Fact: Women are the sexual selectors in hetero relationships.
Fact: Women can only reproduce once every 18 months.
Fact: Women have personal and health liability associated with reproduction.
Fact: Women require resources, provisions and protection while they are pregnant and nurturing children.
Fact: Women seek masculine traits in men such as dominance, resources and status.

Fact: Men chase after women for intimacy and feminine affection.
Fact: Men can reproduce 2 times a day.
Fact: Men have no personal or health liability associated with reproduction.
Fact: Men are driven to work hard to give women what they need and/or are asking for their affection.
Fact: Men seek feminine traits in women such as submission, innocence and fertility.


Now, with regards to relationships, if a woman gives up her feminine offerings easily to men, she loses the qualities that men seek in her. That doesn't mean men won't still compromise to give her what she wants, such as commitment.

Men and women are not egalitarian in the dating/mating world and that has never existed. In our industrilized, civilized societies women have all the basic needs that men historically provided for them. But on the other side, the offering from women must still come from women. Men don't have the state to fall back on for his needs as being self sufficient is already a requirement and expectation of him. Crudely, the state doesn't grant him monthly allowance of sex, but it does grant women a monthly allowance of welfare.

The truth is that women require male commitment as a biological imperative through attention, validation, social status, and bonding because women have a massive liability associated with their programming to reproduce. Currently, there are many men and women enjoying each other despite having these predispositions of sexual history, youth and assets, but men are increasingly compromising on having less sexual exclusivity. Women then in turn, compromise on male support and increasingly chase after superficial qualities in men, thereby rewarding unproductive men until they need a man who will cherish and take care of her. In this regard, modern relationships have become more about finding a mindful balance of compromise instead of superior qualities and traits that make a union great, powerful and prosperous.

Therefore, if a woman sleeps around with many men, she relinquishes her offering to many men that will not have any agency for her. She cannot get that back. She cannot make sex a casual behavior in her life and then have any expectation that she will view sex any differently for a man that purports to love, care, cherish, and provide for her. She can no longer respect that man because by her own acts, sex is meaningless.

The less women value themselves and give up their feminine qualities to estranged men, the more that the top tier men (the ones who are well off, attractive, and can fuck her brains out), will get access to harems of women and they will just have no desire to give women what they actually want, which is his dedication to their luxuries and causes.

The less society views traditional values as the superior moral standing that it is, the greater stress all of society will operate under. The more hedonism is normalized, "casual sex is fine, everyone does it and lives kick ass lives!", the greater quickening of the economic collapse. Hard working men are the backbone of the nations prosperity. Without an incentive to work hard by taking care of a family, then the nation will become weakened as the family unit has less and less voice to the nations resources and protections, but single mother households have more and more needs and entitlements to those resources.

Liberal and socialist societies that give women social security blankets and equal authority over the nations resources will inevitably collapse due to their unsustainable wants in lieu of lacking a commitment minded man to take care of them.

But hey, maybe the thousands of years of historical human behavior signalling the doom of any civilization that normalizes promiscuity and the welfare state just got it wrong! We can do it better this time around, right guise?!