Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!

Overkillengine · 2020-05-18T11:53:02+00:00

Women reject men for something out of the man's control that has no bearing on his character: No one is allowed to criticize them! Anyone that has a problem with it is an Incel Misogynist!

Man rejects women for something that was under women's control (they opened their legs for an unreliable man, or drove a reliable one away) that is also direct indicator of those women's quality of character or decision making ability: Reeee! Incel Misogynist!

Miggymoggy · 2020-05-18T12:13:19+00:00

Dating sites (and dating in general) have always been extremely one sided and a man must accept a woman and her flaws. No matter what. However if a man dares to be an inch too short or drive the wrong type of car, wear the wrong type of clothes, shop at the wrong type of store, work at the wrong type of job, laugh at the wrong type of jokes, use the wrong type of mobile phone, etc etc - Then that man is judged harshly.

Men are to blame for this because many have absolutely no standards, which is why single mothers have "I deserve the best" attitudes whilst coming with 1,2,3,4 or even more children.

ImmersionVoidParagon · 2020-05-18T13:17:57+00:00

The funny part is that a lot of single moms put "if you dont like it swipe left" in their bios but if you let them know in advance in your own bio it's somehow a dick move and their human rights are being stripped away.

Honest_Solution · 2020-05-18T12:17:47+00:00

Demands for me but not for thee. That sums up women right there.

guyinpijamas · 2020-05-18T13:27:37+00:00

And the funny thing is that the mods have already deleted the original post... Doubt they would delete all the "6'0+ guys only" "No broke guys" "6 figure salary guys only" etc

loneliness-inc · 2020-05-18T12:22:58+00:00

Why is it that the political right sees the left as mistaken, but the left sees the right as evil?

Because for communism or socialism to work, freedom and traditional values must be eradicated. Freedom loving people don't want to fund welfare sponges and traditionalists don't want to fund degenerates.

Therefore, everything other than the left is an existential threat to the left. Therefore, they're all nazis - not c's - not commies.

Likewise, when a man looks at a woman's ridiculous demands, he says: aawwww, so cute. He comes here and makes fun of them, but no one feels threatened.

When a man says no single mothers, there's an actual existential threat to all women everywhere!

Because remember boys: women need men, men want women.

EvilKlownz2 · 2020-05-18T13:20:07+00:00

BeCAuSe MEn aRe NoT AloWEd tO hAVe PrefEREnces.

Edit. After reading some of the comments I see why he got the hate. The replies are just fucked.

window_licker84 · 2020-05-18T13:08:49+00:00

That’s a lot of hate for “no single moms”. Their going to have a shit fit at my “no blacks” preference.

HellishGod · 2020-05-18T13:26:26+00:00

Guys who shun and reject single moms and leftovers, or both in a package, are being labelled as misogynist assholes. But when a woman rejects a guy, because he's under 6 ft, doesn't have a well-paid job, an expensive car and so on, it is encouraged by the feminists with "YASS, YOU GO GURLL" answer. What would a single mom say if you rejected her: "You sexist pig! How dare you push me away? You can't handle a strong independent woman like me, you wuss! Just because I fucked with over 500 hot bad boys and gave birth to their kids, can't cook or clean, don't work and expect to be spoiled, doesn't mean you have the right to say no to me!! Yes, I'll be extremely disrespectful towards you, I'll constantly nag you, I'll spend the money you earn on weed, booze, cosmetics and other craps, and I won't reciprocate anything, but this would be a chance to prove that you're a true man! But you said no, now I'm screwed and it is only your fault! I hate every man with enough self-esteem, because they are not going to cater me and in this way my life will be harder..You piece of shit, I'll badmouth and insult you!"

silly_birb · 2020-05-18T14:40:27+00:00

Nothing hurts women more than truth

thenotoriousdougie · 2020-05-18T13:37:25+00:00

You think “No single moms” gets hate, put “No (specific race or ethnicity) women” or “BMI under xx please” and watch the shit hit the fan.

asdf333aza · 2020-05-18T15:33:19+00:00

Female beehive. You turn down the fatties, oldies, post wall, or single moms and you end up offending them and the rest of the female collective.

unsurelife83 · 2020-05-18T14:43:40+00:00

Why is it wrong to specify preferences? It will save time for both parties right?

mustangfrank · 2020-05-18T15:56:43+00:00

From article: I was shocked at first because its just a preference, I see hundreds of profiles demanding 6'0+ guys but I don't match those women and call them names or shit on them for it.

Me: It is amazing the double standard women have. A man cannot change his height, and height is not an indicator of anything. Taller men don't have bigger dicks, nor to they make better fathers or husband or anything else, yet ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL women just have to have one.

tulpacreator · 2020-05-18T16:21:53+00:00

A true sane man will not date a cum dumpster.

Nestroit · 2020-05-18T14:52:42+00:00

for women: preference = hate.

noobie107 · 2020-05-18T15:24:13+00:00

wonder why the mods deleted the thread.

rly makes u 🤔

UltimaterializerX · 2020-05-18T16:30:34+00:00

Women put standards in their bios all the time.

It’s always funny when they freak out over a man doing the same.

RichterNYR35 · 2020-05-18T16:47:30+00:00

It is even worse than he says. They can match with him and call him an asshole for not wanting to date single moms. But if he matched with a girl and bitched her out for not wanting to date anyone under 6 feet, he would be suspended and even banned for misogyny.

meerita · 2020-05-18T18:07:09+00:00

I posted the same topic the other day in another post in this sub. Basically, I put this line in my tinder profile:

> No moms. No fats. No communists with iPhones. No socialists, no vegans, no animalists.

And all I got, mostly, were tons of matches and tons of messages notifications from Tinder. I tried to see them but well, you know when you get messaged and then unmatch, you cannot read them. I started to suspect what was happening until I got one that candled the point:

> You're an asshole. A fucking asshole and a piece of shit. You should know that. Well, now you can unmatch me.

Most of the messages I catched were kinda like that. There were the funnier ones like this:

> What do you have with the communists? you're an idiot!!!!

But the majority came from moms, mostly, complaining why I was being rude with them.

Thetrvler · 2020-05-18T17:02:00+00:00

I simply asked a woman if she had kids and she went bat-shit crazy (she didn’t even have kids).

I swear if there’s a chance a woman may be discriminated at 10% the rate a man will (also if it was something they could’ve helped by simply being a responsible human), women literally can’t handle it.

BoxofMistakes · 2020-05-18T18:48:51+00:00

I moved cross country and almost immediately a female coworker told me I should go to the high schools when they let out to meet some of the single moms. She said all the men in the area are alcoholics and since I don't drink women would be all over me.

As if going to a high school to meet women isn't creepy as fuck, I don't have any trouble meeting women and have been on a number of dates with single moms. I didn't know they were moms until it was too late. Many women hide it or outright lie about having no kids.

The women were alcoholics with questionable work histories or drug addictions or histories of violence, I've met them all. If the women are this bad the men must be awful.

I doubt that though- I'm sure the men just got tired of dealing with their bullshit.

Labyrinth2_0 · 2020-05-18T14:50:00+00:00

Crazy lunatics they are

wackydingus · 2020-05-18T17:08:13+00:00

Kinda hopeful that he isn't getting picked apart on reddit, a place one might expect to be absolutely infested with simps.

2020-05-18T17:39:21+00:00

How dare a man to have any kind of standards? It's sexism. Only women are allowed to be picky. For the sake of the human race, of course. No personal agenda.

classjoker · 2020-05-18T17:36:53+00:00

If I ever needed to date again (and honestly I can't see ever wanting to) my profile will read

No fatties
No insolvents, in debt, or unemployed
No smokers, or habitual drug users
No 'currently pregnant', or someone expecting to start a family

I'll also get the snip, so it'll be impossible to find myself trapped with a kid and baby mum.

I'm no catch, but equally, I've worked too hard for too long...

xfallenxwolfx · 2020-05-18T18:43:00+00:00

The core of feminism is double standard. Women can and say whatever they please but when a man call them out or rejects them for it WE'RE to blame.

john_L27 · 2020-05-18T17:46:40+00:00

I feel like men should start reporting women for having absurd preferences. I don't know if it will work but it would be nice to see some of these women getting banned.

otakuzod · 2020-05-18T20:49:20+00:00

They're just mad because it puts that specific undesirability on blast and rejects them before the Single Mother could reject/disqualify the man. Women cannot stand rejection in any form.

rvail136 · 2020-05-18T13:46:32+00:00

That's different because reasons...

TheREexpert44 · 2020-05-18T22:15:36+00:00

Bitches be like "take care of me and my 9 kids. Single dads need not apply"

mariusalb · 2020-05-18T16:09:53+00:00

Let me guess, USA? I mostly say i am not interested in being in a relationship with single mothers, in the chat section, and say if they are interested in hocking up. Some agree some don’t. Some who don’t like either unmatched me or ghost me. Never had anyone call me names or anything, even if they did I would return the favor. In the end, who fucking cares? You’re free do date and fuck who ever you want, of course not being in a relationship or married to some, then you’re just a shity person. Use fucking protection!!!

Buchwild · 2020-05-18T17:08:10+00:00

Damn you men and your "adjusts glasses" moderate standards

orcscorper · 2020-05-18T21:37:16+00:00

I saw a lot of "tone policing" as they like to call it in the comments. He should have been more diplomatic and said "I would prefer someone without children" or "I'm not ready for the responsibility of raising children right now". What kind of candy-ass bullshit is this?

He doesn't want to date a single mom, at all. It's a deal-breaker, not a preference. He may be totally ready to be a father as soon as he marries the right woman, but will never be ready to be mom's boyfriend.

They are telling him to lie to women so as not to offend anyone, and the same idiots wonder why men seem to lie to women so often. If they didn't want to be lied to, if lying didn't give us the desired outcome, we would just tell the truth.

animistspark · 2020-05-18T22:42:44+00:00

I really don't get the mindset. If it were me, I'd prefer to know that someone doesn't want kids and may potentially have a problem with mine before getting involved with them.

ZealousMaths · 2020-05-18T23:14:55+00:00

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the40yearoldincel · 2020-05-19T08:16:00+00:00

I've seen a meme a lot recently where it says "No single moms. If you were a catch, he never would have left you and your kid", or something very close to that. Makes perfect sense to me.

silvereddi · 2020-05-19T10:18:32+00:00

Dating Advice is the biggest blue pill shithole in the reddit scene anyway, no wonder it got deleted

Krieger117 · 2020-05-18T16:08:01+00:00

Can we please use something other than archive.is? Firefox will not work with this site. It has to do with cloudflare DNS.

AngryCockOfJustice · 2020-05-18T22:00:37+00:00

aannnnd...it is locked by a certain type of mod. Must be a single mom.

I should create a tinder profile with requirements such as, no body positive womyn", "no single moms", "no women with history of mental issues running in family", "no women with bad financial situation".... and giggle at the responses I would get and share with the class for laughs and assessments

will85319 · 2020-05-19T01:35:08+00:00

Broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago, now i fuck escorts once a month and do what i want when i want.

Obediah_Stane · 2020-05-19T02:23:10+00:00

The real kicker is when they say "not looking for a hookup" but have 3 kids. The amount of cognitive dissonance is absolutely astonishing.

ZealousMaths · 2020-05-19T03:40:48+00:00

Putting demands on dating profiles is really annoying and I'm already tired of woman with "if you have political X alignment, swipe left" on her bio, which is about 90% of them nowadays. Now I know we can complain all day about the double standard (like what went with this dude) but what happened to trying your best to show you are a cool person online? If you don't like something, just swipe left, nobody will know.

And tbh this guy is a bit dumb, he was asking for a headache. And don't worry about being tricked into dating a single mom, she will be damn sure to let you know she is a "loving mom of a beautiful princess" and post her kid as the first picture in the Tinder profile.

Guitz59 · 2020-05-19T10:29:40+00:00

LOL

my tinder profile is only pics of my dog with :
- no child, if you have child you can't be in serious relationship
-no more than 60 kg
- you have to pay to feed my dog, he's all my world
- if you read this and don't feel "opressed" then you can swipe right

And got some match XD
but I don't care at all, i don't need a relation i have a great dog ^^

alexinfinite85 · 2020-05-19T14:15:59+00:00

That's because there's a lot of useless women who are single moms that know their kids are a form of baggage but stubbornly try to remain qualified for a relationship

HNutz · 2020-05-18T16:36:50+00:00

How DARE he... want to come first in her life, if things progress that far?

Or just want to date without having her worry about a sitter, how late they're out, etc?

Totally reasonable.

I-am-the-lul · 2020-05-19T00:47:09+00:00

MEN AiN'T SuppOsEd To hAVe pRefereNCEs dOntchA KNOW, tHey ARe eXpECtED tO LisT aLL THE THiNgS thEy BriNg To tHE tABlE whILE WOmeN aRe The tabLE.

VerdantFuppe · 2020-05-19T00:57:21+00:00

Bitches be trippin'.

Cookieclaws · 2020-05-19T05:08:58+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not wanting to deal with someone else’s kids. Some people get really offended when you have preferences...

GSFleming · 2020-05-19T14:56:11+00:00

Men aren't allowed to have a preference and women deserve everything they want. That's been the rule for as long as i've been an adult.

upsidedownbackwards · 2020-05-20T19:08:36+00:00

I fish both sides of the pier. I'm gonna try an experiment. "No single parents". That way it's not sexist at all.

How long before I get a homophobic slur from a woman? How many single mothers vs single fathers will message me saying I'm a horrible intolerant person?

I've added the line, time to wait.

AliceGaveMeTheHerp · 2020-05-22T15:06:27+00:00

Would you rather be told “no single moms” up front or would you rather get attached to a man, and find out 3 years later that he’s “not the marrying kind”?

cum_toast · 2020-05-18T16:11:17+00:00

Thought this post might be about me lool it's the first line in profile

Nathaniel66 · 2020-05-18T16:20:22+00:00

Wait...i thought you need double match to be able to send messages?

sikkn890 · 2020-05-20T02:57:58+00:00

The comment section on that post is an absolute train wreck.

machineghostmembrane · 2020-05-18T21:13:55+00:00

in all seriousness, there are a lot of single moms on there.

Title	Single moms mad because a man put "no single moms" on his Tinder. lol bailouts denied!
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	955
Comments	181
Date	May 18, 2020 10:38 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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