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In yet another comment expanded into a post, here I'll explain something short and sweet.

She doesn't care about what you want or need.

At our subreddits are post after post after post with women's dating profiles in which she lists her litany of expectations. He's got to be a Christian, at least 6 feet tall, earn $10 billion annually while working only 10 hours a month, unfailingly kind, love puppies, volunteer at the local disadvantaged kids' social service (but have no children of his own), an Eagle Scout, have a rap sheet, been a MMA fighter, trained in at least 4 martial arts, is an expert marksman qualified on at least 3 different firearms, is a trained and licensed aircraft pilot, able to prepare a seven course gourmet meal, able to preach a sermon on 15 minutes' notice, owns free and clear a nonmortgaged 5 bedroom 4 bathroom 4000 square foot move in ready fully furnished and applianced house with nanny and maid, and have at least $5 million in investments.

That's what she wants out of the deal.

What about what you want out of the deal?

She doesn't care. She has given no thought whatsoever to anything you might want. Not only has she not thought about it, it has never even occurred to her to consider it. It has never crossed her mind that the man who will be one-half of her proposed relationship/marriage/whatever will want or need anything.

This is because to a woman, her dealings with you have nothing to do with you. You're there solely and only to facilitate her wants/needs. The purpose of her relationship with you is provisioning and protection for her and the kids she wants to have, and status in the feminine social matrix.

"because to women marriage is not a sex party, its a family making machine"

What she misses is that the purpose of marriage for men is sex and ownership. He gets sex. He gets to build something - a house, land, equipment, things, "toys" - and what he builds belongs to him.

The purpose of a relationship with a woman is sex and a soft landing, a respite from the harsh realities of the world.

The point is not so much what he wants or needs. The point is that she does not care about it. She hasn't even given it any thought.

This is why you have to care about it, make it known, and refuse to compromise on it.