This is going to sound harsh and intolerant. But in keeping with the theme of this post, I don't care.

Over at the main sub, one reader left a comment about the supposed "double standard" regarding high N women. "No problem with men banging lots of women, but men get all grossed out about women banging lots of men." I responded that I don't care about "double standards" and that it's women's problem.

I don't care.

Women can do whatever they want. They can have sex with whomever they want, when and where they want, under whatever circumstances they want. I don't care.

Women bear consequences for having that sex. There are many consequences, good and bad. Those consequences are not my problem and not my concern. Let women figure out how to deal with that. I don't care.

The fact that women figure out how to deal with that through various online female dating strategies that are directly opposed to men, and hostile to men, is not my problem or my concern. Women will bear the consequences of it. I don't care.

Yes, this is probably going to be something of a societal and cultural Mexican standoff. We've been heading in that direction for at least 30 years now. I don't care.

To the extent there is a "double standard" for men banging lots of women and not wanting to commit to those women once they're done banging them, I don't care about that either. I don't care that that "double standard" appears to some to be hypocritical or inconsistent.

I don't care that women have problems realizing their dating/sexual strategies. I don't care that women aren't getting what they want from their relationships with men. I don't care that women get unwanted or unwelcome attention from unattractive men. I don't care that some of that "unwanted attention" is inconvenient, annoying, or even frightening or threatening. I also don't much care that an infinitesimally small and negligible amount of that "unwanted attention" is criminal. Those are women's problems, and I don't care about those problems. Other people care about them, probably too much.

I don't care that women can't get commitment from the men they want. I don't care that women get pumped and dumped and don't like it. I don't care that women like getting pumped and dumped but don't like the later consequences of being unable to get the guy to commit. Again, these are women's problems to deal with, and I don't care about them. It's not my job to do anything about them.

I don't care that men pump and dump women. I don't care that men won't commit to women who have been pumped and dumped. And I really don't care that the men who pump and dump these women are the same men who won't commit to them.

And when you get all the way down to it, I don't care that there are men who will still commit to women who got pumped and dumped.

We don't have any obligation to care. We have no duty to care. We don't have to appear consistent to you. We don't have to help you understand. We don't care what you think about any of this, we don't care about your opinions, and we don't care if you don't like this.

Here's what I do care about.

I care about helping men who want help get what they want, need, and desire from their lives. I care about helping men build themselves up so they can have the lives they want. I care about helping men see that they can do that for themselves. I care about helping men maximize their power in every aspect of their lives. I care about helping men to minimize other people's power over their lives. In relationships, I care about men maximizing their own power, and minimizing women's power.

I care about exposing toxic women for what they really are. I care about helping men avoid those women and extricate themselves from entanglements with those women. I care about helping men avoid commitment to women who don't spend their every waking moment earning that commitment.

If you don't need our help, I don't care about you because you're none of my concern.

If you aren't on board with the purpose of these subreddits, I don't care about you except to the extent that you stay out of my way.

I don't care. Well, I do care some. But mostly, I don't care.