Drools and grools for Chad, wishing he'd want her, but Chad only wants her when he's drunk in the dead of night. Waaaaaaah! Why doesn't Chad want me for anything more than a cheap bang and clang.....? 😫😥😢😭

ThePrinceOfShadows · 2020-04-28T04:26:27+00:00

So she actually had to debate in her head if she was going to be this guy's booty call, and now she is feeling regret that she didn't get herself dicked down by this guy. Guaranteed she bangs this guy at a later date.

This is the same girl that 5-10 years from now will be on tinder asking WAATGM and demand you take her on expensive dinner dates and wait 6 months before you sleep together.

Honest_Solution · 2020-04-28T04:29:27+00:00

I wonder how many dates she’s turned down from other guys on that same year that were actually interested in her?

submit3r · 2020-04-28T06:36:13+00:00

As childish as this really does sound, women can be really fucking gross, in a spiritually icky way.

Cristoff13 · 2020-04-28T09:28:51+00:00

This shows the stark difference between Alphas and all other guys. Regular guy - he has to buy her stuff, and drive her places, and listen to her, and do chores for her, and promise commitment. And after all this, he gets some reluctant starfish sex.

Alpha - drunkenly texts her to get over to his place in the middle of the night. And she really wants to do it. Really, really wants to, and barely resists.

If you're not Chad, why bother?

ZealousMaths · 2020-04-28T08:17:57+00:00

My Goodness! Bad boys acting badly?! Who would have thought? He's a fantastic catch, sister. Go right the f@ck ahead. What the world needs is another bitter single mother.

MC_Batsy · 2020-04-28T07:12:28+00:00

I'll give her credit here: She had the incredible urge to do something, but knowing that it wasn't a good idea, she didn't. I don't fault her for self control. That's not a bad thing at all.

The problem here is that instead of actually being proactive about it, and doing something constructive, she's just feeling bad about it.

Here's a thought: Since you have texts being exchanged, you clearly have evidence that he is attracted to you sexually attracted to you. Best thing to do, TALK TO HIM. For the love of all that is good, holy, and decent, is that so hard?

Here, let me help: "Hey 'Chad'. I got your text from last night. I was hoping to 'hang out' with you, but it was too late, and it seems you were drunk. My answer would have been yes because I'm attracted to you, but you were drunk and it was too late." After that, you just take it from there. Does he change his mind and decide he's not interested anymore? Is he going to try again when he's sober? I don't know. She doesn't know. There's something here that women avoid: risk.

This is the problem here that women have. It's OK if a woman doesn't want to take certain risks. If anything, I commend her for that. However, if you're not willing to take the risk, don't mourn the loss of the "reward'". Women are far less likely to take big risks. That's why they almost never approach guys to ask them out. It's why the most dangerous and high-risk jobs are dominated by men. It's just not in their nature. Of course, not all women are like that, but most are, and that's not necessarily a big problem.

For example: Divorce has skyrocketed because there was an element of risk that was removed: If a woman gets a divorce, she practically gets rewarded; Divorce is loss for men only (at least almost always). Now, however, that created risk for men when it comes to dating and marriage that is not worth the perceived reward.

I know I'm ranting a bit, but I find behavior like that to be very annoying.

RRFdev · 2020-04-28T11:57:19+00:00

It's so hilariously ironic that women fall hard for FWBs while they get bored easily with boyfriends. All the while then they are supposed to be limiting relationships with FWBs and be paying their full attention to their boyfriends instead.

They seriously think having constant hot, fun, bonding sex with FWBs while playing hide the pussy with their boyfriends would not mess with their heads?

MattyK414 · 2020-04-28T07:55:31+00:00

I love how she's still crazy about him. I bet her magical poon could turn this ship around!

toolate4redpill · 2020-04-28T15:26:05+00:00

4am? Bars close at 2am most places so it means she was near the end of his long list of drunk dials.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2020-04-28T15:10:27+00:00

Her ASD is acting up. All she needs is one random stranger to tell her, "You go Gurl, Go get that dick. You deserve it. There's not shame in random booty calls at 4am because there was a shortage of better options at the time."

All she needs is that one random approval and Mr. Thundercock to text her a time and address at 0415 and its ugly bumping time.

Then she will be posting about how all he wanted was sex and not a LTR or marriage. Whaaaaaaaaaah, I want what I want when I want it and I am specialz and I deserve it. Again some random internet stranger will give her the approval that she craves.

Rinse and Repeat...Rinse and repeat.

x6x6x61982 · 2020-04-28T12:30:32+00:00

By WAY too long does she mean for female standards (a couple of weeks max)

Or male standards (possibly years), that's the real question

coldsteel86 · 2020-04-28T15:20:04+00:00

If this guy is only hitting her up at odd hours for a booty call chances are she is NOT one of his top tier girls. She is more like a plan B.

2020-04-28T21:31:53+00:00

Damn, this Chad's game is strong. Alpha-widowed that chick without even dicking her down!

TrynaBeTheBest · 2020-04-28T07:50:41+00:00

He is a chad but he is waisting his time on these hoes

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2020-04-28T09:09:45+00:00

You know what? I'll go against the grain a bit.

Good for her. She didn't allow herself to be used as a fuck-doll at a moment's notice. She exercised self-control and self-respect.

The doubt? That's natural and happens to everyone. Anyone who never experiences doubt with a decision either doesn't reflect on anything or is just too dull-witted.

Except for one thing: reading between the lines at the end there, it seems she's done that sort of thing before. Maybe this guy just wasn't quite Chadly enough. Maybe she's reached the Epiphany Phase. Maybe she actually learned from past mistakes! (However slim the possibility, it is possible!)

I'm rambling a bit in my pre-coffee fog, so to sum up: I think she made the right decision. I just doubt it was for the right reasons.

Cade_Connelly_13 · 2020-04-28T14:59:28+00:00

I'd tell her to look up "commitment" in a dictionary, but she isn't smart enough to learn anything.

silly_birb · 2020-04-28T18:28:44+00:00

She regret not going to his place at 4am after taking a shower, meanwhile a "hvm" has to marry her to get some pussy.

Looool

RedditRouge00 · 2020-04-28T15:35:47+00:00

She reeks of desperation, jeez .

SuperGoxxer · 2020-04-30T22:32:49+00:00

F - failing

R - repulsed

I - invisible

E - extraneous

N - negligible

D - distant

S - sexless

Honest_Solution · 2020-04-28T03:25:56+00:00

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kfree313 · 2020-04-28T04:23:11+00:00

Ok .. wait . This might be one of my bitches

2020-04-28T11:45:21+00:00

Ah, yes, that time on our lives where we just say "fuck it, I will call her" to someone below average bu maybe, just maybe, has something above average on a very specific personal fetish, but she says no, you shrug, move on, and she won't stopping calling you now that you are out of that vibe. Everyone have been there before, right? No? Uhr... Guys?

2020-04-28T13:21:36+00:00

The SMP determines everyone's SMV, her SMV is a 4AM booty call when he's drunk. As simple as that.

Paulg40821 · 2020-04-30T22:44:32+00:00

All remember...It's just your Turn...women have evolved NEVER to stay in a relationship 😅😅😅

TheControlsEngineer · 2020-05-03T16:31:20+00:00

"I guess thats just what everyone does now"

Well shes not wrong.

snginc · 2020-04-28T17:57:29+00:00

She got a text from him at 4 am knowing he wanted sex and she wanted sex too? Raise your hand if you think she didn't hop out of bed, wash her ass, and drive to his place?

Survey says: bullshit! You did the deed, you just don't want to be honest about it!

SylvestorTalone · 2020-04-29T02:50:18+00:00

She says she feels childish for wanting to be more than a booty call?

Normally I'm quite good at translating Woman into English, but I admit I have no idea what the hell that means.

duffmannn · 2020-04-29T01:58:56+00:00

No mention of the "rape" of a drunk man if she went over there.

loneliness-inc · 2020-05-08T09:07:30+00:00

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