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mr_kuk · 2020-09-02T17:29:12+00:00

I feel so guilty for leaving my marriage. My husband is a really, really nice guy. He is a great dad, loves me a lot, has a good career. There was nothing really wrong with our marriage. I just didn't love him any more and wanted out.

I don't care who says what, they are interchangeable sluts and think the same way.

Now, our divorce is almost finalized, and we have all been so devastated — especially our kids. Now they have to schlep back and forth between two homes, go through the pain of having divorced parents, my ex is devastated, his parents and our friends are devastated, and we are both poorer having to support two homes. Even the dog looses since she stayed with me and misses her ‘dad'!

No sweety not "we", it is "they", because you chose this, they didn't. They have all be devastated, you have been slightly inconvenienced by their suffering. You should feel guilt and shame for what you did.

I stopped being sexually attracted to him years ago, even though he is still a very handsome and fit man

Come on, gurl, where is the but?

I find myself fantasizing about and/or flirting with men... who... are stimulating to me, and ignite in me something I think I never experienced with my husband — deep, feminine PASSION (some of these guys are fat or old or not handsome — and I still find them so, so sexy!). These are men who jibe with my own growing social circle of equally driven and creative people — people who my husband never really connected with or felt comfortable around (even though, in all his decency and devotion to me, was always kind to and made an effort for).

You found your inner slut, congratulations. You husband knew on a gut level that these people were bad news. Lesson to men, trust your gut unless it blocks your view of your cock.

I don't have any commitment to any of these men, but simply feeling that way around them made me realize that by staying in my marriage. I am missing out on something I deeply crave and long to nurture.

The CC is calling.

In short: I wanted the divorce — so why do I feel so sad?

Because you're a slut. It feels bad to be a slut, just like it feels bad to be a chronic masturbator or a heroine addict.

“Remember that just because one feels guilt, doesn't mean they are guilty,” says Michelle Pargman, a Jacksonville, Fla., licensed mental health counselor.

Remember that slut over here said that her family was devastated by her actions. A little bit of guilt is in order, if we're being fair. But, we're not being fair, we're trying to sell something like a service of some sort, a service that needs you to keep making the wrong decisions and calling the hot line.

I am glad I am not married to my ex, even if he is a good guy.

Just keep this in mind...

Can't we just be adults and make it work? Can't we just agree not to fight any more? Be in one home, be practical, get over this trite, adolescent notion of forever soulful romantic love, have no expectations your husband will fulfill you and just be realistic already – FOR THE KIDS' SAKE?

No, whore. You said it yourself, "he is a good guy". So your next paragraph should read something like this, "Can't I be an adult? Can't I not fight any more? Can I allow the house to be a home? Can I be practical? Can I get over being trite, adolescent, can I please let go of endless demands?" And the answer is obvious.

Maybe it means I'm selfish. Maybe it means I can't control my anger. Maybe it means I am an indulgent adolescent artist, but I don't want to be married to my ex-husband so I am not married to my ex-husband.

Can you be an adult? "How dare you, incel shitlord! I want to speak to the reddit manager right now!"

loneliness-inc · 2020-09-02T17:55:06+00:00

What the actual fuck is wrong with women

askmrcia · 2020-09-02T20:43:23+00:00

I am growing a digital business I am passionate about, while he is 100% content in his middle-management corporate job with good benefits.

Lol if this doesn't redpill guys I don't know what will. She uses what i quoted above as a reason, but then a few lines later she basically admits to wanting to whore around.

Once her "business" fail and her fit husband gets a younger hotter woman she will come crawling back when she realizes she can't live with herself alone like she thought she could.

I'm sure she will write a blog a few years from now saying how her husband treated her like trash, didn't make her feel sexy enough leading her to pursue other men.

This sub will literally never run out of material.

p_and_q · 2020-09-02T17:25:09+00:00

The entire article felt like an ad.

“Thinking about divorce? S. Krew, Heem, and Howe divorce attorneys can help.”

“Sadness from divorce keeping you down? Try BetterHelp. Our female mental health specialists are here to help.”

“Looking to go over him? Trying getting under someone new with Match.com’s IMA SLOOT algorithm. Specially designed to help you feel empowered again for at least 5 seconds.”

Honest_Solution · 2020-09-02T17:23:22+00:00

Reading the comments gives me hope. Prepare for a new wave of posters on this site. All I can say is “welcome to Wokeville!”

2020-09-02T19:44:14+00:00

This is actually good news, the guy had a lucky escape at least he didn't waste his entire life with this big headed slut. She clearly thinks she is intellectually superior to him and is going to get a shock when he's probably way better than what she will ever get again!!!

Tikhon14 · 2020-09-02T20:08:01+00:00

Excited to hear about all these mentally-stimulating successful professional men lining up to land a divorced, aging, single mother!

I know at the top of my career I couldn't wait to start dating them.

loneliness-inc · 2020-09-02T18:29:55+00:00

...and it's 1130 am at work and I already want to start drinking.

alcohol: unlike women, I can always count on it to be there.

OpenImagination9 · 2020-09-02T21:04:44+00:00

Let me get this straight - she’s upset because her husband won’t put up with her sleeping around and continue to provide emotional and financial support? Heh, he should be glad he’s getting a divorce, this woman is a piece work!

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-09-03T00:11:55+00:00

> Now, our divorce is almost finalized, and we have all been so devastated — especially our kids.

What do you have to feel guilty about?

panzer22222 · 2020-09-03T05:39:33+00:00

from the comments

Who are you to tell anyone anything. You know nothing. You aren’t in her situation. Men do it all the time but dear-sweet-jesus – a woman feels that way and she’s a whore?

Fuck me, if a guy wrote into an advice column about leaving the perfect wife and mother for some tart at work he would be ripped a new one. A woman gets 'you go girrl'

loneliness-inc · 2020-09-02T19:17:42+00:00

also, cystur is amazing. I need to use that more often.

cyst is absolutely fitting.

amwfhunter · 2020-09-03T00:12:59+00:00

Sums up hypergamy

silly_birb · 2020-09-02T19:26:52+00:00

It's not about being "nice", a man had to invest to get to that point.

Thx to "no fault divorce" a woman never loses money from breaking marriages.

Redhood616 · 2020-09-03T03:30:12+00:00

So to summarize you broke up your family, made your ex-husband and kids suffer, made everyone poorer and took his dog just so you could sleep with a couple well connected tech guys to get your “internet business” up and running? And now you feel guilty? I wonder why..

Overkillengine · 2020-09-03T13:41:02+00:00

Women: I'm bored and have FOMO, so I'm gonna blow up a stable marriage to chase tingles!

Also women: Why are men no longer wanting to commit?

biscuitslayer77 · 2020-09-03T01:44:45+00:00

Wow... I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt but that went out the window. Instead Of trying to fix what was wrong she noped her way out into a worse situation. I hope he told her don’t come crawling back when your alone on a holiday sad and drunk because boohoo I ruined everything and it’s all my fault because guess what it is.

Faulkey · 2020-09-03T19:58:47+00:00

Article like this is why I’ll never get married and have kids.

2020-09-04T02:23:10+00:00

Lol, exactly the same thing happened to my neighbour, he then just went full mgtow. Hypergamy is a plague.