Here’s a thought for the older guys out there, though comments are welcome from all.
Have you noticed the influence of porn on women’s sexual behavior?
I had a conversation with female co-workers in the early 2010’s. Because I’m older, (I guess) they asked me about “hairy bushes.” They thought that was part of “70’s porn.” No joke. These were women in the early to mid 20’s, so they likely grew up with internet access, and of course, we all know that the internet is for porn. So, I had to tell them that, from what I have seen, shaved women are more from the 80’s-90’s onward until now, and when I was in college (80’s), I rarely encountered shaved women. They just assumed that women always have shaved. Of course, this leads me to think that porn has influenced the way women think and behave.
After my single mother debacle, I took the pill, and got into Red Pill thinking by way of PUA. Prior to the single mother, I was in a relationship then marriage for just under 20 years, so I was out of the dating market for a long time. As I recovered from the single mother, I still wanted to have sex with women, but not let them screw up my life. So, I learned game. It does work, but it requires time and effort, and it still means that you’re expending time and resources on women (something I’ve since stopped doing). I quickly noticed something. More and more of the women I was hooking up with, many of them being professional women (nurses, teachers, pharmacists, accountants, and so on) were acting like they were in porn. I rarely encountered a woman who hadn’t done anal, and hadn’t liked it. Most all gave competent, if not mind-blowing blowjobs. They obviously knew what they are doing. It was if they were acting out scenes from PornHub. The last woman I had a FWB with was the perfect example. She was shy, dressed like a librarian, was in her mid-20’s, and acted like a total freak in bed. Knew how to use her tongue, was verbal, love her hair pulled and to be choked. She literally acted like she was doing live action porn.
When I was in college, sex was sometimes awkward, because many of the college girls were just out of HS, and away from their parents for the first time. Most of them were not, shall we say, good at what they were doing. Lots of starfish sex, and many times, disappointing blowjobs, and so on. That’s not to say that many of them didn’t get better with practice, but most of the time, their inexperience showed.
I would be willing to bet that porn has really impacted the sexual marketplace, and probably for the worse. How much earlier do women start? How soon do they get into more and more sexual acts? How much higher are the body counts because of that? How much more cheating does that encourage? How much hypergamy is encouraged? We already know that many more women have bisexual experience. Did porn help encourage that? Obviously, this no longer impacts me, since I’ve gone my own way, but there are young guys out there now that need this information.
Mind you, I’m not an anti porn crusader, but what I have seen makes me think about the differences in female behavior in my lifetime. I really think porn has made a difference.
Of course, this is relevant to MGTOW to show how much more depraved women have become. The feminists and tradcucks say that porn messed up men’s sexual expectations. I’d argue the greater impact has been on women. I’ve just seen the change in behavior over the years. I don’t know of a woman today that is relationship material, let alone wife material. GYOW and avoid all of it.
What do you men think?
