From some relationshits Reddit:

made plans to stay the night with my boyfriend about a week ago. We’ve had a busy few weeks and I wanted to just settle down, relax, and enjoy a night in each other’s company. I get to his house last night and he’s invited his friend over, despite knowing about the plan. It was a little frustrating, but all three of us are pals and it wasn’t too big a deal. They thought it could be like a sleepover and spend the night in the room together. I wasn’t too keen, but went to sleep pretty much immediately, and my boyfriend decided to join me while leaving his buddy to play a cool new video game on my BF’s computer.

This is where I’m conflicted. I woke up to my boyfriend initiating sex, and I whisper for him to stop because his friend’s still on the computer a few feet from us. He does not. I’m not an assertive person, and I was feeling so embarrassed I didn’t want to get noticed by the other person in the room. It eventually escalated to him being less subtle and I’m telling him to stop a bit more—still whispering and really uncomfortable. The word STOP was burned into my brain. When I realize he won’t stop I try to get it over with, which I think he took as reciprocating and just forewent even trying to hide it. He finished, and I just curled up and began to cry. Between me waking up and my BF finishing, my BF’s friend had migrated to the floor in heap of blankets blocking the door. So he’d been awake for it. That made me cry harder.

Immediately freaking out, my BF pulled me into the living room to check on me. I’m a wreck, just sobbing and feeling so gross and conflicted. He’s telling me to to talk to him saying, “I’m so sorry, I’m sorry,” over and over. He sounds like he’s on the edge of crying. I ask him, “Did I not say stop?” And he breaks down, saying he didn’t hear me, he’s sorry he put me in that situation. The embarrassment and the disgust I feel were, and still are, warring with my love for him. In that moment, watching him cry, I comforted him and told him it was okay.

I’m numb. I feel disgusted with myself, and went home this morning so conflicted. Shouldn’t I have been more assertive, told him no? What did I do wrong? The scariest question I’ve asked myself involves one scary word that I don’t want to think about...because I didn’t want it.

How do I communicate with my boyfriend about this? What do I even do now? I can’t see clearly and need help.

This alone does not tell us where all the good men are. It tells us of a confused young girl who is not mentally prepared to be having sex. But don't worry! She is gaining experience very, very quickly and sex will be nothing for her in a very short time.

The part that shows WATGMA is found in the comment section. Do you think they told this young girl to be more careful about which beds she jumps into naked in the future if she is not sure she wants to have sex? Yeah, sure they did.

Here is a sampling:

Break up and have therapy, don't let him have this hold over you.

Therapy will go a long way to helping you heal.

This is the typical response. Anything bad happens? THERAPY!!!! Go to a feminist and be reassured that you did nothing wrong, that you have to change NOTHING, and that all the fault is on the man.

Also, you are a RAPE VICTIM!!!!!

You did nothing wrong. You ask if you should have told him no, but you did. Multiple times.

This isn't your fault. You didn't deserve it. And you didn't cause it.

Ummmm did we read the same little piece? I see a girl going to BF's room to fuck. She stays the night. She gets naked. She gets into bed, waiting for her BF. He wakes her up with sex. Most likely he slipped inside her wet, soggy little noodle while she let out a satisfied moan and started grinding.

She said 'wait' or stop and I will bet you ten million dollars that he DID. He stopped. Then she tingled and gripped him and probably started pumping herself so he started again.

That is the reality that all of us are missing. This is almost certainly what happened. This guy cares deeply for this girl and was clearly upset and shocked that she was so histrionic. He was not trying to hurt her or dominate her. He was having sex with his GF who, was naked and waiting for him in his god damn bed, dripping wet and ready to slide into just like the proverbial hot dog down the hallway. Want to bet?

Is this chick even aware that a girl is not a passive object but an actual functioning human being! Your kidding! A girl need not weakly groan out a throaty "stop" but she could actually move her hips. She could move her hips to pump and grind or she could move her hips away. She can roll over, and dislodge the cock that is buried deep inside the orient. She could kick, push away or YELL! She could do that or she could keep pumping in rhythm! She almost admits it: He took it as me "reciprocating." So he was pumping and you were pumping back. "Reciprocating" is a very descriptive word when you think about it. Y'all know I am right.

Here is my analysis of this girl's mental processes. This was, as is all sex with women, about one thing and one thing alone. POWER. She was pissed at her BF because she went over there to fuck and he spent the time playing with his buddy and the new video game instead of worshiping her.

So she consciously decided that she wasn't going to fuck him that night because he deserved to be punished. Then she stripped naked and into his bed.

Knowing that she was going to torture her BF and lord her feminine power over him probably gave her pleasant and sopping wet dreams as she went to sleep. Later, BF comes to bed and slips balls deep into her with no resistance. He is thinking "OMG, my GF is the BEST!" She is pumping hard and wriggling like a slut...and then she wakes up....and her first rational thought is that THE FRIEND IS THERE.....that's right, I am mad at BF. I wasn't going to have sex. Now I lost my power and I am going to throw a shit fit to get it back.

All of this is not why all the good men have left. This is just normal female thinking and behavior. Nothing nefarious. She just needs a man to calm her hamster and soothe her gyrations.

I wonder if the waymen's of Reddit Relationshits will calm her concerns:

shame is not an uncommon feeling when someone is violated the way you were.

you are a good person and your boyfriend is not please do not let him treat you like this

Shame and guilt are common feelings around sexual assault. He also has gaslit you into feeling sorry for him, which only adds to the guilt.

You were raped and now he's trying to manipulate you into thinking he made an innocent mistake. Do you have someone you trust that you can talk to and get support from? I also suggest you go to the police.

This was an act of rape. You should seek solace by contacting a mental health clinician or local crisis center immediately.

I am just astounded that fucking your naked GF in your bed can now be considered "rape." In a nutshell, THIS is the REASON all the good men are long gone.

Yes, I get that she said "stop" and I have tried several so called "rape" cases and every one is the same. They are not the violent attacks of feminist lore! They are mostly like this. A woman decides she doesn't want to have sex because she is pissed for some reason. Then she has sex. Then she consults with the herd of women and decides that since she didn't want to have sex, and did have sex, then she must have had UNWANTED SEX which is now "rape." Then the man goes to jail while waiting for trial and everybody laughs when word gets out that he is gang raped by his 3 roommates.

And the woman? She now has a loaded gun to use for the rest of her life. She will pull out the "i WAS RAPED" trump card to win every argument, and to subdue every single man she is with from now until the end of time.

That is why the men have left. That is where all the good men are. They went MGTOW.