It's been brought up here several times how the media portrays men and women according to a feminist narrative. Men are brought up consuming this propaganda as truth. It becomes adopted into our culture as norms and memes. We allow it to define us and it makes us miserable.

What about that other feminist narrative put forth by Esther Vilar in "The Polygamous Sex"?

A man who wants to gain power over a woman must follow the example of women and condition his sex drive. If he succeeds in becoming as cold as she, she can no longer bait him with sex into the role of provider. At most she could offer herself as an equal sex partner, as dependent on him as he is on her. If men could abstain from sex at judicious intervals they might even succeed in normalizing the female sex drive - even make women desire them more than the other way around.”

This is what red pill does. So how's that working out? The guys that use it seem pretty happy, at first. They've completely scrapped the idea of monogamy and have a cold approach to sex. The women are miserable because there aren't any "good men". This takes care of the male sexual instinct, but not the other major one: nurturing. This is where red pill falls short and we need new strategies because sex and nurturing are often at conflict if in the same woman simultaneously. I also see plenty of red pill men disgusted with women in the same way feminists are disgusted with men.

I think we will continue to be miserable if we keep following these feminist narratives. I've learned to go back to the way we've always done things and separate women out into whores and housewives. Then you choose a wife based on one set of criteria, and a whore on another set. You satisfy your sex instinct with whores and nurturing instinct with wives. You satisfy women's hypergamy and solipsism with red pill.

We need to move in the opposite direction of feminism. We need to legalize prostitution and tax it. We need red light districts in every town where whores can make an honest living and make a meaningful contribution to society. I bet there's enough support right now to push it through as a ballot initiative just like cannabis. We need to stop shaming men for satisfying their sex instinct in a safe, positive, constructive manner. We need to stop allowing divorce for it too. It should be SOP that a man can sleep with whoever he wants and if his partner is so great that he doesn't want any other woman, then great. If not, blame the woman. She controls the quantity and quality of sex. If she wants to satisfy both his instincts, she has her work cut out for her. If she wants to be a whore, she can leave and go support herself.