The modern woman alpha widows herself, if not by a high value male. The microchimerism of the mind: the continuous accumulation of every perceived positive traits/features of the men she is exposed to: the movies, tv series, fiction and in the real world dating. The ensemble of these put together into that imaginary one man, for whom she awaits all her life. You are to compete(you can't) against this one giant and thus the relationships these days turn sour in no time - the more the exposure, the larger is that giant. This results in women easily bored in any new age relationship.

While the red pilled communities often talk about women losing out on the external appearance based SMV post the wall slam, the corruption that's happening to their governing software is more relevant.

Trying to emulate the top SMV man's ways of 'dating without commitment' as the way to winning at life throughout the years when nature was in her side, without understanding that such a men are very few and/or they have worked hard to that position to be able to do it. While all that she has to do is, well.. (you know it); and later when she's no longer perceived to be young and attractive by the men whom she slept with, they start ignoring her and the wholesome reality of her past takes a very heavy toll on the mental health. Nature catching up with the make-believe system that one can do anything and get away with it.

Whereas for a man, two things happen simultaneously:

-The getting used to the loneliness. The 20s is a decade where a man can be easily trapped into a marriage(and that was the case in the traditional era), because the hormones drive his head rather than the intelligence. And facing rejections in those vulnerable years, he grows out of it through mental strength and fortitude. The boy turning into a man as he faces failures and growing up stronger.

-Women assume that such good men can wait while she dates those whom give her the tingles maxima; but the good men (at least those with critical thinking) have all discovered the red pill and have been decoupled from the 'woman are wonderful' programming. The exact nature of women have been decoded; they aren't the complex creatures as it was assumed to be; That boy who grew as the man is now thoroughly red pilled.

Women who couldn't stand coping with the delusions of higher self worth choose activism: the feminist. Cut short their hair, dye them in weird colors, find bizarre ways to find fault with masculinity ... in summary, do everything except to introspect what really went wrong with their lives. The lies they tell themselves and the toll they pay for it in wine and depression pills; At this stage, they are beyond redemption. The software is thoroughly corrupt and the hardware is damaged beyond salvage.

There is no way a man can wife up such a woman with corrupted mind; and in these days it is almost all women. Men with lack of critical thinking skills to overcome the blue pill conditioning 'rush in as those fools' and in no time end up in slaves, cucks and other insufferable positions.

Time wrecks a woman; time builds a man and strengthens him. This exactly is the meaning behind the saying, 'men age like wine, women age like milk'.

This, by no means is a position to gloat about as a man, for it is in the best interests for both to stay put and raise the next generation. Instead we constantly try to out-compete in work places, out-smart each other in vainglorious arguments and parade internet points as an achievement. Humanity has braved the harsh elements, built a civilization through continuous progress in hardships and developing skills only to end up as weak beings who don't have the courage to master the instincts, make a rational choice, and the will to live by that; instead be the weak beings who can't even entertain the idea of making a kid to pass on the gene line and take refuge in bringing up pets while subscribing to r/childfree and sit before the television to virtue signal and accumulate the 'feel good' points.