I've reluctantly resigned myself to this new reality of women and their OLD profiles. In this example, with 4 grandkids, it looks like the child who left home has repeated the same mistakes from a poor parental role model. You quickly see the double speak, when they state things like "I'm not looking for hookups", but post a boob or lingerie photo to try and look sexy that says the opposite, like here. Her life is 'complicated' at best with far too much turbulence and baggage for the type of man she now claims to want, to enter a serious relationship with her.

It is the next generation that these single mum queens are raising that I worry about. No Father figure or reliable male role model for male children. You only have to look at the frightening statistics that Kevin Samuels quotes about single black mamas raising sons without a father present, leading to problems with discipline in school, delinquency and a higher risk of involvement in gangs, crime and prison. I'm not saying all single mums are creating this outcome for their children, but the number who are is increasing and becoming more acceptable, not just the norm.

It is good that she has managed to stay off the drugs and got a full time job, but the best this woman can aim for is damage limitation. Poor outcomes are the consequences of making poor choices. She must change her behaviour if she wants a different outcome to her current situation and does not want to repeat her mistakes.