This is a great bunch of reading, but somewhat difficult to organize, so here I go.

3 weeks ago we have OP, discovering a Plan B box in garbage here; http://archive.is/RR48H

Next we have an update from OP here; http://archive.is/oGbWO

Finally, an astute commenter from /r/mgtow pointed out ANOTHER story embedded within the update from OP, which is available here; http://archive.is/PjEEq