One of the things that drove me away from dating is just listening to women when they don’t think anyone is listening. I don’t know how many times I have heard a woman say something to the effect of, “He doesn’t know what makes me happy, so I’m not going to make him happy.” Then there is the bitchy entitled attitude. Case in point:

I was at work, when two women go walking by; having a conversation. The one was telling the other, “I can totally change my own flat tires. I’m totally able to do that. However, every single time I get a flat, some old guy comes along and offers to help. Again, I can do it myself, but if some old guy wants to get his dick hard helping me, hell yeah!” She’s not even grateful that these guys went out of their way to help. She’s just happy to not have to do it herself.

I just walked away; shaking my head. It’s this attitude that is driving away men and they are absolutely clueless about it. It’s not just driving them away from dating/marriage, but from even wanting to help women. They are so wrapped up in themselves that they can’t see beyond their “Yaaassss queen! Slay!” attitude. They are shooting themselves in the foot and then are shocked when it hurts.

When we hear that more and more men want nothing to do with dating and marriage, we completely understand while women are totally confused and hurt. I’m not even surprised by garbage like this anymore. It’s just par for the course.