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Almost feel bad doing this, but at 39 she's still got her mind stuck on one thing...

April 2, 2020
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Title Almost feel bad doing this, but at 39 she's still got her mind stuck on one thing...
Author bitcoin-optimist
Upvotes 216
Comments 93
Date April 2, 2020 3:12 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]-Numbers-Jr. Hamster Analyst 112 points113 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

I love this part

"The whole concept of dating, courting, chivalry, being romantic, having something 'real' and meaningful, lasting and 'forever' has completely change"

Yeah that concept was right there in front of you in your 20s when you chose to ignore them for the aloof 6'3 dickheads who left you on read while they were screwing their rotation of baby mamas. Too late to cash out now, granny.

[–]Honest_SolutionSr. Toxically Masculine Care Boi 56 points57 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

I would argue that most women still ignore it in their early and mid-30’s. It’s like those very last chances come along and they don’t realize they’re getting to the very end of the line, so they do what they’ve always done and that’s reject non-Chad’s for the stupidest of reasons. Now that she’s reflecting on her aloneness, it’s all men’s fault that she isn’t being courted or loved properly when in fact she’s the one who made this bed but refuses to take a nap in it.

[–]-Numbers-Jr. Hamster Analyst 38 points39 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Sadly that's true about their 30s being no different. We're still expected to get out our violins because Chads find her repulsive and are busy with girls 19 years her junior. Gives me the warm and fuzzies seeing them suffering over the beds they themselves made

[–]HikageBurner 30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Tfw the 39 year olds want our attention but instead we'd rather fuck their daughters.

[–]-Numbers-Jr. Hamster Analyst 18 points19 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If you managed to pull that off a couple of decades later on a woman who ignored you back when you would have given the world for her then that is hands down one of the biggest middle fingers I can think of.

[–]HikageBurner 18 points19 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It's our job as men who wish to stand up for ourselves to fuck the daughters of the Stacys who rejected us in high school and college.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Tfw the 39 year olds want our attention but instead we'd rather fuck their daughters.

Soooooooooooooooooooo true.

[–]Rahim556 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

21 years her junior FTFY

[–][deleted] 27 points28 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Women stop maturing about mid puberty and they don't start maturing again until men start ignoring them. A pre-wall woman is literally a child mentally.

[–]user_miki 8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm an old dude and I found that some women never mature.I know personally some >60 old laddies making girly weird faces(they think that is flirting) and behaving like a spoiled 20 year old girls when asking some favors from a man.

It is really creepy to see that.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I heard that factoid from watching both Donovan Sharpe and Coach Greg Adams.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I made a video about that a long time ago but YouTube took it down for hate speech. I personally believe a lot of it is simply the fact that women go through puberty between about 9-15 and puberty is when the brain does a lot of development so they get kind of frozen in that teen and tween mindset. Then because life is so easy for pre-wall women, they are never forced to grow beyond that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women evolved to nurture and then maintain friendship with their offspring. The nurture is for their babies development early on and to keep the woman interested in their survival. The friendship is for the woman later on, so that the children continue to take care of their mammas. That is why they don't mature past the post-pubescent expectations of mental development. The reason this works is because men take care of innocent children and are triggered to take care of women at that level of mental faculty.

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just like the site says

Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but they consistently reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a man's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of thinking he was entitled to sex just for being nice.

But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys he was a "NiceGuy™" unworthy of dating, but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout he's a "real man" who treats her with respect.

[–]jkballzer 53 points54 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

“I think, dream, and love on a different level than most” Also sex is most important and you must be tall 😂😂😂

[–]bitcoin-optimistJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 28 points29 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Glad someone said it 😂, and it keeps going and going...

https://i.imgur.com/79EPuxj.png

[–]rvail136 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think she's dedicated to having sex with her cat...

JK, she an incipient cat woman. She'll end up bitter, old and alone...except for her cats!

[–]mustangfrankCopy-paste Commando 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What is more important than height?

[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 43 points44 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Currently suffering from swipe left syndrome (SLS)... True story!

Also....

39

🤦‍♂️

I wonder what the problem might be....🤔

I have an idea: could it possibly be that she's been rejecting good men for the majority of her life?

She's 39. Her 18th birthday was 21+ years ago... she probably got started on rejecting good men while in middle school, but even if it started at 18, it's still most of her life....

And she isn't done yet, as expressed by her suffering from swipe left syndrome.

Lady, you're 39. You're almost old enough to be a grandma. You can't afford to keep rejecting good men, but what do I know? Enjoy your cats, boxed wine and your trusty crusty dolphin vibrator.... 🖕

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

God. The last woman I went out with wasn't even born yet when she was 18. I'm 38. 🤣

[–]jmpiresJr. Hamster Analyst -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, one of my workers, not being exactly a role model for anyone, is a grandpa since he was 35, and his wife must be the same age... I guess no need for "almost"

[–]Honest_SolutionSr. Toxically Masculine Care Boi 39 points40 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Stupid women like this make their own problems. It’s not that she doesn’t have options, it’s that the options she has she thinks she “deserves” better.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I hope she really doesn't have any. Let her cats and busted eggs keep her company.

[–]lorum_ipsum_dolorJr. Hamster Analyst 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's like a crackhead thinking they could beat their addiction if they could just score better crack.

edit: spelling

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I always say "your looksalike is your orbiters. Anything better you can get only for a night".

[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (7 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the post OP. I'm going with "leftovers" for this one since she spends most of the time bitching about how chivalry is dead and no one believes in forever love anymore and I am pretty sure that she didn't give a shit about forever and long term commitment when she was younger and had options that disappeared as she face planted the wall.

[–]bitcoin-optimistJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Wish I could have included all the questions. It is obvious she got around and that's only recently changed. The sad thing is you can tell she genuinely wants kids and she still thinks that option is on the table. I kept wondering, "What in the world were you thinking waiting?"

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She believed the lie that feminism pushes. That she could ride the carousel all through her twenties, go to school, get a job, and that when she was ready prince charming would be waiting with open arms.

[–]siusideTempted fate on Carol's sensibilities 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dunno OKC, but is that profile pic on the top right corner yours? Might want to do something about it ;) (And you got some 'splaining to do my man)

[–]bitcoin-optimistJr. Hamster Analyst[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If women want to track me down from a pixelated thumbnail, let them. :)

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it. - Dave Chappelle.

[–]MachoToughGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

...she spends most of the time bitching about how chivalry is dead and no one believes in forever love anymore

She can thank feminism for that.

[–]goodbye2017hello2018 33 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow, another 39 year old chick that used a 10 year old photo for her profile.

Seems to be the norm nowadays.

[–]lurkerhasarisen2 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

"Christian"

Get married: "No"

Most important thing for having a good match: "Having good sex"

You don't say...

[–]Typo-MAGAshivasshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!

Also this gem: "when I know, I'm forever yours". Yet she's not with any of her exes...

[–]OracleofFl 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!

Love it!

[–]Typo-MAGAshivasshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I stole that from /u/loneliness-Inc 😁

[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

🙂

[–]awells1 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I hate that, like just don’t claim it, how does saying Christian make your profile any different? Just leave it off. You think God is going to let you into heaven based on what your dating profile says

[–]lurkerhasarisen1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I see your point, but have a different take on it. Religious affiliation is extremely important to a lot of people. I did not even remotely consider the possibility of marrying a woman who was not a Christian, for example, and my wife would not have been interested in me if I hadn't been one.

That said, I don't see the point in her claiming a religion she doesn't practice. By her profile she is sending a very strong signal that she's 1) not serious about one of the most basic "Thou Shalt Not's" of the Christian faith (fornication), but also that she doesn't understand anything about Christian matrimony.

She can be a practicing Christian or she can be a THOT, but she can't be both at the same time, and it's very clear what her choice is.

[–]Gichboi 24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Technology has disconnected us from ourselves ", she said...on an online hookup platform

[–][deleted] 18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Get married no, settle down yes

What'cha waiting for, granny?

[–]piph3333 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't get the rationale around refusing to sign a pre-nup. It's a sign of "real love", not cause for offence. Smh

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Assuming that picture isn't ten years old she isn't bad looking. But at thirty-nine you are rolling the dice on down syndrome babies.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's ols pic

[–]meeritaGlobe-trotting mansplainer 14 points15 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

She may look for a comedian job:

  1. Good girl. Yeah, right.
  2. Real values: Yeah, right. 36 not married with kids on their 10s bad signal.
  3. Educated. I see where your education lead you.
  4. Morals. Yeah, slut morals.
  5. Well traveled: travel whore. Who knows how many Vladimir and Jammals she sucked for free travel.
  6. Good sense of humor. I see it, good profile!

And more, of course:

  1. british ,mainer, new yorker. As if that matters.
  2. Ethnicity: yeah, you love racists, like you.
  3. Adventurous. Of course, you have no life, anything that takes out of your confort zone is nice.
  4. SLS, woa, looking for mr. right alfa rich pacified man. Sorry not happening.
  5. Trying real love. LOLOL
  6. Actually read profiles. Sure.
  7. Need to see your eyes as its teh online way. No, you know that's not true, you will fall in love with who i am and what can i do. Not my eyes.

[–]RRFdev 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Every woman trying to settle down acts like a bible-thumper and a racist. There's no surprise there.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

"Adventurous spirit that enjoys spontaneous moments and discoveries."

Translation: Great for a pump n dump but terrible prospect for a long term relationship due to malignant hypergamy, becoming bored easily, and general RPS (Restless Pussy Syndrome).

[–]kyledontcareChristian Comeback Kid 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sorry ISTJ people are not exactly adventurous and spontaneous.

[–]StingRayFinsJr. Hamster Analyst 7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Almost 40... that's about 25 YEARS of sleeping around and riding the carousel. Think about that.

[–]OracleofFl 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Uh...I would say the odds are better than 50/50 she is lying and is 40+

[–]WeWillAllDie666 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

not only that but she will have probably spent those years where guys have been catering to her demands/requirements without compromise, so the standard expectation from her end is "you have to get in line" because that is all she knows, because she is unfamiliar with the concept that her stock has diminished.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A quarter of a century of riding the CC, she must have developed some serious "saddle sores" by now.

[–]z31fanatic 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well traveled and adventurous spirit are fancy words for whoring around.

[–]RRFdev 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hopeless romantic -> Hypergamously fucking men above her league and then getting pumped and dumped.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Swiping Left Syndrome" SLS

Isn't that standard issue practice for over 99% of women using these apps?

[–]asdf333azaSenior deluge-style poster 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Stopped reading at 5'0" and curvy. 🙄

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[M] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Refuses to sign a prenup.

Here's your chance, boys! Marry her and then quit your job and file for divorce! Profit$$$!!

[–]ObsidianAdonis 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The good news is that she's too old even for a beta simp. But at least she will have cats to keep her company.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

39, "curvy" and a laundrylist of requirements...another one.

[–]skeletonshorror 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No one escapes the wall. NO ONE. 💀🔥

[–]RRFdev 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The crone desperately tries to compete based on looks and virtue signalling, but daw....nope.

It's common knowledge that crones are MASSIVELY, MASSIVELY shallow, that Chads do not want to deal with the headache of trying to keep a crone who is always constantly tempted to branch swing.

Plus, her habit of branch-swinging ultimately damages a crone and no guy wants to deal with all the bitterness and problems that come with it too.

For every 1 older woman who just barely manages to assume a semblance of an attractive appearance and personality, 100 younger women can do better.

[–]bsutansaltTRP Mod 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Stunning. This is exactly the kind of woman who would have benefited greatly from hearing this 15-20 years ago. It's too late for her, but maybe her daughters nieces can avoid repeating her mistakes.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

can avoid repeating her mistakes

She is still competing with those women, so she'll sabotage their ability to get the men they are also interested in. Those younger women aren't interested in listening to anyone/thing but their own tingles while the State will take care of them and provide them the stability they would normally have to find from a good provider male.

RedPilling women seems to be a sunken cost fallacy. We want women to recognize their value so that they seek stable, long term relationships with men that make good provider males, but the value that men provide are already granted to women via the state welfare redistribution system. Since men chase after young, fertile women and can't be expected to give up their hormonal requirements for physical intimacy, then men will always attempt to offer what women are looking for. RedPilling women ends up attempting to change older women's mind after the damage of not getting precisely what they want has already been done while young women already have the power to get what they want, they just don't want boring provider traits the State has already fulfilled. It is only when getting everything they wanted doesn't materialize into getting what they expected to get in the future that they turn to other tactics to game the system in their favor again. But men aren't fooled by older women and the most those spinsters can hope for is to get a desperate man who they resent.

In summary, there is no point to showing women the perils of riding the Carousel, but instead to show men the result of having them already done that. Women will get in line when they have no other option, when the chips are down and StateWelfare Inc. has closed it's already bankrupted doors. The writing is on the wall, but women aren't reading until they slam into it.

[–]bsutansaltTRP Mod 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

the value that men provide are already granted to women via the state welfare redistribution system

That and the fact women can make their own money, pay for their own houses, etc. The paradox of course is that many, if not most, don't actually want that life. The irony is that most don't often recognize this until they've hit the wall of course, and for many by then it's too late. As they talked about in the video, by the time women get into their mid-30s or later, the guys still available aren't the ones they desire, but rather are the leftovers women across the board have discarded in life, MGTOWs by choice and widowers not included.

In summary, there is no point to showing women the perils of riding the Carousel, but instead to show men the result of having them already done that. Women will get in line when they have no other option, when the chips are down and StateWelfare Inc. has closed it's already bankrupted doors. The writing is on the wall, but women aren't reading until they slam into it.

We agree that things won't fundamentally change until the state stops usurping men's roles in society as the father and husband. I'm talking the end of WIC, child support being needs tested with both parents responsible for HALF of whatever amount the state arrives at, no more alimony, welfare like section 8 housing--gone. When those kinds of changes occur the women we see right now, today thanks to this virus, who are looking around thinking to themselves holy shit, no time to waste, imagine that being scaled up at the macro level for decades. Women would be climbing over each other to marry early and forgot the cock carousel.

Tear out the welfare rot root & stem and society will change for the better in no time flat. Some women will have a hard time, and their kids might go hungry until those women get their shit together, but charities can step in to fill the gap until women as a class, single mothers especially, get their act together. THEN AND ONLY THEN will those women serve as proper examples to others of what NOT to do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It appears that we are in complete agreement here about the A) problem and B) solution. After having contemplated this for a few days, I am curious why this isn't being discussed more in RPW. There is almost no way to tell a woman to seek men for security and stability over the state because they are driven to extract resources from anywhere they can. They don't have the logical faculties to decide their own merits for the things they want and need which is partly why they take advantage and exploit men when men allow them to.

TRP and MGTOW are the response to female liberation and privilege. So what is RPW the response to in the same environment? Wouldn't that be a response required for a patriarchal society?

My apologies if this is off topic, but I would like to contribute there, only I haven't been able to wrap my mind around helping women who are already taken care of, often over the expense of hard working men that aren't.

[–]jimmyjoejimbob 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you like the taste of beer?

No.

That's going to be a no from me too lady.

[–]ToshinRaiizen 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm 7 inches taller than her and that wouldn't be enough for Ms. Hopeless.

[–]Mikhail_Popkov_100 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's all so tiring. Seeing the same bullshit over and over again.

Currently suffering from Swiping Left Syndrome (SLS)

She admits to not wanting the guys that want her. She created her own problem and now she's complaining about the problem that she created for herself. Women have no accountability and can never take responsibility for anything.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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