This is a public service announcement from this subreddit, offering news and information to the general public for the purpose of helping men avoid dangerous women.
Often, we here at WATGMA write about types and kinds of women who are bad bets for relationships. Women who work in the hospitality industry are dangerous for men not in the know.
We are talking here about flight attendants, massage therapists, wait staff and hostess staff at mid level and up priced restaurants, bartenders, and high price point hotel employees and casino employees with direct public interface responsibilities (management, front desk, concierge, event planning, gaming tables, waitresses, hostesses, customer service reps).
Women in these professions are notoriously hypergamous and bad bets for relationships. Any woman in a hospitality profession isn't good for a relationship and can usually be counted on to be slutty.
This applies across the board to flight attendants, massage therapists, casino employees, and bartenders. Women in those professions are either working around a lot of money in high end expensive locations (casino employees) or require a particular skill set to deal with all kinds of men (bartenders), or are working for and with attractive men (flight attendants, massage therapists, casino employees).
As for wait staff and hotels, we're not talking about family restaurants, dive bars, greasy spoons, local Mom and Pop watering holes, or Super 8s. We're talking about midlevel priced, and expensive restaurants with bars that serve alcohol. We're talking about urban night clubs. We're talking about restaurants with Michelin ratings. We're talking about the major high end hoteliers in major US cities. Hilton, Marriott, Hyatt, Wynn, Loews, Peninsula, Waldorf Astoria, anything in Las Vegas. We're talking luxury hotels worldwide.
1) Women in these professions are usually of above average physical appearance. Looking good is part of the job - they are the public face of their employers. The entire point of the hospitality profession is providing comfort, pleasure, and service to their customers and attending to their customers' needs and desires, and part of that is having physically attractive women rendering those services. Nobody wants to see Big Shirley waddling down the aisle of the aircraft spittling on you when offering you a Diet Coke. Nobody wants Heinous Hilda swiping your card at the registration desk at a hotel you're paying $450 a night to stay at.
Good looking women are accustomed to all the perks and benefits that go along with being good looking - they get the pussy pass and pretty privilege. They get away with things that less attractive people don't. They can do and say things that less attractive people can't. People pay more attention to good looking women and give them more deference. People wrongly tend to take them more seriously. The underlying message they send out with politeness, service, and courtesy is "I'm being really nice to you, and if you do what I want, I might be even nicer to you - I might even have sex with you." Of course she won't fuck you, but she uses men's sex drives to hold out the faintest glimmer of hope that she might, and she does so to get from you what she wants: Money. Cooperation. Changed mind. Compliance. Deference.
She uses you as her beta orbiter while she serves you. She serves you, and in exchange for her service you do what she asks, and you give her money.
2) Women in these professions deal with all kinds of people every day. It's their job to talk with people, work with them, serve them, attend to their needs, and defuse stressful situations with unhappy or dissatisfied customers. These women are exceedingly good at handling people.
These women know how to use men and get men to do what they want. These women know better than most how to use their looks and their sexuality to manipulate men. Knowing how to "handle" people means being really good at manipulation, deceit, and duplicity. They use feminine wiles to do their jobs. They flirt and act in overtly and covertly sexual ways with customers and coworkers. They do this for the specific purpose of manipulating men into doing what they want or need.
3) Women working in the hospitality industry meet and have access to a great deal of attractive, powerful, high status, and wealthy men. These men are their bosses, their peers, their subordinates, and their customers. They meet more such men than women who don't work in these professions. And per 2) above, these women learn to, and know how to, handle these kinds of men. Occasionally, these women will pick some of these men for quick and dirty sexual encounters. A few, very few, manage to snag one for marriage - which almost always ends in divorce.
Not only do these women meet and serve high status attractive men, they also have had sex with more than their fair share of those high status attractive men. You can usually count on a woman in the hospitality professions to be promiscuous.
These women are accustomed to being around money, and luxuriously appointed items and locations. They're accustomed to meeting, dating, and having sex with. wealthy men who spend money on them. These women develop expensive, refined tastes in clothing, cars, homes, fragrances, food and drink, accessories, cosmetics, hairstyles, lifestyle, and overall physical appearance. They spend money on themselves. They get men to spend money on them. They get expensive meals, drinks, weekend getaways to luxury destinations - all expenses paid. Many of these women become discreet high end sugar babies.
Beware of women who worked in the hospitality industry. They know how to use pretty privilege. They are better than most other women at handling people and manipulating men. And they have access to, and have a lot of sex with, a lot of attractive, wealthy, and powerful men.
Let's be careful out there.
No one objects to women doing this. No one objects to attractive men knowing this. No one objects to women and attractive men playing the game and knowing how it's played. What everyone hates is "average" men knowing about this. And they REALLY hate it when anyone talks or writes about this.
You're supposed to know all this. But you're not supposed to talk about any of this.
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