Investment banker educates a gold digger on how she is a depreciating asset

moorekom · 2019-09-30T14:16:55+00:00

Gentlemen, as a PSA, I've done this foolishness too and it does not work. A woman only hears what she wants to hear. I have had instances where I gave a shit about what happened to some woman and tried to give her the honest truth and how she can find happiness. The best response I've recieved is "Thank you" and immediately right after they go back to their old ways because what she heard was so ego destroying, she cannot handle it much less adjust herself to it. Usually, whenever I did it, I was called a sexist or a misogynist. This is why players feed them lies. Women prefer a pretty lie to a honest truth. Do not help anyone who does not ask for your help.

JerryNewton7 · 2019-09-30T14:29:17+00:00

Materialistic THOT. Considers herself to be spectacularly beautiful (vanity alert). This is the kind of gold-digger that will "do the time" (doing the bare minimum as a wife) and then cash out through a divorce.

The investment's response is great.

CptFizz · 2019-09-30T15:21:37+00:00

If she really were a straight 10 she would not have to ask these questions. She's probably a 7.5 at best.

houseoftolstoy · 2019-09-30T15:23:53+00:00

The investment banker's response is exactly the one she deserved. She is clearly only looking for money, thus disqualifying her from being wife material, so her demands for marriage instead of just being a "girlfriend" is not going to get much sympathy from guys like me. I am sure all of these wealthier men can see that women like her are gold diggers, and are acting accordingly. And even if they are not, she has other women to compete with, and does not demonstrate that she has anything other than looks.

500k is just "middle class in New York," as if that is not literally in the one percent for income. She just has to get to Central West Park (must be a nice area?), but wants to just latch onto a guy to get that like a parasite. Sounds like a real catch.

TheObelisk · 2019-09-30T16:48:07+00:00

Jesus. And they say we dehumanize women. She doesn't even speak of men as even really being people, just walking wallets to mooch off of. Nothing she's described had anything to do with who the men are and how to really connect and love a person, it's all about money. If you're too lazy to earn your lavish lifestyle then you don't deserve it. A vapid person earns a vapid life.

Actually_a_Patrick · 2019-09-30T16:23:38+00:00

bring nothing to the table

wants a life of luxury

Honesty, I avoid commenting here 99.9% of the time because although entertaining, some of the opinions are extreme. She's offering literally nothing. She doesn't say anything about interesting hobbies or pursuits. She seems to has no professional interests or skills. She wants to be paid to be pretty. If she was a high-powered lawyer or a professional pulling down her own 250k, she wouldn't have a problem finding another like-minded person to partner up with in life.

My SO and I are both professionals and maybe neither of us will win any beauty contests, but we understand a relationship is more than one person supporting the other. We support each other's careers, keep our finances separate, and have an agreement that if either one of us becomes a deadbeat, the partnership is over. We enjoy our hobbies and activities together and we work together for the things we've accomplished.

I know OP's pic is an old article but it infuriates me that there are people in this world that think that's acceptable behavior and even that others should give them advice on how to accomplish their goal.

I mean, I'd like a free ride, too, but it ain't happening for me.

arokosi · 2019-09-30T16:44:06+00:00

This guy isn’t just rich, he’s also a really good writer.

He manages to be funny, kind and cruel all at the same time. He cuts and heals and soothes all in one paragraph. Not a single angry word, no swearing and yet he utterly eviscerates. It’s like...verbal surgery.

He attac. He write back. But also, he tell facts? I dunno. I don’t know how to meme lol.

GinoR11878 · 2019-09-30T15:23:40+00:00

Tom Leykis talked about this years ago it’s a good PSA for sure..

RamblingUnited · 2019-09-30T16:03:33+00:00

500K is middle class in NYC? Is she from some mythical 6th borough?

kenmayy · 2019-09-30T17:33:41+00:00

Why can't females see themselves as anything beyond their looks? You want to live luxuriously because you're pretty? Doesn't work like that. You have to have some sort of value for a good man to want you, I bet she can't even cook, she doesn't clean and is unattractive. If she was a 10/10 she'd have no problem finding a man to spoil her. She doesn't want to provide a man anything except "look at me I'm pretty". Real men don't care about how you look, they can get any girl.

I see so many older men in their 30s dating 18 year olds and it makes sense, their not hitting the wall anytime soon, their still young enough to train them to have value like cooking and cleaning and younger girls are much happier settling for less. These outrageous standards women put on men is why a "good decent woman" can't get a man. Learn your place, and know your value, you're not all that princess.

askmrcia · 2019-09-30T16:57:54+00:00

Lol she says $500k a year is middle class and isn't a lot of money. Then at the end she asks "where do RICH single men hang out" at.

SeekingLevelFive · 2019-09-30T13:42:16+00:00

TRIGGERED!

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2019-09-30T16:40:04+00:00

Hahahahaha! Savage! Love it! You tell it like it is, Investment Banker Bro!

MKUltraGameShow · 2019-09-30T21:29:21+00:00

Women do not want honest advice and solutions. They want validation and a shoulder to cry on.

escape777 · 2019-09-30T22:19:53+00:00

Loads of wtf moments for me.
1. 500k is middle class salary? Who earns a salary of 500k, it's usually commission or investment returns.
2. Men are more than what they earn, I am happy with my salary, as a stress less software developer, why would I want a stressful job with more salary. I am not an object which churns out money, I earn and enjoy and do stuff, if I want a partner she'd better have things common with me. I am not looking for a pretty thing to hang by my hand who does social events while I toil making moolah. I want a partner who is fun and comfortable to be around irrespective of how she looks or behaves.
3. Sheesh not even attempting to say what's wrong on her side, what does she like, what is she? I know nothing about her, apart from she likes money.
4. Also why 500k? What's with this number? 200k is a great salary in NYC. Does she just want a guy to spend his money? Like do nothing for him and just take his cash? I'd just hire an escort for the evening if I wanted that.
5. Also why is she comparing herself to other ladies? Who knows they may have put in their hardwork. I don't compare myself to the likes of Jeff Bezos or Bill Gates, why is she beating herself up.
6. What are all rich men looking for in a mate? How can that be common? It's not like all men have a checklist of stuff we share around for what we need in a partner, every person has a unique list, or am I wrong? Do we have a checklist? Can I get one?

From all this only thing I can gather is that here is a girl who is literally prostituting herself in a newspaper and asking tips about the same. This passage should be insulting to any feminists who read it like this girl is single-handedly destroying the image of women by claiming the others who live a happy rich life have done so by marrying rich men. Why isnt there an uproar about this passage by women activists? If most women in the ages 20-25 think like this then that's the issue right there. Instead of learning and applying yourself in your youth like most men do, here are girls wasting time and then boo-hoo ing all their life.

White_Mlungu_Capital · 2019-09-30T22:08:10+00:00

No beautiful woman calls herself beautiful like how no smart person calls themselves a genius.

RedditGuy1000 · 2019-09-30T17:59:12+00:00

BlackWinterShinigami · 2019-09-30T20:19:13+00:00

Applauds that response

mottsman87 · 2019-10-01T01:10:48+00:00

He hit the nail on the head.

Piporor · 2019-10-01T02:14:51+00:00

J Cole said it best " dont save her she dont wanna be saved "

phoneticau · 2019-10-01T04:43:14+00:00

Been around for a while that post its a quality nugget of red pill wisdom

loneliness-inc · 2019-10-02T14:45:21+00:00

I think this has been floating around in '06 or '07. It's still legendary though!

[deleted] · 2019-10-02T18:32:54+00:00

this is just like the 30 Rock ep where a fan collects enough soda cans to 'win' Jenna (the female lead on the show; TV actress) .. Donagey (Alec Baldwin -- male lead on the show; TV executive) explains how Jenna is a depreciating asset worth about $2000 lol

rationalthought314 · 2019-10-04T15:22:36+00:00

An oldie but a goodie which of course hasn't changed anything because women generally are just as clueless thinking their (depreciating) looks entitles them to rich men. My favorite part is the jealousy of the yoga teacher who grabbed a rich man despite being less attractive to her because that's all that matters, right?

Women think because they are objectively beautiful that men would never leave them yet many men do even while they still have their looks because once a guy hits it a few times and if there's not much there besides the looks, he looks to move on.

QuietRulrOfEvrything · 2019-10-05T01:15:17+00:00

Huh. I feel like I owe that banker gentleman $20 for his opinion. Now I wonder how he feels about holding positions in both Dominoe's AND Wendy's?

Playbackfromwayback · 2019-09-30T22:01:36+00:00

Reading these remarks, as a driven and super capable woman, I am so happy I am highly successful and will never need to depend on any man to care for or support me. There is an incredible amount of rage against women out there in the world and I am SO thankful to have this forum to see the real and genuine perspective so many men have about women. Ill go back to cold calling for business now......

Title	Investment banker educates a gold digger on how she is a depreciating asset
Author	henry_dorsett__case
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Comments	109
Date	September 30, 2019 12:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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