Pull out your tissues because we have a sob story about a Carol who rode the cc until she was thoroughly alpha widowed. Now she has a man who truly treats her well and she can't handle it. Her hamster wheels are spinning so fast, she'll be airborne shortly. 😅

HiredNote · 2020-03-24T03:30:43+00:00

Can't even go two full days without someone on this sub making a post that reaffirms my belief that giving up on women is the only sane thing to do in modern society.

goodmansaysfuckyou · 2020-03-24T03:13:30+00:00

She can't help but fantasize the demise of their relationship. She is going to go to the Chad store and pick up a random dick, blame her infidelity on Ben, and initiate divorce rape proceedings.

I would be willing to wager that she was perfectly fine being in a relationship with weaksauce Ben until some other woman found him attractive. Now that there is some dread and preselection in play, her hamster is trying to come up with scenarios where Ben has to constantly work himself to death proving his adoration for this low caste woman.

Ben would be better off without her in just about every way possible to judge.

Honest_Solution · 2020-03-24T04:29:54+00:00

Anytime a woman claims her exes are narcissist 99.9% of the time SHE’S the narcissist. It’s called projection. I’ve learned this the hard way. Clue #1 that you need to run like hell is when a woman claims she’s dated multiple narcissists. First of all no one is that unlucky, everyone’s dated maybe one or two, at the most, in a lifetime. A true narcissist will claim everyone else is a narcissist but them. TRUST ME ON THIS.

kfree313 · 2020-03-24T03:33:30+00:00

Translation: I’ve fucked so many different men that I can’t think straight .

DangZagnut · 2020-03-24T03:08:55+00:00

Typical nutty female. What's the odds she wasn't dating fuckboys and chads and she was the one who caused all her relationships to be toxic?

Bedtyme06 · 2020-03-24T03:32:48+00:00

She thinks it's Ben's fault for being (in her own words) "a jackpot" man who's into her. Because of her past experiences with other men, she literally can't accept the fact that there are men who treat women nicely with no strings attached.

Her mind is so warped that she wants her man to cheat on her so she can have an excuse to break up with him and get back in the hunt for Chads, then blame it on Ben for not treating her right

socalskweez · 2020-03-24T05:45:02+00:00

The top comment: "don't say your toxic mindset! Just mindset"

See waman cannot be toxic, only men. /s

The sisterhood and white knights are quick to rush to her aid and comfort her. Change the gender in the story and they would not just affirm the males' belief that he was toxic, they would add another charge of abusive.

where_muh_good_mens · 2020-03-24T03:59:08+00:00

Typical Damaged Goods: I love the bad boys, but I know I need a good man. How do I keep my incessant need for drama at bay long enough to rape Billy.

And this is why there isn't any point to dating women after 30. They aren't looking for a partner, but for a savior; to hit the snooze on their biological alarms going off. Once they finally wake up, it will be too late to develop a natural relationship out of interest and affection.

rellik13xx · 2020-03-24T04:28:07+00:00

Christ, even when they do get what they want, they'll somehow manage to ruin it for themselves.

Stateist555 · 2020-03-24T03:21:32+00:00

all that cock messed up her brain

2020-03-24T06:18:29+00:00

And women wonder why men can not respect women at the same level as a man. She has been a pocket pussy for at least 16 years of her life where men have competed for her. Now that women are competing for him, she can't handle it.

Scooned · 2020-03-24T05:37:46+00:00

It will end in disaster because you want it to. You crave the drama and tension because you have severe mental problems. Get help

AngryCockOfJustice · 2020-03-24T06:49:24+00:00

someone please inform Ben, and tell him to execute evasive maneuvers

ThunderBloodRaven · 2020-03-24T07:52:42+00:00

Shes so mindfucked by this mindset that she cant even see that shes won the lottery. Hes the best thing to ever happen to her.

Buchwild · 2020-03-24T05:54:20+00:00

Good lord, this woman is sick in the head

feanors_gem · 2020-03-24T09:09:11+00:00

It’s because of the chaos in her life. I’ve noticed that women who grew up in chaos do not know how to live a life of peace and order. Things never went well for them, so when they do, they don’t know how to handle it. She even said she basically felt like it was the calm before the storm. Her brain has been wired for chaos. She’ll never be happy being happy.

mustangfrank · 2020-03-24T11:06:16+00:00

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RRFdev · 2020-03-24T05:16:44+00:00

And not a single mention about how attractive he is, or how he makes her feel.

I bet her relationship with Ben was sexless from the very beginning too.

She wouldn't be doing this absurd hamstering ("this relationship feels wrong because it doesn't have problems hurrr") if she feels attraction for Ben, but let's face it. Ben's a classic case of a Beta Bux.

2020-03-24T07:18:55+00:00

some women are truly retarded

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-03-24T05:43:29+00:00

She just cant blame herself for anything; shes incapable of it. Theres like a brick wall between her & understanding

GoodTimesWeakMen · 2020-03-24T09:46:48+00:00

Just goes to show that damaged goods isn't men being muh soggy knees, it's a fucking fact. This woman is so damaged that she can't even recognize lucking the fuck out when she has. Must have rocked the bed so many times that it knocked something loose in her head, because an undamaged woman would be as happy as a pig in slop in a situation like that.

seth1rollin · 2020-03-24T08:44:59+00:00

How the tables have turned in her 30s. I bet, in her 20s she used to get this type of attention and her boyfriends used to get insecure.

maruadventurer · 2020-03-24T09:11:09+00:00

Dear Abby: "How can I put a stop to this toxic mindset before I ruin my relationship?"

Abby: "Dear Carol, this is so easy it is almost not worth responding. Just let him have a peek at your emails, then tell him how many skages you laid down for. He will be ghosting you just the way you like it dear."

BluepillProfessor · 2020-03-24T16:30:40+00:00

After years of dating assholes, fuckboys, ghosters, and narcissists, I've developed a deep distrust for men.

Pair bonding ability? Meet Carol. Oh, you have met and went your separate ways already? Sorry darling.

nearly a year together, we've had almost no conflict. Our biggest disagreements have been over picking what to make for dinner. Our relationship is healthy, stable, and he has proven time and time again to be a trustworthy person

$1,000 bucks says she turns him down for sex more than 1/2 the time.

I keep looking for reasons to doubt him and distrust him

This will end well- just like all of her past and future relationshits.

after years of being traumatized by dating horrible men

It was all the mens fault. I had no responsibility for relentlessly pursuing bad boys and muh tingles. Really! NO responsibility at all. I was TRAUMATIZED! In fact, I traumatized all over the sheets almost every time with the tattooed biker! Why can't I cream like that with my nice Beta boy? Oh, right, I have been TRAUMATIZED. It is NOT MY FAULT!!!!!

How can I put a stop to this toxic mindset

Submit to your man and shut the fuck up?

No shitlord! She needs THERAPY because she was TRAUMATIZED!!!

Uh huh.

2020-03-24T16:31:01+00:00

I've always found these kind of posts by women approaching self-awareness to be painful to read. She's complaining about herself like she's another person she has no control over. The difference between smarter women and dumber women are that smarter women make self-deprecating comments about chasing Chads and running their lives into the ground whereas dumber ones are just perpetual victims who are acted upon by malevolent forces.

The sexual liberation genie needs to be stuffed back into the bottle if society is to survive. Each alpha can create dozens of alpha widows.

2020-03-24T15:44:45+00:00

he has proven time and time again to be a trustworthy person. He has never done anything shady or questionable and I have no reason at all to doubt that he loves me and only me. I've seen zero red flags, and my friends and family agree.

Not only she plays games on him, but she does publicly in front of her family too!

We all know how this is going to end, she's going to cheat on him with a Chad du journ, best if it's an ex, then she's going to tell Ben saying that the experience has proven to her how much she loves him and how good he's for her. #THE_END

Spiderthing69 · 2020-03-24T16:11:27+00:00

Deep down she knows Ben is too good for her.

ono_licious · 2020-03-24T20:27:42+00:00

Another one whose entire existence is a red flag. The guy with her will learn a hard lesson. Women who live the CC life are NEVER fit for serious or long term relationship. Her lengthy disaster of a dating life is 100% of her choosing. She’s broken in a way that can’t be fixed (by her own admission).

z31fanatic · 2020-03-24T22:37:32+00:00

We need to find a way to contact Ben and convince him to leave this damaged, psychotic woman.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-03-25T06:24:45+00:00

Her problem is this:

She's a whore.

She found a man who would give her that blessed commitment she always dreamed of. But now she's stuck with one "smart, honest, considerate, genuine, kind, and as an added bonus, he's incredibly attractive" boring-assed guy.

Her cognitive dissonance and "mental strain" comes from the conflict of knowing that deep down what she REALLY wants (50 shades of Chad cock) is not was she SAYS she wants (commitment and monogamy).

She should just embrace her whorish nature and cut this guy loose before she ruins his life completely.

Wait until you hear her hamsterbate about how she needed to divorce this guy and clean him out. How simply fucking deluded women can be and how they can lie to themselves is what makes them so toxic.

MattyK414 · 2020-03-26T03:57:31+00:00

Dr Drew was brilliant when he said that these damaged chicks either A) constantly pick abusers. B) eventually see their partners as abusers, right or wrong. C) sabotage a good relationship.

Ceding male authority was a huge mistake. Imagine how much healthier women would be if their fathers handed them off to a man that was trusted, and the lack of a payoff for blowing up a marriage.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2020-03-24T08:44:02+00:00

If Ben hasn't outright rejected this other woman and made it clear that he's not interested, then I bet he might be deliberately using Dread Game on OP.

zaze12 · 2020-03-24T12:22:10+00:00

And people are shocked when I say that I really don't give a damn about what a woman say or the place they belong in society.

harharry · 2020-03-24T14:58:41+00:00

“I’ve been traumatized by dating horrible men!”

Good for you. I hope your cats aren’t traumatized by being around your baggage-laden ass.

nihilistpanduh · 2020-03-24T21:20:29+00:00

I'm so confused... Why don't they understand that years of that behavior will effect your mental state ??

Now a good man is with her and he probably could've done better I'm guessing she lied about her past

And now he has to deal with her being paranoid and insecure ? 😵😵

xfallenxwolfx · 2020-03-25T01:42:30+00:00

It appears that it is true. Women with multiple past partners are unable to bond.

The_Mole_Dizzle · 2020-03-24T09:47:27+00:00

These people aren't fit for life they belong in a mental hospital

JakeDC · 2020-03-24T12:05:34+00:00

God, that second paragraph. Typical toxic female stuff. Honey, if your whole world smells like shit, you need to check your shoes.

coldsteel86 · 2020-03-24T15:21:59+00:00

She dated scum bags from day 1 so all her dating experience has involved being treated like crap and constant drama. Its something out of the norm for her to be around a nice guy.

Uhtred_McUhtredson · 2020-03-24T17:34:31+00:00

“All of my relationships have ended catastrophically.”

Take a look in the mirror, lady.

Ithomasfreedom · 2020-03-24T20:23:11+00:00

Notice how she was an innocent bystander in all her past dealings with men. Everything was done to her against her will. She had no say in anything that happened to her. I call bullshit!

Now to the important lessons. Most women can't handle being in multiple sexual relationships. At best they are broken. At worst they are insane.

My final warning, you can't fix broken people. Most people can't even fix themselves. Don't, I repeat, don't sign up for this duty, you will fail.

loneliness-inc · 2020-03-25T01:32:54+00:00

Has anyone heard the story of the scorpion and the frog?

suicidemeteor · 2020-03-24T04:56:56+00:00

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kamexon · 2020-05-06T19:42:21+00:00

Yeesh how disgusting

rp_whybother · 2020-03-25T09:04:15+00:00

who the fuck can buy tissues now?

Thetrvler · 2020-04-01T08:13:47+00:00

This is why you never date a woman in her 30’s.

Datingover30 is filled with damaged women and beta guys.