can probably guess where I’m from in UK now hehe I hear the accent in Madeira is one of the hardest for foreign speakers of Portuguese to understand though

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[–]urbana11 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I totally understand haha. It’s unfortunate to know our larger louts holiday in Portugal as well as Spain. They are an embarrassment tbh. Not who I like representing my people but whether I like it or not there are plenty of low lives like them here. I hear Portugal is similar climate to Spain but with nicer locals. I’ve never been there yet but all the Portuguese people I’ve met have been good people. Once I helped a Portuguese truck driver find the warehouse he was looking for near where I work and he gave me a bottle of Port from the back of his truck to say thanks. I was over the moon.

[–]urbana17 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its good to know that the red pill knowledge is all over the world now. And I could actually talk about this stuff with my Portuguese friends and they might know what I’m talking about.

[–]urbana12 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

E obrigado pela força amigo! É bom falar né?

[–]andrefpsantos0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

? A maior parte delas continua esfomeada por atenção de um gajo de alto valor, são spoiled mas é pelos morcões q andam prai

[–]povertymayne17 points18 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This reminds me of that documentary of that hardcore feminist that dressed herself like a man for a few months to prove how easy it is life for men and at the end she came out shocked at how difficult life as a man was. She realized that other women ignored her, and earning the respect of other men was difficult. If you haven’t seen it, you should google it. I don’t remember the name of it tho.

[–]barnowl50 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

shame...trying to find that online...would make fascinating viewing;-)

[–]waterbottle012222[🍰] 26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is the reason society thinks only women are capable of being whores, sluts, hoes, etc.

Because it’s easy as fuck for them to get dick.

All they have to do is exist LOL.

Men have to actually work to get pussy.

[–]snuskbusken21 points22 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

Alexander Grace has some other really good videos:

Men are islands, women are boats

[–]CassWCD14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought it was “boats and hoes” not “boats are hoes”

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 3 points4 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

His videos have been hit or miss so far.

[–]snuskbusken19 points20 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

He's not fully red pilled (also apparent from his podcast) but I think he's quite accessible to a mainstream audience. Most of Reddit isn't ready for TRP; if Alex is a gateway then I'm all for it.

[–]RagingMayo15 points16 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

His channel had red pill in its name originally. And he is very much red pilled. He is simply not one of those keyboard red pill warriors who say that women are just meat to have sex with. He differentiates between high and low quality women and promotes becoming a high value man to attract the high quality women.

Nonetheless I would like it, if Alexander would post more videos with some practical advice for guys to achieve that instead of analysing some girls on the internet.

[–]snuskbusken5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasn't criticizing him, I enjoy his videos and podcast. I'm just saying he's not as deep in TRP as say Rollo.

[–]TheProfitMotive1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Nah, he's def not fully red pilled. There are LOTS of other guys on YT who give you the full brutal red pill truth, no sugar coating.

Alex is a good intro, but you won't become full Sith Lord on just his material.

[–]RagingMayo6 points7 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Alex is a good intro, but you won't become full Sith Lord on just his material.

And that's exactly what I am talking about. I know you mean it half-jokingly, but this edginess of a becoming a sith lord or "hardcore red pill" is just silly. Many of these type of people simply turn out to be hating and degrading women which we don't do here! We simply see female nature for what it is and work with it.

Sadly MGTOW and blackpill infiltrated the red pill subreddit making it borderline incel here and there. Women being basically a lesser version of men? I agree that men and women are different, but we are still of equal value. (I already see the downvotes coming for that statement)

I'd say that Alexander Grace and guys like Donovan Sharpe are two sides of the same coin. Alex speaks more with a "clinical" or therapeutic tone, while guys like Donovan are rather aggressive. I understand both sides. For me personally Alex owns the more mature view on women, but we probably also need guys like Donovan as an "equalizer" to never forget that women love opportunisticly and will hurt and destroy us, if we lose frame.

[–]TheProfitMotive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lool if you think Sharpe is aggressive, you ain't seen nothing bruh. He's only mid tier savage. There are lot more guys on YT who give even more savage redpills. You need to listen to more of the black dating coaches on YT. They do not sugarcoat shit. They really break down how savage women can be.

Alex is not more mature. He was just raised in polite society, whereas Donovan was raised on the streets, so obviously Alex comes across as the more intellectual. But what you're forgetting is that women are not intellectual lol. They are wild dogs. And if you want to really master them you need to think like an even wilder dog. Hence the need for people like Sharpe.

Ps. Being Redpill Sith Lord is not about hating anyone. True redpill master is waaay past the anger phase. I love that women are savages. If they were honest, how on earth would you ever become a Sith Lord?

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[–]HODL_monk0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Women were not allowed to be on the beaches of Normandy. If somehow we re-fought WW 2 today with present forces, there would be women soldiers there, not 50-50, but there would be some. These examples are not 'value', but just an expression of the Bell Curve between men and women. Men are the outliers on both sides, we may have most of the inventors and warriors, but we also have most of the insane asylum and prison population, and for the same reason.

[–]RagingMayo0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

And now? Are you an inventor? I am studying in an engineering field and I met lots of women who are excellent students and will become successful engineers. Yes, there are engineering fields with a good quota of women, check bio and chemical engineering.

Stop hating an entire gender. Oh my gosh, some of you guys make me sound like a damn feminist. Can't we respect women and still be redpilled? Anyone who disagrees is probably very welcome in MGTOW.

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[–]VigilantRedRooster[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Knock off the ad hominem.

[–]PolukranosWordEater8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Reminds me kinda like a Tim Pool. I guess trying to sound more neutral is the only way to avoid the YouTube censors and mobs.

[–]snuskbusken2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, idk what Tim's endgame is but I guess he has a similar approach. I refuse to believe that he's actually still a democrat.

[–]JimiJons9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I really want to just spam the link to TRP in that comment thread, but I know the masses of worthless billy betas piling up in that comment section will rage about the tenacity even as they espouse the same exact tenets about women, just in a helpless, pathetic way.

[–]_Finest_Hour_6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Don’t talk about fight club.

[–]dopexile10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"I don't know why the hell she matched with me... she answered with 2 or 3 words in each message. How am I supposed to get a date with someone that won't even respond?"

LMAO. That reminds me of online dating so much. Good luck trying to hold up a conversation with a woman that is talking to 50 other dudes at the same time.

[–]nicethingyoucanthave9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This was covered by the "better bachelor" channel here: and he points out something (at 12:20) that nobody else I've seen has picked up on: she describes Alex (the guy) as "super interesting" and the way she says it, you can tell that he doesn't give her tingles.

To me, this is a unique insight into how tingles work. She's not feeling tingles, and she doesn't know why, but also she doesn't seem conscious of the fact that they're missing. Alex is her friend, and she believes he's attractive, but she's not personally attracted to him, and she doesn't assign any significance to that. She's not curious enough to try to understand it.

Tell me if the following sounds familiar: "you're a great guy and some girl is going to be very happy with you." That's undoubtedly how she feels about her friend, Alex.

Women don't systemitize things the way we do. She's not going to say, "I don't feel tingles for Alex - why exactly is that? - what exactly could be changed about him in order to give me tingles?" (spoiler: he needs more of an edge - he's smiling and being nice in his photos, he seems like a nice guy).

Instead of systemitizing it (and really understanding it), she's just feeling it (or not, in this case) and assuming it's one of those "everyone is different - it's not meant to be" kind of things. It's a category of magical thinking. Magic as in, "this just is - there's no point in trying to understand it - it just is" and this is also how things "just happen" to women. They don't ever really understand anything. They only ever feel it.

[–]Yakatonker2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

To pile on top of everything you said which I agree Alex does present himself in a way that's just plain and boring. His hair is dirty and unkept, his clothing isn't fashionable and makes him come off like a basic rube. In some clips he does come off like a filthy basement dweller, especially the unchecked chest hair. There are a lot of small tweaks that can substantially improve his physicality. Background can be a lot more professional as well, but than again he may be smart enough to know his target audience are a certain demographic of males who don't know any better.

[–]nicethingyoucanthave2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yeah, my first reaction when I saw him is that he could pull hippie chicks like a pro, but he needs to clean himself up to get more than that.

That chest hair, yeah. I have a similar thing going on. Shaving it is generally a mistake because when it starts to grow back you can tell. Instead, I just stopped wearing t-shirts all the time. It looks fine in a button up.

One thing to learn from this for sure: always get other opinions on your style. You probably aren't even conscious of the things that are hurting you.

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. I'm sure there is some attraction given he's a white guy with blue eyes but its likely she is not into it.

Just like whenever I see a hot single girl post a picture of a coworker or friend with some "ladies hes single" type bullshit caption. If he's so great why aren't you after it. Usually followed with "Oh I see him like a brother".

[–]jojojijo33313 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love how this youtuber brings together commiserating betas and makes them pay him for it.

By the way she feels sorry for you and is empathetic to you. Now she really want to fuck you.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

" Only 7 matches in a day?! "
this is when the depression hits hard

[–]prayermachine5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There is something deeply fictitious about the tinder algorithm.

[–]SKRedPill5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Any attempt by them to try and be a man for long results in them running back to the privileges of being woman in short order.

There was a book made by a Lebian feminist who ended up in therapy after an extended period of trying to be a man.

[–]HumanSockPuppet1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There was a book made by a Lebian feminist who ended up in therapy after an extended period of trying to be a man.

Yep. It's called "Self-Made Man". Interesting read.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

the type of women you see using online dating services aren't the type of women you'd want

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I don’t know where you live but it’s ubiquitous. Once social stigma of a dating app wears off, everyone is on it. From bottle girls to PhD candidates

[–]fuckingjoggers4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

not true at all. literally 98% of those on tinder are broken mentally and morally. the other 2% are on it for a while until they realize its pure trash and they delete themselves

[–]TheProfitMotive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


By definition the more someone is on the market the lower value they are.

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[–]drbrockstar69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good catch i wrote that quickly, couldn’t go back to change the title though

[–]SaveMyElephants1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Supply and demand. Shocking!

[–]chadtwashington1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Online dating apps will crush boys. Just don't even do it. Meet people in real life. Don't sit behind a screen contacting Type II Autism. Half of those women just want to burn your time for validation and attention.

[–]tchower1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chads who fuck a lot of woman are just “fucking sluts and not good woman”. That is one hell of a coping mechanism. Like “I would never fuck those woman Chad did if given the chance, I’m above that!” Yeah right. There’s a fine line I think between simping and coping. Keen redpiller to make that distinction. I find that hilarious that you pointed out how even this woman noticed that post wall woman or walled woman are “unattractive” and even this woman noticed the single mommy phenomena on dating apps.

[–]WeddingCrasher910 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

What is a good oppener then?

[–]matagad1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

something about their profile or one of their pictures works best for me

[–]RealJoeDee0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

:sigh: I invited him on the channel a while ago, but never heard back. Anyone have any leads?

[–]DrDerpex0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women avoid dating or replying in tinder because thats not real them. With fake filters and makeup you could be completely different person compared to real life and they know once man spot them with no makeup he will be extremely disappointed.

Most of women use these kind of app to get validation they lack in real life.

[–]Fummy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

7 matches in a day? I used to get 2 from 200 swipes.

[–]CommyO0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally 4/10 whales on tinder think they're fucking 9s. It's pathetic.

If there's one thing to take away from Tinder is that it's a relatively efficient way to get laid and to not put any one woman on a pedestal.

[–]travel-bound0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

In all honesty, they shouldn't care how difficult things are for men. That's part of the hypergamy filter for them. They don't want low value men who make excuses about how hard it is. They want high value fuckstuds that overcome the wall and get as much pussy as they want anyway. It's fair, similarly to how unless I'm looking for a LTR, I could care less about how educated she is or stuff like that. I only care if she is young, hot, and doesn't annoy me too much.

[–]guynpdx0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not sure what you are talking about "the plight of men". Why do you even care if they understand men? Men need to learn the fucking rules and go get pussy (or whatever else they want).

I'm tall, decent looking, in good shape, over 40, and probably giving off HVM vibes. I routinely match and fuck 18 to 24 year olds.

[–]drbrockstar69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m saying exactly that, women don’t understand, they don’t care, and they expect you to take charge. It’s not a bad thing

“They don’t care who worked the hardest in the race, they just want to be at the finish line to fuck the winners” once you understand the mentality it’s easier to detach yourself from unicorns

*Edit - saw the plight of man line, but the point still stands

[–]blazing_shuffle0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tinder sucks. Got a dog as an ESA last year. Best decision ever. Nice bonus is that women really really really like dogs.

[–]ConfidentActuator-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't think this youtuber is very red pilled. Yeah he probably read TRP content and now tries to monetize it, but dropping everything into building a business that's inherently based on "exposing" stuff that mainstream does not want you to talk about on a single major platform known for shadowbanning, demonetizing and removing channels is as BP as it gets.

Don't be that guy.

[–]SaveMyElephants6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

So anybody that puts content on YouTube is BP to you?

[–]ConfidentActuator0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's not what I said. Ok, let me rephrase that for the spergs. If you put content thats pro pro-global warming or anything else that's agrees with the mainstream, you will most likely not get banned. If you put TRP content, you will get banned sooner or later.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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