Cheating whore rode the CC hard and was bruised in an abusive relationship. She can't handle jealousy lest she be controlled again. That's probably why she goes out for dinner with a "friend" she dated 20 years ago. I wonder what can go wrong 🤔

DoctorKnockboots · 2018-10-08T06:15:59+00:00

Gosh, 2 boys fighting over me?

Let me post on reddit and see if they think I'm pretty too.

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-10-08T05:31:17+00:00

Earlier this week, in an effort of communication and transparency, I told BF I was going to dinner with a friend who I dated almost 20 years ago (who in the time since slept with at least 3-4 of my friends and ended up marrying one of them). We aren't super tight but grab a bite to eat 2-3 times per year, talk about our families and our romantic lives, etc. There is zero attraction and at times I find it unbelievable we were ever together. I did not expect my BF to be thrilled, but I also did not expect him to be as pissed about it as he is.

Hmm I wonder why..

At the same time, I admit that I have cheated in the past (most recently over 10 years ago) and have told my BF that I have cheated, and also that I've been the other woman.

In a way, this is his fault for staying with a cheating whore and expecting her not to be a cheating whore

Feldmarshal · 2018-10-08T05:49:20+00:00

The comments on this one are fucking gold. Some dude, trying to justify her actions: "I am NOT a cheater. I cheated in one relationship. Massive world of difference which you’re willfully ignoring." Your honor, I am not a murderer. I only murdered one person. You, sir, are close-minded, backwards, and I'm not talking to you anymore.

KoloGupta · 2018-10-08T05:13:29+00:00

She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She values her "independence", yet has to have a support system because she can't go it alone. She can't get through normal life, day to day, without having people to fawn over her, do favors for her, and spend money on her.

She admitted to having cheated in the past, and also to having been the "other woman". This all stopped ten years ago. She's different now! She's "matured and has learned a lot from what she's been through".

To top it off, she wants to go for "lunch" with a male friend who fucked all her friends and her. She mentions that he's not her type and she'd never date him again. She however, does not say she WON'T fuck him again. Instead, she praises him as a stud.

This is a weak attempt to to ease her boyfriend into an open relationship. She has every right to go out and fuck other men, but she DESERVES to be "emotionally supported" (whatever the fuck this means) and financially supported by her BF.

Recap: mental illness, "abusive" ex boyfriends, needy as fuck, a manipulative bitch, and a shitty girlfriend who brings nothing to the relationship except drama and constant riling up of her boyfriend, while being a financial, mental, and emotional burden on him.

Yep. Boyfriend is definitely privileged to have her, because she's a prize. Same applies to all females featured in this sub.

civilization_failed · 2018-10-08T04:11:13+00:00

Crazy!! Especially how everyone in the comments is justifying her actions. I wouldn’t put up with it. Male friends is one thing, dinner with an Ex is another.

Overkillengine · 2018-10-08T09:28:57+00:00

The Mike Pence rule isn't just something only men can make use of, ladies.

Don't like the reaction from your SO when you put yourself in a situation where you could easily cheat? Especially when you have a past history of doing so before?

Derp, derp, don't put yourself in those situations. Comport yourself so as to be above reproach. It's that simple.

And for the men in the studio audience: If a woman pulls this shit, don't waste your time getting mad, she's blatantly demonstrated that she is not worth any emotion whatsoever on your part. Do not negotiate, do not discuss, do not warn, do not allow her closure (reassigning the blame for her poor decision making to you), just proceed immediately to dump and exit stage left.

Hell, if you can, don't even bother telling her the relationship is over. Princess can figure it out when she comes back from her tryst and you have already moved out and blocked her number.

houseoftolstoy · 2018-10-08T12:51:22+00:00

She has so many red flags and is looking to amass more by going to dinner with a "friend" who of course is an ex-boyfriend. She promises nothing will happen, of course. This is like a recovering cocaine addict going to a drug party promising that there will absolutely be no snorting going on whatsoever.

Her boyfriend should just forget about this woman, because he has nothing positive to gain from continuing such a relationship. And since he does not trust her, he should have left long ago. Lack of trust is a warning from your mind that you should avoid association with a person.

[deleted] · 2018-10-08T07:18:20+00:00

Looking back over the texts, he didn't really say anything mean or nasty, it was more the tone. frankly he was upset and communicating that to me and I didn't like what he was saying so I internalized that as being nasty.

She knows she's mentally ill, but she doesn't understand the ramifications, how much it affects every aspect of her life, every thought, every interaction.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-10-08T15:02:37+00:00

Translation:

I'm 40-something and my life's a wreck. I'm in a relationship with a guy I'm not really all that interested in. And I'm really feeling the tug toward a guy I used to ~~fuck the shit out of and loved it~~ date 20 years ago when I was hot and had a few things to offer.

A few things about me: I'm a recovering alcoholic and addict. But it's totally OK cuz I'm "sober" now (in other words, I'm one stressful event or mistake away from going back out drinking).

I rode the carousel hard, but I really didn't like it, no I did not. Me fucking all those guys, it wasn't my fault. it was the alcohol's fault. It was the drugs' fault. It was the guys' fault. Not mine. If I hadn't been drinking, using, or partying around all those guys, I never would have had so much sex. If those guys hadn't been around I never would have fucked them while drunk or high or stoned. It's their fault for being there when I was drinking. It's not my fault.

So I should be able to go get lunch with a guy I used to date because we're "Just friends". Right? I mean, my Boyfriend's being a real asshole here, right?

END TRANSLATION

This is not how a girlfriend acts. A girlfriend who's serious about you does not act this way. A girlfriend does not go out to lunch a few times a year with a man she used to date, "just as friends", unless her current husband/boyfriend also goes. And if you are the current husband/boyfriend and you agree to this, you are a cuck and you deserve the shit coming your way.

The only reason a woman keeps in contact with a guy she used to date is because she is still sexually attracted to him and still feels "a connection" to him. The only reason a woman keeps in contact with an ex boyfriend is to keep her options open, and to have occasional "comfort sex" or "hot sex" with a man who's familiar to her.

Women who are attracted to their current men do not act like this.

Women who respect their current men do not act like this.

Women who want, are attracted to, and respect, their boyfriends or husbands do not in any way maintain contact with exes.

Don't put up with this. If your girlfriend or wife is friends on social media with ex boyfriends, you cut that shit off. Right now. If she is in contact with exes in any way - talks to them, socializes with them, whatever - you END IT, or you go to her and say "you don't get to be "friends" with them in any way."

ANd if she balks, or complains, or pushes back, well you know where you stand, don't you?

Also note the usual language women use to justify this:

--My past sluttiness isn't my fault - it was the drugs' fault, it was the alcohol's fault, it was my depression's fault, it was the men's fault

--I cheated in the past, sure, but that's in the past and doesn't matter anymore, not at all, no way it does not

--I cheated in the past, but SO DID HE!! HE DID IT TOO!

--I was a slut in the past, but SO WAS HE!! MEN DO IT TOO!

--Men "abused" me (i.e., lied to me, weren't nice to me, had expectations of me, had standards they expected me to meet, and threatened to break up with me if I didn't do what they wanted)

--None of this happened when I knew you; you can't punish me for stuff I did when I didn't know you; the past doesn't matter

Chiliresident · 2018-10-08T14:21:56+00:00

That sub looks to have been overrun by feminists like most of Reddit. Hence all the feminist “advice”. Always notice that a man feeling disrespected is NEVER to be considered as a valid male emotion by a woman, instead it is looked at as him being “insecure”. Maybe, but more likely that when you put a slutty woman around temptation (I.e. Mr. Bad Boy who has slept with all of her friends), it could turn into something bad, and he realizes this. He’s just communicating in a passive way.

A beta has gotten with I am assuming a women above him looks wise (since he is 40 something and dating a woman his age and he’s putting up with her despite her trashy past). He knows the dating pool of good looking 40 somethings is comprised of women like this. She’s the norm. 100s of former “partners” so he knows there’s not much chance for her to pair bond.That’s also why she so receptive to the feminist advice of “don’t listen to no man” and why she keeps her former slut friends male and female around even if it upsets him.

Ironically, he would be better served if she left him. I don’t think he realizes eventually she will screw him over and come again to Reddit for validation. She will then again be reassured that she was right to cheat since he was “controlling” and “toxic”.

PizzaNuggies · 2018-10-08T14:26:05+00:00

Never trust a girl with a male best friend. Never. Its that simple. This dude needs to grow some balls and leave. Hard to feel sorry for someone who is 40 years old, and hasn't woke the fuck up.

[deleted] · 2018-10-08T17:42:09+00:00

I skimmed through it, the part that got me LoLing was when she said she wasn't ashamed of her sexual history (slut) but she wouldnt have done some things (cheated) if she was diagnosed for her "mental ilness" she didnt specify and if she was sober during those times.
This dumb bitch doesnt want to take responsibility for anything and she is in her fucking 40s.
Thank God women in their 40s are invisible to me, who knows how common dumb sluts like this one are at that age.

askmrcia · 2018-10-08T18:00:51+00:00

Girls and guys can't be friends. There is always an attraction between the two, usually it's the guy who is attracted and the girl keeps him in the friend zone.

If she isn't willing to stop seeing "A guy she dated 20 years prior and has no idea how they were even together." Just stop it right there.

If she has other guys in her contact list yet wants to be serious with you, stop right there.

We, well most of us know the guys who are "Friends" are back ups.

Case and point, tell them you are going out to dinner with a girl you knew 20 years ago, and you only meet once or twice per year. Note their reaction.

Edit: Wow, didn't even get to the Cheating part haha

ransay3277 · 2018-10-08T13:17:04+00:00

I wonder what her attitude would be if the roles were reversed?

Ghustgan · 2018-10-08T15:25:03+00:00

I feel like I'm being punished for things that happened before he ever knew me and I feel that isn't fair. I have fears, too, but try not to let them change my behavior or how I treat my partner.

Really? REALLY? It's harsh, sure but unfair? Unfair? No, "girl", you being an alcoholic CC rider for the past two decades doesn't make you the same as that woman who's done none of that shit and has been married to the same guy for the last 20 years.

It's about character, when will they realize this?

riskywiskey · 2018-10-08T20:09:08+00:00

Boys we're hitting levels of red flag that shouldn't be possible

JJ3314 · 2018-10-09T01:06:33+00:00

Reading those comments kind of makes me hate ~~women~~ humanity.

ChainsawDrone · 2018-10-09T02:00:41+00:00

Who are the women who make the top reply telling her if her bf doesnt want her meeting her exes its a "toxic" relationship? Who are these deluded hags?

SirKolbath · 2018-10-09T02:01:59+00:00

So, a woman who admits that she’s cheated on her boyfriends in the past can’t figure out why her current boyfriend would put on the cranky pants at her desire to run out and have dinner with an ex.

Let her go, dude. No, really. Let her go. Have her shit waiting on the front porch when she gets back from dinner. She’ll have had a nourishing meal, so she should be energized and easily capable of carrying all her shit to a hotel room or somewhere.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-10-09T15:36:52+00:00

This used-up thot is all kinds of messed up. I guess I will start from the beginning:

A few weeks ago, BF mentioned that he's felt jealousy for a few men I'm good friends with. We talked about it and agreed that he'd work on his jealousy and communicating, while I'd try to be more mindful that he has these feelings and tread a little more carefully in how I interact with male friends. Earlier this week, in an effort of communication and transparency, I told BF I was going to dinner with a friend who I dated almost 20 years ago (who in the time since slept with at least 3-4 of my friends and ended up marrying one of them). We aren't super tight but grab a bite to eat 2-3 times per year, talk about our families and our romantic lives, etc. There is zero attraction and at times I find it unbelievable we were ever together. I did not expect my BF to be thrilled, but I also did not expect him to be as pissed about it as he is. He was a little nasty in how he talked to me (this was over texts) and texts have been terse since.

She seriously doesn't understand why her boyfriend is upset that she still goes out to dinner with her ex. Amazing. The thottery of today modern women knows no bounds.

This is hard for me because I was single for a number of years. I have some struggles with mental health and live far from my family, so I rely on my friends to be my support system. A lot of these friends were people I met in college, including aforementioned ex. I have had some terrible relationships, including an abusive one, and jealousy scares me. Essentially, my friends are who I rely on when I'm single, when I'm struggling, and who I can count on when I've never been able to count on a man before. They give me an important consistency in my life.

This bitch has been damaged by years of riding the carousel and going from one abusive asshole Chad to the next; as a result, she is completely unable to pair bond. It is also very likely that she has BPD.

At the same time, I admit that I have cheated in the past (most recently over 10 years ago) and have told my BF that I have cheated, and also that I've been the other woman. I have also had jealousy in the past and admit I may feel weird about it if the roles were reversed. I do not feel ashamed of my sexual or romantic history, but there are things I regret or recognize that I would probably not have done either 1) if I had been properly diagnosed/treated for my illness at the time and/or 2) not been under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol. (I'm sober now.)

Yet more proof that this thot has no business being in a long term relationship with anyone.

My boyfriend has said that we have different morals/values and thinks I'll get fucked up, cheat, and hurt him. It also bothers him how guarded i was earlier in our relationship.

The best indication of future performance is past performance. The fact that she has cheated on her partners, feels no remorse, and continues to go out to dinners with her ex means that hears fears are completely reasonable. Also, the fact that that you gave up immediately to every asshole Chad who came your way but were "guarded" with your current boyfriend means you are just using him for beta bucks.

I feel like I'm being punished for things that happened before he ever knew me and I feel that isn't fair. I have fears, too, but try not to let them change my behavior or how I treat my partner.

You aren't being punished, he just doesn't trust you. Given everything you have said about yourself, no one else with two neurons to rub together would trust you either.

Anytime a woman wants to go out with her ex, tell her she can go but that she can't come back, it's OVER. This mentally-ill used-up thot is using her beta bucks bf as a walking wallet while continuing to go out and get fucked by her ex. And I don't buy the bullshit "It was 20 years ago!" excuse. If some guy molested children 20 years ago, would you trust him to watch your kids? I don't think so!

The commenters there are even worse, excusing her slutty behavior and mocking the guy for starting to have a little self respect. At OP has the excuse of being mentally ill, the commenters there are fucking scum.

Cheating whore rode the CC hard and was bruised in an abusive relationship. She can't handle jealousy lest she be controlled again. That's probably why she goes out for dinner with a "friend" she dated 20 years ago. I wonder what can go wrong 🤔

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