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Title The Sex Workers subreddit continues to be a source of eye rolling. Women make the choice to be a sex worker while trying desperately to avoid the consequences of such an occupation. (Reminder: don't go looking for this post.)
Author SirKolbath
Upvotes 311
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Date February 2, 2020 5:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]WesternhagenDiamondback AMOG205 points206 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

"Many men can handle sex work" -- your guy friend handled it just fine by requesting your services, but I guess with an orbiter it's "ewww no way, not even if you pay me!"

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 124 points125 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

I got the giggles at that part. Seriously, what did you expect? You literally told him you fuck for money! He either had no interest in fucking you, in which case great and lucky for you, or he has pretty much always wanted to fuck you and now he has a chance.

I notice that she doesn't seem to think for a second about this "friend" who probably was less than pleased that she was so unattracted to him that she refused to fuck him even when he was willing to pay her for it!

[–]ZodiacBrave9872 points73 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

she was so unattracted to him that she refused to fuck him even when he was willing to pay her for it!

This point went completely over my head until I read your take. It really would be uniquely insulting. Admittedly it would be uncouth of him to make overtures during that same conversation, but the lady explains it like the option is off the table under any circumstance.

Imagine finding out your friend is a mechanic during his complaining about his job. Later you politely ask if he'd be willing to look at your car, at the going rate. The friendship ends over your 'rudeness'.

Now, I get that she probably has the ability to select her clients on qualities other than willingness to pay. Maybe she's very selective. But the very fact that his money alone isn't enough undermines her propaganda that "sex work" is just another job. Otherwise her lying wouldn't be justified, and that's just not fair.

[–]SylvestorTalone62 points63 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

'' Imagine finding out your friend is a mechanic during his complaining about his job. Later you politely ask if he'd be willing to look at your car, at the going rate. The friendship ends over your 'rudeness'. ''

That's an extremely good point that I actually missed on first pass. The fact that she doesn't see it that way completely explodes this claim that 'it's just a job like any other'. It clearly isn't a job like any other, and the women who engage in it show that they understand this under the right circumstances. They just like to say that it is when trying to shame men into being ok with shacking up with a whore.

[–]ZodiacBrave9834 points35 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It clearly isn't a job like any other, and the women who engage in it show that they understand this under the right circumstances.

Exactly right. This woman blew her cover, and doesn't even know it.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This woman blew her cover

And not just her cover....

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 46 points47 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I spent two weekends ago doing an oil change for a friend of mine who has never done it before. Now, that isn't my actual vocation, but the going rate for such is about $35 out here. I charged him three diet Pepsis. (I'm a whore for soda!)

I've lost count of the people I've helped with their computers, random shit I've done on cars, boxes I've carried into apartments, and other shit many people get paid for that I either did out of friendship or for something like pizza and beer.

She couldn't even fuck a guy she supposedly liked.

[–]Chairman_Ellen_PaoPuts extra mayo on his roast beef tacos28 points29 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She couldn't even fuck a guy she supposedly liked

"But...but...sex is intimate and special!" is what they all say.

[–]Beautiful_DustSpreading the Love, Wahmyns Style1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How intimate and special can it be if shes selling it

[–]ogrilla99Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think it probably went differently. That guy asked for services in order to lash out and hurt her (entirely justified, btw).

Imagine you're a simp who's been pining away for this girl for years, watching her fuck other guys (her boyfriends), waiting for your chance. At least you console yourself with the idea that she's choosing those guys over you because they're hotter, more socially adept, etc even though you love her so much and would treat her like a queen, not like those douchebags.

Then, she comes to you to talk about her boy troubles, as she does every month. Except this time, she lets drop that not only does she fuck this attractive boyfriend, she also fucks totally random strangers for money, including fat, balding, ugly but rich older men who can pay her for her "sugaring" services, and even gets naked on camera for a few bucks thrown out by random dudes from third world countries.

Meanwhile, you spend hours listening to her emotional drama, pay for dinners out when she's single and/or when her player boyfriend is too cheap to do so, and buy her thoughtful birthday gifts every year, all without ever even getting to see a nip slip.

It's one thing to be passed over for some alpha guy. It's another to be passed over for some random guy in his parents' basement paying $5 to get access to something she's never offered to you. Even to the bluest bluepill, that was probably too much. So he snapped and lashed out and probably said something like "If you've fucked a guy for 200 bucks, how much for a blowjob? Oh, that's gross? Well, here's 10 bucks. Show me your tits." She doesn't realize just how much she's broken him in that instant (probably because his tone of voice is probably not all that different from what she's used to from her regular johns) and assumes he's serious about requesting her services. She doesn't even realize he's insulting her, because she's already a prostitute. You can't insult a prostitute by asking her her price list.

The only good thing that may come of this whole thing, is that this nuclear truth bomb just might be enough to shake this bluepill dude out of his delusions.

[–]EvilKlownz2Gettin nasty with wall busters5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Then, she comes to you to talk about her boy troubles, as she does every month

This is why I refuse to have female friends. I don't want to hear about your dating BS. I don't want to play the " I'm crying cause you told me what I didn't want to hear" game either.

[–]softbeats53 points54 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I love when they’re confronted with their own premise and refuse to accept it.

[–]Alexius_von_Meinong19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty sure she was completely oblivious to having been confronted in this way, and so had no idea that she was refusing to accept anything.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well of course, emotional tampons aren't human and aren't supposed to to have actual sexual desires.

His job was to soak up her complaining and give her attention for nothing in return like a good simp.

[–]ToxNoxPox1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

So wait a second... if sex work is her job, and sex work is real work, as is being preached loud and proud by feminists, then did she break the law by discriminating against that guy?

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Right to refuse service, I guess.

[–]Beautiful_DustSpreading the Love, Wahmyns Style0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wait...what? Preaching sex work is real work? Now that's disturbing.

[–]Captainbuttman3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think the issue was also in part due to the timing, she said he immediately requested services while she was talking about going through a rough breakup.

[–]WesternhagenDiamondback AMOG12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I bet she was still accepting other "customers" during her breakup though.

[–]akihonj135 points136 points  (40 children) | Copy Link

She's a sex worker dating a sexually conservative man and has no idea how he's going to react. Yeah right have another go the bullshit-o-meter is going fucking nuts here.

[–]RedPill_Dragon68 points69 points  (37 children) | Copy Link

Without a doubt, he will leave her. Like in nanoseconds.

[–][deleted] 62 points63 points  (34 children) | Copy Link

Well I'm a Christian and I would walk away from a whore in an instant and never speak to her again.

However I am sad to admit that there are many simp Christians who would try and understand and work through things with her and try so hard to be "understanding and forgiving". It's really a shame.

[–]rvail13626 points27 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I'm Jewish and I wouldn't consider dating, much less marrying a prostitute. Call a spade a spade, you get paid for fucking, you're a prostitute.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 25 points26 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't mind them trying to be gentle with her. I do mind them enabling her. The definition of enabling is to "protect an individual from the consequences of their own choices and actions." She's lost two men in her life because of sex work, the previous boyfriend and the friend. Maybe when she loses this one she'll learn.

Maybe.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not a freacking chance! She won't learn until she is alone in her 40's sipping wine and cat piss.

[–]RadioFreeColorado9 points10 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't Christianity teach that even prostitutes can be saved if they turn away from sin? Why would forgiveness/understanding be out-of-line with Christian doctrine?

[–]dwc151Beta butt licker + wasabi soy sauce40 points41 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They can be saved, but that's on God. We don't have to associate with them.

[–][deleted] 31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just because they can be saved doesn't mean I have to date them.

Edit: When I said I would walk away and never talk to them again, I'm talking about dating.

Converting an unsaved soul does not mean I have to date them.

[–]prbonfanti7 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

In the times i read that book, there was something about forgiveness, but i dont remember a verse speaking "Thou shall marry a whore".
In effect is much more of the contrary.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Actually, there is Scripture to support this, albeit as an illustration. Israel had been like an unfaithful prostitute that God was forced to continue helping so I guess He wanted Hosea to feel what it was like- hint: Not Good!

2 When the Lord first spoke to Hosea, the Lord told him, “Marry a prostitute and have children with that prostitute. The people in this land have acted like prostitutes and abandoned the Lord.” 3 So Hosea married Gomer, daughter of Diblaim. She became pregnant and had a son.

[–]prbonfanti2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hosea

I dont remember this part, but as you say this was done as punishment, he could give him some plague, but decided to marry a prostitute would suffice.

[–]Jordoom1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. Hosea was kind of like a precursor of Christ (there are many in the Old Testament: Isaac, the ram that gets killed instead of Isaac, David, the Paschal Lambs in Egypt, etc.) Israel was behaving like a prostitute, basically abandoning her “husband”, God. Hosea was therefore commanded to literally take on the sin of Israel, to chastise them and show them their sin, much like how Jesus took on all of our sin at Calvary.

[–]Imperator_RedTheRedPill's ShitLord0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Christians are the ultimate cucks

[–]ThePrivilegedOne0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

But doesn't the Bible teach men to still stick around with unfaithful women, that's what Hosea did anyway. The whole thing confuses me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

That was a very different situation and it was a 1 time thing. It was to showcase how Israel treated God and how God would always love Israel anyways.

Even Jesus said that divorce isn't permitted... UNLESS it's for marital unfaithfulness.

Matthew 5:32 "32 But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery."

So if your wife has cheated on you or you found out that she was a wild whore before she married you(sexual immorality) then you have grounds for divorce.

[–]ThePrivilegedOne0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Alright, that kind of makes sense. I'm still not a huge fan of the story though.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

To be honest me neither. I wish God hadn't done that.

However it had its purpose and I trust God to know what's best.

[–]csnow420-2 points-1 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

so was Jesus (the "Son of God") mind you, lying, when he stated unconditional love as the ultimate way to live? He ate with tax collectors and prostitutes (Zaccheus, woman at the well), and as he was being killed literally forgave his adversaries. So, if you call yourself a " christian" which literally means "little christ", how can you forgive and love anyone if you can't even SPEAK to the chick? I'm not christian I don't like labels, but you, sir, are a hypocrite. Read the Bible sometime?

[–]Typo-MAGAshivOfficial Bloopie Chaser, Drive-by Asshole5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Forgiving someone just means not punishing them.

It does NOT mean bringing them into your life add giving them the power to harm you.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus forgave the sinful woman but he didn't start having sex with her or marry her.

He said: Go and sin no more.

Maybe you should read the Bible. Mine says the FEAR of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. It doesn't say always be quiet and gentle and sweet and kind and helpful and feminine.

God is a God of WRATH. He is a jealous God who visits the sins of the father to the 10th generation. He destroys and slaughters His enemies in fire and floods. He shows compassion on those who he chooses to show compassion and hardens the heart of those who He wants to make an example of.

God orders His enemies slaughtered- women and children- and punishes the Israelites when they fail to kill everyone in the town.

Sure God forgives the truly repentant. But he doesn't take away the consequences of the sin. IF this woman were truly repentant she would not be out looking for another guy to shack up with but would get herself to a nunnery.

She literally wants advice on how to lie to her BF and how she can continue sleeping with men for money while she lives with her new BF- and you want to give her the same status as a repentant sister in Christ?

Yes, Jesus forgave, but he was just as likely to get really pissed, tear up the room, and empty it out with a whip while howling about the sinners.

Jesus was not the mousy cuck displayed in modern Churchian theology.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Oh yes. Someone who isn't a Christian but yet claims to be an authority on being a Christian. If I had a dime for every one of you, I'd be Donald Trump.

[–]Imperator_RedTheRedPill's ShitLord6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It should be a crime for women to withhold information like this.

[–]Cade_Connelly_132 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I once dated someone who, to her (miniscule) credit, did openly admit to being a hooker being recently cured for 2 STD's. The only reason I let her back in my car was that I wasn't going to leave her to walk 6 blocks home alone in the evening.

[–]Demiansky41 points42 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What's astonishing to me is how it's not immediately evident to her that this is basically the moral equivalent to being married to a woman while still secretly dating 3 women a week and maintaining another wife and family on the side.

"Gee wiz, I don't think my wife could handle it if I told her, I guess it's better to keep it secret, eh?"

Yeah, maybe NOT engaging in the thing that'll ruin your relationships to begin with might be the better route to take.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My head started hurting trying to read her post. That's how I knew it was a good'un.

[–]theDukesofSwagger91 points92 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

“My day job is a weak cover for the lifestyle I live”

So are you paying off college like you said is the reason for the sex work or buying expensive shit?

[–]sleepyweaselisawakeNeighbor of the Beast55 points56 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why not both? She can't go to class and learn is she's not wearing the kind of clothes that guarantee male attention and female jealousy. And, what's college if she can't go out to expensive restaurants, pay for an apartment in a trendy neighborhood? A girl has got to have her priorities straight.

I do commend some of the repliers. They understand that sex work can effect future and long term relationships. But, that doesn't stop them from engaging in it.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Probably both. She's probably in college, drives a late-model car, drinks 1-3 Starbucks drinks a day, buys expensive clothes and shoes and handbags, and otherwise attempts to keep up a specific level of "lifestyle" she couldn't otherwise be capable of maintaining.

[–]rvail13612 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what I got from her comments as well. You have to keep up appearances!

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The ultimate irony is she spends all her money from sex work on drugs and clothes.

The drugs fade in a few hours and a few weeks after she gets married the clothes won't fit any more.

[–]ogrilla99Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Silly rabbit, you think college is supposed to be about education. Sigh. It's about finding yourself, dontcha know? And finding yourself requires expensive clothes (to keep up with those bitches at the sorority house aka your sisters that you'll supposedly love forever), living in a massive luxury apartment (better than anything you'll afford once college is done), and taking spring break trips to Paris and Rome and Tokyo where you can "find yourself" in miles of foreign dick.

I mean, really, these should be line items along with tuition, room and board, and textbooks, that the financial aid office should use to calculate how much aid you should get. The fact that this oppressive, patriarchal institute fails to recognize these additional expenses and *forces* this poor woman into sex work to pay for it, rather than give her the money for free, is really on all of us. We're no better than Russian mob sex traffickers, really. And now, this blameless woman is about to face the romantic consequences of this decision that she was forced to make, and it's all our fault, not hers.

[–]IcariusFallenI can see your bullshit from here!61 points62 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

So she's basically cheating on the dude. She's doing sexual shit with other dudes, and not telling him, while they're in a "Committed relationship". It doesn't matter if it's transactional. Broad needs to find a poly relationship, if she wants to do that shit. A poly dude wouldn't give a shit about her fucking other dudes for money.. but he also wouldn't give her all the attention she so desperately craves, and we know that's a no-go for her. How dare she have to follow the same rules as the man in the relationship.. that would be equality, and equality isn't what feminists have spent years fighting for.

It's sad that no one calls her out on the lying, but instead tells her "quit now so he never finds out". He'll still find out..

Also funny that she blames the guy friend for "ending the friendship" when he asked for her services as a sex worker upon finding out.. because she ended the friendship when she realized he was only being her 'friend' because he wanted her sexually. The second that he found out he could just dump some cash for it, instead of wasting his time hearing her whine about all the bad shit that happened as a consequence of what she chose to do (Aka her own god damn fault) in the hopes she might suck his dick, he went for it.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S,M] 35 points36 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Such an excellent reply, particularly this:

So she's basically cheating on the dude. She's doing sexual shit with other dudes, and not telling him, while they're in a "Committed relationship".

and this:

The second that he found out he could just dump some cash for it, instead of wasting his time hearing her whine about all the bad shit that happened as a consequence of what she chose to do (Aka her own god damn fault) in the hopes she might suck his dick, he went for it.

As a result I have given you your own special flair in this subreddit. Since your username is based on the myth of Icarus, I have chosen I can see your bullshit from here! as your flair. Congratulations!

[–]TheApricotCavalier|-.,_,.-Troll Mind in a TRP Body-.,_,.-|14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lying

Thats the word painfully omitting from her rant. Basically 3 pages of bullshit, hoping people feel sorry for her

[–]Kaedryl36 points37 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

If she tells him/he finds out, he should start getting “services” from her co-workers. See if she’s ok with that. If she was a hair stylist, would she be upset if he got a trim from another one if she’s too busy at work?

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 46 points47 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Several of the posters in /SWOnly complain constantly like this girl that they can't keep a good man-- well no shit. What's going to happen when you are legitimately not in the mood to fuck him for whatever reason, but he knows full well you were getting railed like a freight train earlier in the day? Don't you think he's going to be a little pissed that someone can hand you a $100 bill and get access to your openings and he has to wait until you're "in the mood?"

[–]rvail13624 points25 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

...that sir is the dichotomy of prostitution. If you get paid for sex, your SO is going to expect you to fuck when HE's in the mood, because well, that's what you do!

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Especially when his payment takes the form of the relationship - which means unlike some random John, he's technically paying continuously while in the relationship.

[–]anti-hypergamist7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The thought of having sex with someone who was doing that all day with strange men (with varying hygiene habits) is so disgusting, I wouldn't be able to do it.

[–]camusdreams35 points36 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

I honestly have nothing against Sex Workers. Do what you want to do with your life. But I’ve been following that sub for a while and it’s without a doubt one of the most toxic on my feed. Most of it is just talking shit about men, but mostly from a high-horse as if these random men should know exactly how their industry works. They want to integrate the industry into normal society but do absolutely nothing to educate the guys paying their livelihoods on how their industry is supposed to work.

Examples: Guys asking for no-condom blowjobs, guys asking for pics before paying, etc. Pretty sure one of the pinned posts is just a whole psycho-rant talking shit about the guys who feed them.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 29 points30 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

If I had any desire to elicit the services of a literal prostitute, I would rethink it after reading that subreddit for a couple days. You're right, and particularly the "Sex Workers only" sub is a festering pit. There was a post there yesterday where the guy refused to pay her before she showed up to provide services, and she was losing her shit about him being a "time waster." Of course I don't post there, but I kind of wanted to reply, "Bitch, he has no way of knowing if you're coming or not, and you think he's going to give you six hundred bucks when he doesn't even know if you're a real person? What the utter fuck is wrong with you?"

It seems to be the height of female entitlement. They don't seem to grasp that, while they have the right to be sex workers and use their bodies to earn money just as a professional athlete might, we also have the right to look down on them for it-- and for the same reasons they look down on the plumber who pumps septic tanks for a living.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know a guy who became a plumber.

He did it to pay for law school.

Then he went back to being a plumber.

Trust me, pumping out septic tanks is MUCH cleaner, safer, and even more profitable work than being an attorney.

[–]RedLetterWordSr. Hamster Analyst22 points23 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

The late-great Patrice O'Neil discusses this very subject in reference to how he came to his understanding of women. He told Opie and Anthony on their show that he was terrified of flying on planes, but found the 10-hour plane trip to Brazil worth it, because the prostitutes there were "selling what he was buying". When Anthony asked why he had to fly to get that and why that was different than in the US, Patrice went on to explain that it was because of the US prostitutes' entitlement- that they treated their johns exactly like how you are telling it here and the members of the sub are in there.

I think that particular segment was in, maybe 2006-2007.

Amazing to think that epiphany that was nearly a decade and a half ago!

[–]camusdreams24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seriously. At the end of the day, they’re still in customer service. One rant I saw not too long ago was a screenshot where a girl turned down a client literally just because he asked for a picture first. She went off about how he was looking for handouts and her time is too valuable.

Like really? Doctors and lawyers give free consultations, but you, with your daddy issues and inability to function in normal society are too good to take the 3 seconds to send him a picture that has probably already been seen by dozens of other men? Real sure way to drop your earning potential.

[–]dwc151Beta butt licker + wasabi soy sauce11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Patrice was a red pill God.

[–]422522526 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's interesting to see how his GF exploited his memory for allthat money after his death, but when you go back and hear his interviews you get the idea that he knew exactly how that power dynamic worked. He was the the stabilizing factor and without him she was basicaly a 12 yo latchkey kid with a parent's life insurance payout. Compared to Burr, who I can only assume is mining for future material via divorce.

[–]dwc151Beta butt licker + wasabi soy sauce1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wanted to go to one of the tribute shows, but I couldn't contribute to that.

[–]OracleofFl17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They want to integrate the industry into normal society

First step would be paying taxes IMHO.

[–]Sensei_Hensei25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Society: Support sex workers. Also Society: *shames men that buys sex from sex workers.

The only appropriate thing to do is hand women cash in their hands for literally nothing.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The only appropriate thing to do is hand women cash in their hands for literally nothing.

They got that too, it's called welfare.

[–]ThePrivilegedOne1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Difficulty level: recruit

[–]TheImpossible124 points25 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Why am I not surprised that they'd do this kind of thing.

Poor guys who don't know anything. Sex workers, prostitutes, whatever the fuck they call themselves - they're scum.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 26 points27 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I think prostitutes are as human as any other profession. They run some pretty serious risks of being injured or killed, and I have nothing against the profession on the surface. It's her body. She can do whatever she wants with it.

I have a serious problem with anyone who interferes with the agency of another person. The porn industry is rife with pricks who work to get the girls involved in drugs and alcohol so they are trapped in the industry and can't get out. I have a serious problem with anyone forced into sex work. Sex work should be a free and clear decision by the individual.

Another problem I have is with lying. If you're going to be a whore, be one. Don't start an LTR with a "great guy" and hide the fact that you are exposing him to life-destroying diseases and the potential heartbreak of either discovering you have been murdered by some john or finding out your duplicity when he's emotionally invested in you. If "I fuck total strangers for money!" doesn't leap out of your lips the moment he asks you "So, what do you do for a living?" on the first date, you are dating under false pretenses!

Maybe he then cuts the date short and offers you $50 to blow him in the parking lot. Maybe he's intrigued and wants to get to know you better. That is the dice you roll.

[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Plus one of things that [smart] men are going to do is evaluate the ability of a woman to comply with the terms of a long term exclusive contract like marriage. Prostitution runs counter to that, and is akin to you as a corporate CEO getting an applicant for a manager position that you need filled for years who has a history of quitting after one month at all their prior jobs and never got past entry level.

Probably not going to be a good fit for what you need.

[–]rvail1365 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree, if you CHOOSE to work as a prostitute, that's fine. BUT, I have serious problems with being forced into sex, is, if I'm not mistaken, called rape. I have serious issues with that. I

[–]prbonfanti5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you but the 'dating under false pretenses' question , would force almost everyone to go mgtow.

[–]NagyonNagy23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Many men can handle sex work, but now I truly believe they are the exception

You stupid whore. It took you this much to understand men don't want a literal prostitute?? Do I sound harsh?? Yes the post above explains exactly why I should.

[–]jihocech19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Men just have more self respect then she thought.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think men are kind of supposed to avoid women who can't pair bond, think sex is trivial, and have a bloated risk of STDs.

[–]swansong1921 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

"Men that can handle sex work are the exception"

Uh huh...cuz I'm sure every woman would jump at the chance to commit to a guy that did the same thing.

If that's what a woman wants to do, more power to her but let's not pretend that most people of either gender would be cool with it.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If that's what a woman wants to do, more power to her but let's not pretend that most people of either gender would be cool with it.

Exactly. More of the hypocrisy and hypergamy of women. She's basically cheating on this guy, but if she tells him and he dumps her ass, he's the bad guy because he couldn't handle the fact that she fucks other men for money.

"These people could save the marriage of a porn star married to a porn star." --Rick Sanchez, Rick and Morty

[–]froglelefrogle2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe that's the solution to this riddle. Women think it's fine because they are attracted to irresponsible men who don't care about them and so try to imitate their behavior

[–]swansong191 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's certainly an interesting theory. Might be some validity to it...but I tend to lean more towards the notion that they are trading on the only trait they have that's marketable to men.

Men don't care about their degrees, their job titles or their independence...or any of the other shit they try to peddle as strengths and sooner or later even the woke ones will figure that out.

Then they will have the choice to either become wives, partners and mothers, sex toys or alone.

[–]h4ppyp1LLs18 points19 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I don't know why guys can't become emotionally attached to someone who sucks dick for money... Why are they so insecure? 🤡

[–]anti-hypergamist6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Only Real Men™ wouldn't be so insecure about that prospect.

[–]_to_soon_0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s how your dad meet his boyfriend noice

[–]h4ppyp1LLs0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Eyyyyy is my boi!

[–]Jr1010101014 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The entitlement mentality of these whores is mind blowing. No respectable man is going to enter into a monogamous long term relationship with a known prostitute.

[–]Old_snowboarder14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Gosh, who'd have thought that poor decisionmaking would have consequences. I am shocked.

[–]ifuc---pipeline6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm stunned

[–]mustangfrankPeek-a-boo, Single Mother See's You12 points13 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

She must be one cheap whore. I tended bar at a Strip club for 6 weeks, while I had another full time job. One girl was going for her Masters. I cannot remember what her degree was, but the point is she danced Friday and Saturday nights, didn't fuck anyone on the side and had a nice car, nice apartment while going to school full time. She was living with her boyfriend. My guess is she was pulling in today's money, $2,000 a week, tax free. No working min wage job. She was living a good life.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I worked (very) briefly for a strip club as a security manager years ago. (Late 1990s). Adjusting for inflation, I'd say your numbers are spot on.

[–]mustangfrankPeek-a-boo, Single Mother See's You0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Where you a hammer?

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really. I was a doorbot for a while. I hated being inside. At my height everyone assumes they can fuck with me. I'd work the floor now and then but mostly just stuck to taking gate and walking the girls out.

[–]prbonfanti1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Easy come , easy go, most of them burn the money, until stop flowing.

I heard about one is trying to get pregnant from a client, but didn't worked yet.

[–]mustangfrankPeek-a-boo, Single Mother See's You5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A remember one time an old millionaire oil man came into the club (60-70'). He wanted to party and be seen with pretty girls. For those girls who would party with him, he would give them $1,000 cash. So after the club closed at 2:AM, off they went. by the next morning each of the girls had spent every dollar on nose candy, drinks and whatever. You should have seen some of the wrecks these girls drove. they made thousands and drove cars worth hundreds.

[–]CreflowDollars0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

The internet has all but destroyed the porn industry and to a lesser extent the paid whore industry in general because it made men realize that whore around the corner was a lot more common than previously thought. Now every other broad is putting up shit on PornHub, why would any man in his right mind pay for anything sex related these days? It just doesnt make sense without creating some sort of nonsense emotional attachment thus why these whores are selling shit like "girlfriend packages" where some desperate simp sends them 50 a month for some "personalized" sexts and pics

[–]mustangfrankPeek-a-boo, Single Mother See's You2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know 2 men who would do such stupid things. I worked with a man who was 5'8", 300 pounds and 55. He showed me a photo of a girl on line. He purchased her a $1,000 coat. I was speechless at how stupid he was. Another man, in his 60's thought some woman 32, on line was in love with him. He even flew her down to spend the week with him. He realized it was not true love when she showed him a photo of the new baby she had about a month ago. She asked him for money. There are stupid Beta males out there.

[–]froglelefrogle0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The internet has all but destroyed the porn industry

Say what.

[–]CreflowDollars0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ask an actual porn star (and not one of these dumb broads looking for simps) how they feel about the internet's affect on the industry, its been great for us as consumers but objectively terrible for the content producers because their shit gets pirated to hell in 3 days

[–]scrumbaggerTruck-Stop QT13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine being so delusional you dont understand why an SO would have an issue with you being a literal whore. Meanwhile the traditional, conservative woman is wifed up and living a fulfilling life. It's almost as if "sugaring" disqualifies you from this... shocking!

[–]rvail13611 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

if you get paid for sex, you're a prostitute. Very few men will date, much less marry a prostitute.

[–]drewc99Jr. Hamster Analyst9 points10 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I love how she got offended when she confided in her guy friend that she was a prostitute, and his response was "How much?"

Imagine if it were literally any other occupation. Imagine a woman getting offended and ending a friendship after telling her guy friend she builds websites, and her friend asking her "Really? How much would you charge to build me one?"

These women have an unacceptable occupation and they know that more than anyone.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

In my head, he was a mechanic and they had this conversation at least once:

Act I: La Introducion

"Hey Mike, my car has been making a weird noise. Can you come over and take a look at it? I'll make you dinner."

"Sure Sally. I get off work from my job looking at cars making weird noises at 6pm after a ten hour day of looking at cars making weird noises, but you are my friend and I'm happy to come help you. I'll be there by 6:30."

But then they had this conversation and everything went to shit (because of her):

Act II: Denouement

"Wait, Sally, you're telling me that you're a prostitute? Like, men give you money to have sex with you?"

"Yeah, Mike. I've been doing it for a couple years. You know my job doesn't pay me well enough for designer shoes and handbags and my three trips to Starbucks every day."

"Sally, you know I've been attracted to you for a long time. How much do you charge for a Boston Hampipe?"

"Mike! You know I don't think of you that way! I can't believe you'd ask me that!"

"I didn't ask for a discount. Besides... Didn't I fix your car last week?"

fin

[–]Enzo952 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

How much do you charge for a Boston Hampipe?

Hahahahaa

[–]acmemetalworks0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just stop it. If her freind told her he built web pages and she needed one built, we know she would expect it free.

[–]1Badshot8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Handle? Men "handle" a woman being a sex worker?

If I don't want a whore in my life, it's not because I can't "handle" a whore. I want an honest, decent woman who has not been a cumdumpster for any idiot with a C-note burning a hole in his Velcro wallet.

[–]Undead_Chronic7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Disgusting lying whores

[–]geyejoe77 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The very notion that some guy is "okay" with his GIRLFRIEND being a prostitute is ridiculous...

If he's okay with you camming or having sex with other men, that's a red flag.

Get a REAL job, and stop being a whore, if you want to have a normal, stable relationship. Even if you quit, you might have ruined your life, forever.

When a woman gets into sex work, she accepted a devils deal. Money, in exchange for a normal lifestyle.

If a partner is hiding such a big thing from you, and you find out, leave them immediately. Sex work EXCLUDES the possibility of having a normal and healthy relationship. Period.

Any sane, normal dude, will not "take it on the chin", and move on from your past or present.

If you're in a mutual poly relationship (which isn't my thing), then that's up to the two of you to decide.

[–]notpcperson4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Whore wants to be a house wife, I feel sorry for the guy. They should let guy know out right. That his gf rents herself out. Imagine he sees other girls, while she does this. She'll lose her mind. You're having sex with other girls!!!

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Nah, baby. It's okay. They pay me."

Somehow I don't think it would be as acceptable if it were reversed.

[–]Captainbuttman5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know many men can handle sex work, but I now truly believe they are the exception to the rule.

Men that can handle being in a relationship with a sex worker are the exception to the rule

Pay very close attention to the soft language used here. Look at where the responsibility is directed. "Men that can handle." Sex work isn't the problem, its men's reaction to it, and few of them are 'mature' enough to deal with it in a way that satisfies these women.

However in reality men, as a class, don't want to date sex workers. This is a tale as old as time. Not one of those women say, "My sex work is absolutely a deal breaker for pretty much all men because I disregard the expectation of sexual exclusivity by fucking other men for money," instead they say, "few men can handle it." Surprise surprise, women hate responsibility, thats why they give it to us.

[–]oxyoxyboi5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women who take sex work willingly do it for really easy money on their back. No thinking involved just have nice photoshopped profile to lure Johns. Once they are accustomed to the easy money and lifestyle, they make multiple times more than an average worker. I know cases where they can make mid to high 6 digits on average a year. Don’t tell me they risk diseases or abusive Johns. There is risk and reward in everything activities. So the question is can she really walk away from the high roller life, luxury shopping and great life to work at a regular job where she has to have actual skills? Can she also get used then to a regular vanilla life with a typical family man? Very unlikely.

[–]SalesAficionado4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

We need some kind of "hoefax".

[–]anti-hypergamist1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"Don't you wanna pay top dollar for this used car?" "Sorry, I need to see the Whorefax first"

[–]ThePrivilegedOne0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao

[–]kyledontcareChristian Comeback Kid2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well. . .now we see why sex is considered precious and holy and that it is meant to be an expression of love to someone special to you. And when you see sex used to just make a living and pay for tuition and people get angry 😡 about it like in the above story what you are really seeing is people standing up for themselves and saying, "Hey, you're not going to treat me like garbage."

[–]Cade_Connelly_132 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing new under the sun. Wanna get treated like a Disney princess while acting like a Disney villain.

Or WORSE.

[–]E-roticWarrior2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"My Job" LMFAO

[–]justhereforfunandlol2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She knows her degree is too worthless to pay itself back and literally sells her body to pay for it.

That piece of paper is more important to her than ever having a genuine relationship with another human being.

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

More likely she doesn't think it will be an issue because she has never thought that far ahead. Women aren't exactly known for risk/gain analysis, and prostitutes aren't what you'd call great at long term prognosis or understanding cause/affect relationships.

[–]Thetrvler2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is unbelievable. Must be true coming from a woman.

[–]WeAreLostSoAreYou2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

🤣🤣🤣 that was a wild read. It’s the equivalent of “my boyfriend and I want to get a puppy. should I tell him that I used to abuse puppies?”

If you have sex for money, it’s germane to a future relationship because sex will obviously be a part of that.

[–]joedude1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy fuck is this not a crime? Swear to god in canada you can sue your partner for this.

Men that can handle the constant threat of sexually transmitted diseases probably ARE rare, jfc man.

[–]Yuuzhan831 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would be curious finding out someone I've been fucking was a prostitute. Gross for one, second, get tested fast. She was very manipulative and didn't even tell him till she had him hooked. Wtf?

[–]Heracles_Isidori1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"The word and works of God is quite clear, that women were made either to be wives or prostitutes" -Martin Luther

You can't make a prostitute a wife but you can make a wife a prostitute. There should be life long consequences for choosing to be a prostitute, they should also be honest about it to their soon to be spouse and if she lies about it, the man has every right to leave with all his property and wealth intact.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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