Pregnant mom is tired of her ex putting her down and wants someone to settle down with.

Traksimuss · 2022-10-03T14:20:07+00:00

By toxic relationship she means she chose a bad boy who turned out not to be father material after getting 4! children with him.

redveinlover · 2022-10-03T15:45:35+00:00

So who’s ready to sign up for this? When the odds of her not going back to her “toxic” Chad while you’re paying for his offspring being about a billion to one.

vegasbadboy702 · 2022-10-03T16:13:28+00:00

Oh goodness. So, a pregnant mother who just left her toxic relationship wants you to step in and care for her and her soon to be 4 kids. What a great selling point. As others noted, it only took her getting pregnant four times to realize this bad boy isn't good for her.

Worse still, the economics alone of raising 4 kids today is astronomical, but hey its only your hard-earned money. Why not support her and her brood with the high likelihood she returns to said bad boy.

gorillalad · 2022-10-03T19:34:13+00:00

I have a good buddy with a sister who has 4 kids now, with multiple dads ( think 3 ) and you can see how much it has eaten away at him. He’s just related to her and the kids, owes them nothing but to be a good uncle and brother, they don’t care it’s so easy to see how much it’s eaten away at his life. His family guilt trips him into helping her and the kids. Not usually financially, mostly with favours, picks them up, look after them, bring stuff over for them, help them move stuff, cooks, etc. it never ends for him, it’s add years to him and their not even his kids or receives any relationship bonuses in return for his effort. They all act entitled to his help. Don’t date women who’s already had kids, you’re nothing to them but help for her and her babies. Raising a child is very difficult, let a lone 4.

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-10-03T22:09:24+00:00

I wonder how stupid you have to be to end up a single parent to four kids. What’s the thought process behind baby number four? It keeps happening so maybe one of the ladies who lurk could step in and actually tell me why women do this?

f3wl · 2022-10-03T19:50:00+00:00

Is there any doubt she’ll continue to fuck him while you baby sit her crotch goblins?

Prisoner_477 · 2022-10-04T03:02:26+00:00

You are all awfully generous to assume all 4 are by the same guy

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2022-10-04T10:22:21+00:00

A long time ago one of my mentors told me "Any woman who bad mouths her ex to you will bad mouth you to the next guy when she moves on. Never trust anyone who bad mouths their ex". He was right.

RCGonzo99 · 2022-10-03T19:05:35+00:00

Missable?

mustangfrank · 2022-10-05T15:48:29+00:00

This is the exact story I had with a man who was a step father to a woman. She left her abusive husband with 5 kids. I asked why did it take 5 kids to realize the man was abusive? He didn't answer.

We all know why she stayed with him, tingles. Them tingles make up for black eyes.

GeneralCategory6366 · 2022-10-08T12:03:03+00:00

Typical Modern woman. She wants her kids to see HER happy. Nevermind the KIDS happiness by breaking up the family and taking them away from their father. Nevermind subjecting them to a revolving door of Stepdaddies and Mommy friends, for the next 18 years. I'm sure she'll fill her little girls heads with man hating horror stories and on the other hand, teach her little boy to be submissive to women. She'll teach her girls that all men are perverts and abusers and teach her boy that all women are bitches, except his mother and sisters.

mmnnButter · 2022-10-08T14:10:24+00:00

Her version of him putting her down is probably stuff like 'get a job, stop eating junkfood'

Profitglutton · 2022-10-12T04:43:55+00:00

Whoever gets with this trainwreck will absolutely have to deal with her sneaking around with her ex behind his back. I would pity the fool but she’s already advertised how horrible a deal she is.

Title	Pregnant mom is tired of her ex putting her down and wants someone to settle down with.
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	128
Comments	50
Date	October 3, 2022 1:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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