https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIEM10v20JE&t=2s

I just got done watching this video and they brought up one key point that I think settles the score on why women don't approach men; to protect their own self-esteem. Even when women do 'approach' men, all that most of them do is make themselves available. Women on dating subs actually teach others exactly this, make a guy notice their availability and appearance and it is the man's job to take initiative and approach her. Even if the likelihood of the man they are after noticing them through their 'signals' is low, they don't approach. Why? So that if he is not interested, they don't have to go through rejection.

Rejection for women breaks everything that they thought they were. There is a woman during the video I linked who mentions that she gets approached by men but it is never the men she wants. She even makes the comment that the men who approach her need to be realistic, she places herself above them and this is no surprise because no man has ever told her no. However, she's never had to ask. She doesn't consider this though, in her head she has no reason to believe she isn't deserving of the men she wants because she has thousands of other men lining up for her company. There is a serious lack of self-reflection.

Back on female dating subs, these groups look down upon women who approach men. They assume it is because a forward woman is not attractive/feminine so when a woman approaches a man and gets rejected they do not even want to consider that she just wasn't attractive to the man she wanted. You know? Like how women reject men that are not attractive to them... I just think that it's worth noting that these types of women who believe they are high-value seem to be the most afraid of rejection.