Gentlemen, I’ve been noticing an issue in recent months. That some commentors jump to blaming men for the choices of women. Let me explain why this is a stupid thing to do and why it’s harmful to society in general and men in particular.
Our first two rules are 1. No man shaming for any reason and 2. No white knighting or debating. If you break either rule, you'll be permanently banned. This post will explain why we have these rules and why it's stupid to engage in this silly behavior.
Dominance and hypergamy
Let’s begin with the dominance instinct in men and the hypergamy instinct in women. These instincts are part of our nature. We share these instincts with many animal species. Thus, these instincts are animalistic in nature.
Male nature is to compete for dominance. The specific competition may differ from time to time and from place to place, but the competition for dominance is always in our nature as men. Whether it’s male goats butting heads, male lions mauling each other to death or the more civilized – human – version of competing in business, study or even videogames! The competition for dominance is the underlying – animalistic – instinct.
The counterpart to the dominance instinct in men is the hypergamy instinct in women. The female goat is aroused by the fighting and fucks the winner of the head butting, the lioness fucks the male who mauled the other lion to death and the woman fucks the winner of our more sophisticated, human forms of male competition for dominance. The underlying – animalistic – hypergamous instinct remains the same.
Freedom to choose right from wrong
Human beings are elevated above animals because of our advanced intellectual capabilities, our ability to speak and most importantly – our ability to choose right from wrong. Us humans aren’t slaves to our biology. We can asses the costs and benefits of any action and choose accordingly. Therefore, when we choose wisely, it’s to our credit and when we choose poorly, it’s our fault.
When a man dominates his industry and becomes wealthy, this dominance results in a better standard of living for himself and his family, his employees, his suppliers, his customers and the economic standing of his country as a whole. Therefore, this form of dominance is good. However, when a man dominates a victim through robbery or rape, everyone except himself is worse off.
Likewise regarding hypergamy. There is hypergamy that benefits husband and wife, community, society and the country as a whole. Then there is hypergamy that only benefits the woman in the short term, as it leaves destruction and devastation to her husband, community, society and the country as a whole.
When a woman looks for a quality man who will be a good husband and father, she’s looking for a winner. Thus, she’s exercising her hypergamous instinct in finding a man. The man in turn must step up his game to be picked as a husband. Society as a whole advances as a result as both men and women must improve their game to secure a good mate for themselves.
However, when a woman destroys the life of her husband and other men through false accusations, divorce rape. Through constant nagging, demands and demonization. She leaves a wake of destruction and devastation for the men involved, the community, society and the country. Either way, it’s her choice!
Feminism in law and culture
Feminism has been on a march towards women’s empowerment for more than a century. Empowerment to have unrestricted authority without the corresponding responsibility. Feminism is female nature codified into culture and then into law. Women need protection and provision and thus, the codification of female nature results in an ever more oppressive police state and an ever expanding welfare state.
It’s extremely easy for a woman to exercise authority while shirking responsibility, because she has the law and public opinion on her side. It’s easy for her to exercise her hypergamy in whatever way she wants, constructively or destructively. No one will stop her from engaging in destructive hypergamy. On the contrary, the state will enable her.
Nevertheless, let’s not forget that she makes this choice! No one is stopping any woman from getting married as a sweet, young, debtless virgin. No one is stopping her from being sweet, pleasant, loving and sexual towards her husband. No one is forcing her to become a bitter, resentful, nagging, criticizing, demanding, unappreciative, ice queen cunt. She chose to be that way. That’s her choice and her fault for choosing the destructive side of her female nature.
Furthermore, whether men enable her bad behavior or not, her hypergamy will always desire and dream of the very best that’s out there. Therefore, as long as wealth and power exist in the world, women will desire the men who are wealthy and/or powerful. This is female nature and these are female desires. The wealthy and powerful men didn’t create these desires within the women, it’s the women who acted on these desires by shunning good men who were attainable. Therefore, when they’re all alone and can’t find a good man, it’s the result of their poor life choices. They have no one but themselves to blame.
Even furthermore, so many women will often fuck around with bad boys, become single mothers and live off welfare, rather than to choose a good, responsible, family man. Every day, we feature women like this. Women who have made these choices. Women who acted on the destructive version of their own hypergamous nature. This isn’t the fault of men, this isn’t the fault of the mythical patriarchy, this is the choices that these women made.
Some will argue – “it’s Disney (or some other entity) who taught girls to have unrealistic expectations of men”. To that I say no, hypergamy is an animalistic instinct as explained above. Lionesses don’t submit to the pride leader because of Disney. Neither do the female goats or countless other animal species.
Some will argue – “if simps would stop simping, she wouldn’t be able to be so unreasonable with her demands”. In response to this I’d like to remind you about the women who are featured here on a daily basis. Women with outlandish expectations and demands without any evidence of any male attention whatsoever.
Conclusion
Both men and women have character traits within our nature. Animalistic traits that are present in many animal species. Unlike animals who are slaves to their instincts, us humans can choose to express our instincts in a constructive or destructive manner. Both have a ripple effect on our surroundings.
When a woman makes bad choices, it’s her choice and her fault. Don’t blame or shame men for her choices. It’s stupid and idiotic and we won't tolerate it here.
Cheers!
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