The concept of the alpha widow, personified.

kevin32 · 2021-11-06T17:16:20+00:00

A note to the community: Alpha Widows are weekend content, and they're usually a combination of Chasing Chad, Damaged Goods and WAATGM-ITM. But whereas Damaged Goods are those women who complain about physical/emotional abuse, the key component for identifying Alpha Widows is that she complains about her attachment to jerks and fuckboys who won't commit. In other words, she misses, longs for, and can't get over unavailable men from her past, and we post these women to help decent men guard their commitment against women who are incapable of fully committing themselves.

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-11-06T19:12:16+00:00

Why don’t women understand that men will not commit to a woman whose mindset includes being willing to sleep with three guys she doesn’t know in an attempt not to have feelings for another guy.

We. Do. Not. Want. To. Marry. Hoes.

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-11-06T17:22:54+00:00

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Blogginginvicecity · 2021-11-06T19:21:22+00:00

He only wants to hook up and nothing else

EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM WAS PERFECT

Be a side ho forever, ho.

OxyFTgen · 2021-11-06T19:28:04+00:00

I’m genuinely terrified of ending up with women like this.

tiernach · 2021-11-06T18:34:31+00:00

This is peak self deception. Only someone living their whole life on easy mode could have this kind of perspective.

slipkid223 · 2021-11-06T18:59:58+00:00

I keep banging guys to replace Chad but none of them give me the tingles like Chad.

Oh diary, what to do?

gfgdhj5784yu8 · 2021-11-06T21:39:17+00:00

I do not consider myself alpha..... or beta for that matter. Just normal in the middle somewhere. I have had multiple women pull this shit on me. One was an 8 year on and off thing.... I refused to marry or cohabit.... she broke up with me about 4 times and came crawling back each time (she was beautiful so I took her back for the sex alone knowing marriage/cohabiting were now never going to happen), the last time I didn't stick around long enough for her to come back and I left for a different part of the country for business reasons. Several others completely love and sex bombed me for 3 or 4 months and then started demanding too much time, wanting to move in or marry. This just keeps repeating over and over again. I am not complaining....... but my experiences and observations leave me with the understanding that any kind of long term commitment to a woman in this day and age is foolish.

Bottom line: If they don't get their way they break up and later come back when their other plans fail to materialize (usually). When they come back I always understood a lot of other men have had a turn in my absence.... further cementing my desire to stay completely financially and legally unattached from them. But hell yeah, I will still enjoy the sex for a while longer- uncommitted and very carefully.

Disciple_Of_Cheesus · 2021-11-06T21:18:42+00:00

She's going to go on to destroy some hapless Betabux sometime in the near future.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2021-11-07T08:24:16+00:00

This is a perfect example how sleeping around ruins pair-bonding and brings emotional baggage.

Relationships oriented men need to be aware, pay attention, thoroughly check her history.

Don't be a beta bux. Best not to play the game but if you must watch for and walk away at the first sight of red flags.

Don't give her benefit of the doubt. In this era the first red flag you can see is just a tip of an iceberg.

Wildhouse83 · 2021-11-06T22:25:55+00:00

"Am I in love?". No, your gina in tingeling.

meerita · 2021-11-06T23:00:51+00:00

Alpha widow = female version of oneitis

Hunk_Maggot · 2021-11-07T22:45:47+00:00

For her, the only way is loneliness

drakehfh · 2021-11-09T23:39:25+00:00

She hooked up with 3 guys in less than 2 weeks?

Title	The concept of the alpha widow, personified.
Author	Typo-MAGAshiv
Upvotes	121
Comments	66
Date	November 6, 2021 4:51 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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