Don't blame wymyns for making stupid, tingle driven, life choices. Oh no! Blame the toxic men who are oh so addictive 😂

loneliness-inc · 2020-06-03T04:10:41+00:00

"We get so addicted, in fact, that we become willing to sacrifice an entire lifetime for five minutes of exhilaration,"

And there you have it folks. This dynamic has been thoroughly explained in the warm home analogy.

Edit: thanks u/moorekom for the archive link.

warlocc_ · 2020-06-03T05:24:27+00:00

Is this for real.

I just looked at the image and description, didn't read it through. Half of my brain cells dies there.

silly_birb · 2020-06-03T07:19:26+00:00

Women are attracted by the dark triad of personality: narcisism, impulsiveness search of thrill and machiavellism (having no remorse to exploit other people for their own interests)

j3wbacca996 · 2020-06-03T12:20:08+00:00

I wonder if they realize that the argument they are making is basically “we have no self control”. How can men see women as equals if this is their mentality?

BillyBronze09 · 2020-06-03T04:32:57+00:00

🐹🎡

RRFdev · 2020-06-03T07:25:05+00:00

Smart successful women

More like uglies who marry their careers because they are low value women. Of course low value women are attracted to bad boys.

evergreen35 · 2020-06-03T11:26:54+00:00

A 2019 study showed Women are attracted to PSYCHOPATHS.

Ladies, you get the Men you deserve.

AurelianWay · 2020-06-03T07:34:56+00:00

Red Pill 101

5 minutes of an alpha is enough to alpha widow a woman.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-06-03T09:34:31+00:00

The article low-keys admits that Chads and Tyrones are not temporary phases that women will grow out of, they are powerful addictions that women will only bother to struggle (and typically fail) to conquer when they hit the wall and/or become in desperate need of a bail-out of some kind.

jihocech · 2020-06-03T06:49:17+00:00

Red pill theory confirmed.

mr_kuk · 2020-06-03T08:06:25+00:00

Relationships aren't all filled with happiness. Some are abusive and filled with emotional pain and turmoil.

It's the only way to feel alive when you are ~~the living dead at a dead end job~~ on top of your career game!

Despite what you might assume about the victims of abusers, they tend to be the people you'd never expect.

Men and children.

Abusers often target strong, confident, and successful women, partly because it makes them look good, and partly because they enjoy the thrill of bringing someone powerful down.

Strong, confident, and successful women are the victimest victims of them all.

High performing women fall so deeply for these abusers because they have learned in other aspects of life that if they work really hard on something, it will succeed.

And if hard work doesn't pay off, nag, nag, nag and then nag some more. And if that doesn't work, then men must fix it.

They also get addicted to the turbulent push and pull behavior of the abuser, because they believe in their potential.

Meth addicts get addicted to the turbulent push and pull of getting arrested and released on bail because it makes perfect sense.

Toxicity seems to come out of nowhere

When you're then one casuing it.

Victims don't tend to be weak and vulnerable

Yes! Only strong independent driven women are victims.

There's usually a sob story

I'm not getting what I'm wanting when I'm wanting it and that is opression!

We get so addicted ... that we become willing to sacrifice an entire lifetime for five minutes of exhilaration

We're talking about meth here, right?

Sometimes the best action is inaction

Sometimes the best way to get Chad's commitment is to starfish and hope to get pregnant. That will ~~force him to stay~~ make him want to commit and be your forever knight in shi... O...M...G... I'm not haaaapy!!!11

KingRobotPrince · 2020-06-03T11:48:17+00:00

The article flits between descriptions of abusive relationships and the typical "women are always the innocent victim and men are always the evil calculating perpetrator, if men do X it's their fault and if women do X it's men's fault" garbage.

The proper descriptions of abuse actually apply to either genders.

Quite depressing for any man who has actually been in an abusive relationship.

LowWafer8 · 2020-06-03T11:29:49+00:00

in other words, women are victims. of their own bad choices.

Aldabruzzo · 2020-06-03T18:23:50+00:00

here's the thing though. You have to be toxic to attract a woman. You have to be confident just up to arrogance, dominant just barely short of domineering, and have a touch of asshole in your personality just to get noticed. That's after you get past the physical attraction threshold, which requires you to be in good shape, tall, and with a good face.

Then you have to have some bank and a good job, which today, means you have some self-centered asshole in your personality. If you aren't a self centered asshole, society and the professional world will eat you alive.

So if you're a kind, affable, friendly man who goes along to get along, if you are cooperative and high tolerance for bullshit and slightly assertive (without being aggressive), you'll get shit on, used, exploited, taken advantage of, and tossed away like you're nothing.

THAT, friends, is why toxic men exist - because toxic men are rewarded. Toxic men get the good jobs, the status, the money, the perks, and the pussy. And they get those things because WOMEN reward them.

Women: if you want good men, you have to start dating, fucking, marrying, and having babies with, those good men. But you won't do that, because tingles.

So be it. Toxic is what you want; toxic is what you shall have. Toxic gets me what I want, so toxic is what I shall be.

KavaNotGuilty · 2020-06-03T14:19:51+00:00

Abusers often target strong, confident, and successful women, partly because it makes them look good, and partly because they enjoy the thrill of bringing someone powerful down.

This directly contradicts the oft-stated social science talking point that abusers prey upon those perceived as weak. Which is it? Or are we allowed to just make up bullshit and state it as fact with no merit or proof?

houseoftolstoy · 2020-06-03T16:03:23+00:00

Both of these things cannot be true:

-Smart women are choosing to date and stay with toxic men.

-Women do not want to date "toxic" men.

As we have seen with countless cases with online dating statistics, women have so many choices in men given the ratio for how many men are interested in the average woman vs how many women are interested in the average man. If a woman finds out that she keeps dating "toxic" men, it is because she keeps choosing that type of man. If she thinks that she cannot find any man who is not toxic, she just should not be dating.

Toxic relationships are a blind spot for many because they often start off as the most perfect, loving partnership the victim has every experienced. When the abuser starts to show their true colours, things turn sour, but the victim has fallen too deep into the relationship to do anything about it.

For what reason could these women be "too deep" in the relationship? I would argue that so many relationships start with sex very early on, which creates far more attachment in the relationship due to the pair bonding mechanic of sex. This is a great feature to have in the context of marriage and family, as it will build a better foundation for keeping the marriage and thus the family together. But when sex is introduced early on in the relationship, you have the super glue that will start holding the structure together, but will not save the structure if it was not built properly in the first place. Therefore, we have women who are "too deep" in the relationship because they had no problem going too deep in the bedroom too early. Had these women not slept with these men too early, I would bet that they would have less issues cutting off things.

It doesn't help that toxic people, such as narcissists, always come equipped with a sob story. They'll speak of having a turbulent past, maybe with an abusive parent or ex-partner, and how they've overcome adversity.

Holy projection overload. Women are by far the ones who use sob stories far more than men, especially about abusive ex's. Men also do not get near the same amount of sympathy for having sob stories, so there are not going to be nearly the same percentages of men that try to use sob stories as there are women who do. When there are incentives to doing something, there is more willingness to do it, and vice versa when there are disincentives.

Scourmont · 2020-06-03T16:37:18+00:00

"It doesn't help that toxic people, such as narcissists, always come equipped with a sob story. They'll speak of having a turbulent past, maybe with an abusive parent or ex-partner, and how they've overcome adversity. "

Every. Fucking. Woman. In online dating.

zetaconvex · 2020-06-03T13:35:57+00:00

Toxic man: Jim Preston in "Passengers," woke up a woman and sentenced her to death just because he liked her.

Actually, in the film, the man engaged in a protracted internal ethical battle before deciding to wake her up. To call him "toxic" is moronic.

Narcissists know how to sniff a victim out really well. They know who is going to be more vulnerable to them, so they're going to attack who's easy for them.

That seems to contradict her previous statement that

Abusers often target strong, confident, and successful women, partly because it makes them look good, and partly because they enjoy the thrill of bringing someone powerful down.

I'm no psychologist, but my understanding is that narcissists do what they do because they are seeking "narcisissistic supply", which is the "excessive need for attention or admiration from codependents."

This page lists 7 traits that make one a target for a narcisisst. One such trait is that "You have something the narcissist wants (money, power, position, lifestyle)." It says nothing about "bringing someone down" as a goal of the narcissist; it's just a consequence of their actions.

animalmother2017 · 2020-06-03T12:20:02+00:00

Highly intelligent women also live in their heads a lot, she said, meaning they can rationalize and explain away behavior, even when that behavior is extremely damaging.

Smuart wymyn have more powerful hamsters.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-03T14:47:00+00:00

Meanwhile I break up with a woman because she was abusive, physically and mentally.. I get:

"Wow YOU sure know how to pick them"

The_Veteran_Raven · 2020-06-03T16:41:58+00:00

I'll never understand this. How does anyone expect women to do better if they keep pushing drivel in their faces about how nothing is ever their fault? Spoiler alert: realizing that you messed up is the BEST way to bring positive change into your life, regardless if man or woman!

Ishabaka · 2020-06-03T20:59:09+00:00

Ladies - you choose them, and you know exactly what you are choosing.

altair43 · 2020-06-03T10:19:51+00:00

Now I find all these hamster brain produced articles, funny. This one was hilarious. LOL

lorenzo156 · 2020-06-03T11:14:22+00:00

Where will this lead women to? We going to see a generation of old women single and crazy while their male counterparts living the high life banging 20 something girls?

moorekom · 2020-06-04T02:20:53+00:00

Anyone who does not want to give clicks to the attention whore apologist of an author can click here.

krawm · 2020-06-03T16:01:21+00:00

oh fuck that, the first sentence is about twilight not gonna waste my time on that shit article.

_Icarus_Reborn_ · 2020-06-03T18:45:26+00:00

I didn't even give the article a chance.

If you're opening statement is using twilight as an example of real world male/female dynamics, you backing a losing horse.

Honestly, some if the drivel that gets published these days is utter horse shit.

Should conduct an experiment posing a sex positive liberal feminist as see what shit I can get publish. Just like the sokal hoax papers.

BigBoiBahmani · 2020-06-04T06:50:21+00:00

STFU bitch. Serve your man and make some babies. Fulfill your life.

Sonicmansuperb · 2020-06-06T00:38:59+00:00

"Some of these women they tend to overcompensate and be nicer to the people who are less fortunate than them,"

Hmm I wonder what all those people holding "Refugees Welcome" signs had in common.

LightFTL · 2020-06-04T05:08:21+00:00

Wow...

Title	Don't blame wymyns for making stupid, tingle driven, life choices. Oh no! Blame the toxic men who are oh so addictive 😂
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	326
Comments	83
Date	June 3, 2020 4:09 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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