Seriously, Why Can't I Find A Decent Man? 😭😂

Honest_Solution · 2020-06-24T00:18:20+00:00

Read the title of #1 and then read the last sentence of #1. See if you can spot the contradiction. This is why you’re single, dumbshit. Took me all of 2 seconds of reading to figure it out.

swansong19 · 2020-06-24T00:12:42+00:00

all I keep coming across are losers

It’s not like I’m conceited or stuck-up. I don’t treat guys like crap just because they don’t look or act a certain way

shrinkshooter · 2020-06-24T00:18:21+00:00

I'm two sentences in and I'm done. I don't need to nor want to read the rest. You've read one of these, you've read them all.

Where have all the good men gone and here's the top 10 reasons it's not my fault

KlayThompsons_Weed · 2020-06-24T00:22:25+00:00

I wanted to write a super long comment breaking down this mess of an “article”, but I couldn’t commit to wasting my time. Simply put, the author is a complete mess of a human being... pathetic. Truth is, that her early and mid 20s have passed and she doesn’t want to concede that she is no longer of the category which men prioritize. Her years of riding the CC have worn her out and this early midlife crisis is slapping her across the face. She can no longer use her youthfulness as an advantage.

Also, on that note, just look at the other articles she writes. Just cringy, irritating content. Who tf would wanna deal with someone like this?

BillyBronze09 · 2020-06-24T02:10:00+00:00

I think the real problem is that so many men have taken the red pill and dont trust women anymore.

For over a decade now, we've all seen women reveal their true feelings about men across social media. Men have been bashed over the head with anti male, feminist, nonsense and seen our friends, family and favorite celebrities and athletes get screwed over, 1 by 1, in family court and in the court of public opinion by flagrant goldoghers and false rape accusers.

Women were given the freedom to do anything in the 60s and thought men wouldn't adapt too, but we have, and now more men are realizing that internet porn and a fleshlight can fix all of their sexual needs, or for those that want the real thing, they have endless options of dating app whores eager to have sex with them with zero attachments.

Women offer zero value to men beyond sex. I mean they can, but they refuse to learn to be modest, feminine, and not addicted to constant attention. They cant cook, clean, or offer any emotional comfort to men so they've reduced themselves to "people with a pussy". They flooded the market, and the basic laws of supply and demand have rendered even the most eager 10/10 woman to more effort than she's worth.

For generations women had it made. Just make a man feel like his suffering was worth it and he'll work himself to an early grave so you can live an easy life. But the chains of tradition have finally been broken and the bachelor life is more appealing than ever.

We took a while but feminism forced the smart men to evolve because women didnt know when to stop with their power grabs. They talked shit one too many times on twitter, they metoo'd one too many guys and the levy that was keeping men stuck in a bygone era finally broke when we realized that we are the prize and that women have little to no value in our current society.

_Nequis_ · 2020-06-24T00:43:44+00:00

I always wonder why putting some effort in i can find a decent girl to date in a restricted success pool of 2-3 and then there's women like this being like "i can't find a good man" when they are showered with males from every angle. They should say "i can't find a man that ticks off my list of impossible requests and standards i myself do not meet who i consider worthy"

Just 3 hours ago i ditched a girl that told me "you should consider yourself lucky that i'm talking to you cause you have curly hair" in a serious way,to which i replied "well i'm even luckier cause i can leave you there on your pedestal while i go hang with my buddies then",she blocked me ahahah.

Jake4523 · 2020-06-24T00:39:39+00:00

Another one who will not take accountability for her actions. No wonder this fucking world is burning down around us.

ogrilla99 · 2020-06-24T02:14:15+00:00

You could do a dissertation on how wrong every one of her points are, but I'll just do the first one:

I’VE LET GO OF MY “TYPE” AND I’M OPEN TO ANYTHING.

Wrong sweetcheeks. Your "type" let go of you, forcing you to consider anything at this point. And you hate those "anything" men for not being your type, for "forcing" you to settle for them, and they know it, which is why they avoid you.

I used to be stupidly picky and I had a list a mile long of what kind of guy I would and wouldn’t date — strangely enough, I always had a boyfriend back then.

Operative words: "back then". When you were younger, and more attractive, you *could* be stupidly picky, and you did pick stupidly but it didn't matter: there were plenty of guys willing to fuck you for a few months and move on, and that's all you wanted anyways, so why pick intelligently?

The problem was that my list had nothing to do with what really mattered, so I chose guys who were totally wrong for me.

See above. Yes, your list had nothing to do with what really mattered. The problem is, deep down, you still have the same list. It's just that those guys no longer choose you. But rather than accept that reality, you're trying to convince yourself that it's you who has changed and "grown" beyond those guys. "You didn't fire me! I quit!"

I think my priorities are better now, but I look around and there are no viable options anywhere.

2 problems:

your priorities haven't changed. It's just that you're no longer a viable choice for the guys you still prioritize. That's why you qualify your second statement by saying "viable" options: viable as defined by whom? I'm willing to bet those unviable guys you're passing over are still pretty decent men, if perhaps a little less attractive, less rich, less fashionable than your "type".
Even assuming your priorities have changed, you don't have a clue where to find the new type of guy you claim you're looking for. Why? Because you've never spent a day in his life with him. You have no idea what interests him, what occupies him every day, what he likes to do for fun, how his life is structured, etc. And without that knowledge, you probably just assume they're in the clubs and bars you normally frequent, just maybe hanging out in the back or something. But they're not. Life, even in LA, does not revolve around Hollywood, celebrities, and the latest clubs or bars. Those good men you say you're looking for are working most of the day in stable, unglamorous jobs, spend their time with friends, or other simple pursuits, save their money, and avoid precisely the types of places that gold diggers, aging party chicks, and damaged carousel riders hang out at. And truth be told, you'd still rather die than change your preferences and learn to like that "boring" life.

Here's the thing: you give away your true state of mind in the very first sentence: there's a massive difference between being "open" to anything, and truly desiring one thing. I want a woman who's not just "open" to considering me, but truly *wants* me, who knows exactly what type of guy she wants and it's exactly me. Not someone who's open to taking anyone off the streets and decides to settle for me. Say someone asks you where you want to eat, and you say you're tired of walking and you're open to anything, so you turn into the first restaurant you find. That's very different than someone who *wanted* to go that restaurant, loves that type of food, and has been dreaming of the meal she's going to have there all week. True, you two are at the same restaurant, but you don't fool the chefs and waiters about who's the more loyal customer. Guess which one they'd choose to fill their restaurant with?

TheAlphaRanger · 2020-06-24T01:15:22+00:00

When it comes to content for review on any type of manosphere media, Amy Horton articles are free real estate.

SylvestorTalone · 2020-06-24T01:46:54+00:00

The entire thing is explained with item number 1 if you can read between the lines.

''I used to be stupidly picky and I had a list a mile long of what kind of guy I would and wouldn’t date — strangely enough, I always had a boyfriend back then.''

Nothing strange about it, your value was higher since you were younger. You were aware of your higher value and leveraged it to be highly selective.

''The problem was that my list had nothing to do with what really mattered''

Let me guess, height? These things mattered to you in the moment which is why you selected based on them.

''so I chose guys who were totally wrong for me.''

You chose the most superficially attractive guys, those guys had loads of other options, and so no incentive to commit to anything, which is why nothing ever worked out. You were fine with this while you also had loads of options.

''I think my priorities are better now''

I'm sure moving from the alpha fucks to the beta bucks phase of your sexual strategy seems 'better' from your perspective. That's probably how I would choose to construct this in my head if I were a totally solipsistic being and I were running such a strategy. That isn't how men percieve this convenient realignment however.

''but I look around and there are no viable options anywhere.''

As mentioned before, your value is lower than it was, so there are fewer buyers and they are of lower overall quality. It's almost like there needs to be some approved mechanism in society to steer young women away from this life course of getting drunk on the sexual power they have in their youth, (when they are at their most foolish and shortsighted) frittering it away on the CC and then winding up lonely and unhappy. Nah, what am I talking about? That's clearly Patriarchy and is evil, this must all be men's fault somehow.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-06-24T01:38:27+00:00

Dear Amy, your descent into madness has been fun to watch.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2020-06-24T03:05:03+00:00

Lads. Let's never forget one thing: These women get paid $50 per article they write. Regardless of quality

This is right off the BuzzFeed or Thought Catalogue template to appeal to young women who like anger/outrage porn.

This is female outrage porn. It sells. And it works.

So I never get upset about anything they write, and get more upset that they get to poison little girls' minds with this shit.

That's the true outrage.

MrWojak · 2020-06-24T02:16:26+00:00

Lmao an update from her ‪http://archive.is/lgkoW

jnicol90 · 2020-06-24T01:19:08+00:00

“I won’t settle for just anyone.”

Anndddd here we go lol, unrealistic standards. We all know it.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2020-06-24T01:50:29+00:00

“I always had a boyfriend back then. The problem was that my list had nothing to do with what really mattered, so I chose guys who were totally wrong for me.”

Lol here I’ll translate that “I used to date guys I actually loved and found attractive, but now I want to find a safe beta male to settle down for.”

houseoftolstoy · 2020-06-24T03:06:49+00:00

I used to be stupidly picky and I had a list a mile long of what kind of guy I would and wouldn’t date — strangely enough, I always had a boyfriend back then. The problem was that my list had nothing to do with what really mattered, so I chose guys who were totally wrong for me.

Proof that "having standards" does not mean that you have the correct standards. She even admits that her criteria previously had been based on unimportant factors. It certainly is no mystery why she always had a boyfriend back then, it is because she relied on her looks alone to get relationships, and now she does not have the luxury to be as picky (especially in all the wrong ways).

Just had a look at the author's name, and see that it is the one and only, Amy Horton. This does indeed affect how I read the article, as this woman is notorious for going through a roller coaster of emotions when it comes to discussing her dating life. Jumping down to the bottom of this list:

Maybe all these guys just want to get laid, but they don’t talk to me long enough to figure out if I’m down with that! I just want a guy who’s genuinely interested in ME. Is that too much to ask for?

Based on these words and her other writings, she has no issue sleeping a man early on, which of course does not help her in finding a guy willing to have a long term relationship. It filters for the very type of man who does not want a relationship. Of course now that the cat is out of the bag with how quickly she has sex with men, she is in the same Catch 22 that other promiscuous women find themselves. If she makes a guy wait longer until having sex, she is giving him a larger hurdle than other guys who did not need to commit to her to get the same thing. But if she continues the same behavior patterns, she will be simply repeating the cycle.

This is why it is important for women who want marriage to not become slutty in the first place, as there really is a slim chance of success and happiness for women who opt for the path of promiscuity. This does mean that for many women, it is too late. But the least they can do is be a warning for others in demonstrating what not to do.

SquirtBurt · 2020-06-24T13:13:15+00:00

She’s a “former actress!” I wasted five minutes of my life looking at her website, Instagram and Facebook. She’s totally average on the looks side. No decent guy wants to date a blogger who writes Junior High level “Where is love?” articles that take two minutes to read and posts stupid quote memes all over her social media. Imagine going on a date with her and then finding this stuff on the internet.

Porphyrogennetos · 2020-06-24T02:16:10+00:00

She's completely full of shit.

He can be the hottest guy in the world and it won’t matter if I’m not feeling it. On the other hand, if I am feeling it, he doesn’t have to be traditionally good-looking.

Doesn't bother to even casually mention anything that might "make her feel it".

Her standards have not changed, and since she can't find Chad and make him settle down, she's mad at everyone. On top of that, she's lying to herself by making this article. Who is she trying to convince? Everyone else? Or herself?

Why would Chad settle by the way? It's never been better time for him than now.

TruthSeekingPerson · 2020-06-24T03:22:23+00:00

Amy Horton = Legend. Scientists will be reading her articles decades from now and laughing in amazement.

KavaNotGuilty · 2020-06-24T03:30:13+00:00

Amy Horton is always a fan favorite around here. She just consistently churns out content.

4Sammich · 2020-06-24T03:48:24+00:00

What cracks me up on these posts are the women come across as normal, reasonable and appear to be a potentially good choice if looking for such a thing.

To the men unversed in spotting the signs.

And if the guys aren’t interested in you, then you aren’t interesting. Tattoos and smoking weed is not a personality.

jrpark05 · 2020-06-24T04:51:39+00:00

I think she admitted to having an STD.

window_licker84 · 2020-06-24T05:44:15+00:00

Let’s see this list. Let me guess 6,6,6

saberwarthog · 2020-06-24T06:17:12+00:00

All I can say from the start is "Oh, hello Amy ! Long time no see, how are your aging genital warts ?"

It's a given now that any guy in Amy Horton's social circle in LA knows about her work, her articles and surely warn each other to not touch her even with a 10 feet pole...As we use to say here : "You, Me, the intercity train. The only three to never had a run on her. Keep out from that garbage."

Oh, and just one thing that ticks me a little :

It’s not like I’m gross. Sure, I’m not the hottest girl in the world, at least in a traditional sense — but I’m not chopped liver. I take care of my health; I eat well and I’m in shape. I bathe and groom and brush my teeth and all that good stuff. Some people might even call me attractive. Despite all that, I can’t get guys to give me the time of day. WTF?

Ohhh, Amy baby.... That's Incel talk right here ! You know that basic decency and being able to function as a human is no reason to have a relationship with you, right ??You're not one of those guys that is vilified all year long by you & the cohort of authors in columns like yours, no no no my dear !

Centenarian010 · 2020-06-24T08:30:54+00:00

" IT’S NOT LIKE I’M GROSS.

Sure, I’m not the hottest girl in the world, at least in a traditional sense — but I’m not chopped liver. I take care of my health; I eat well and I’m in shape. I bathe and groom and brush my teeth and all that good stuff. Some people might even call me attractive. Despite all that, I can’t get guys to give me the time of day. WTF? "

This the giveaway. The few people calling her attractive are her female friends, who are just as ugly, She is a 4 at the most,. Downright hideous, as guys don't even bother to approach her.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-06-24T10:18:38+00:00

By Amy Horton

There is a very good reason Amy's articles are featured regularly on a number of red-pill Youtube channels, they reveal the workings of a female who has a notch-count into the hundreds and has hit the Wall while her turbo hamster churns out so many articles.

Aldabruzzo · 2020-06-24T12:23:36+00:00

Amy Horton. The Matron Saint of WhereAreAllTheGoodMen.

Here is a link to her other articles at Bolde.

2020-06-24T07:23:21+00:00

Amy Horton. No needs to say, or read, or think about it much more. The thing is a straight up dumpster fire fueled by bitchiness, with a long ugly croocked nose and pent-up rage.

ransay3277 · 2020-06-24T10:58:42+00:00

Of course it was written by Amy Horton.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-24T13:16:36+00:00

"I KEEP SAYING YES TO ASSHOLES!"

SoFastMuchFurious · 2020-06-25T14:47:37+00:00

"He could be the hottest guy in the world and still not be good enough"

"Why can't I meet anyone??????" Hmmmm.

AngryCockOfJustice · 2020-06-24T03:33:02+00:00

What value is she bringing in the equation? Did she mention in the article?

meerita · 2020-06-24T11:43:34+00:00

I will give most guys at least one chance to truly get to know me

Why women think they're so misterious that we need to really go deep to know them.

Imperial_Plastics · 2020-06-25T18:16:30+00:00

C'mon guys, I have good personal hygiene

hijoton · 2020-06-24T15:09:59+00:00

This is by far her worst post I could find.

Archive link. http://archive.is/wEmdZ

"You’re awesome but you’re single. What are you doing wrong?? Absolutely nothing. Here are 12 reasons you’re single even though you’re a catch. "

*Edited as requested.

loneliness-inc · 2020-06-24T02:57:01+00:00

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Title	Seriously, Why Can't I Find A Decent Man? 😭😂
Author	loneliness-inc
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Date	June 24, 2020 12:03 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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