Where are all the grown men? I'm sick of dating mAn cHiLdReN 😹

Overkillengine · 2021-12-26T13:14:40+00:00

Sounds a lot like she chose to open her legs for those men instead of someone more mature/responsible.

The problem for her is men have noticed that a woman's tastes in men never actually change, just her circumstances do. So once we figure out that a particular woman is prone to bone skittles men, then we have no reason to be anything other than a skittles man for her ever again. Any other approach risks overinvesture in a social contract she will not be participating in good faith in.

TLDR version: The kind of man she complains about getting in relationships with is the kind of man she'll cheat on you with. Don't save these women.

Celticpenguin85 · 2021-12-26T13:31:31+00:00

I like the part where she complains about having to do things for a guy she's not even dating to "show him what a good girlfriend she'd be".

Welcome to being a guy.

inasari100 · 2021-12-26T14:18:33+00:00

I think it's important to notice that in the article she complains about having to take care of a man if he's sick and feeling bad for just a week. Just think about that, the modern woman doesn't even want to have to take care of you when you're not feeling well.

Guys do what you want and stay safe, but the decision to walk away gets easier and easier each day.

koncernz · 2021-12-26T13:26:00+00:00

and then it hit me… I wasn’t dating the masculine, brooding guy I originally thought

HaHa

taavidude · 2021-12-26T14:45:11+00:00

"refusing to take responsibility for almost everything"

Funny, because I see all these delusional women suffering from that. Doesn't matter what it is, they always end up blaming men for everything.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-12-26T15:08:48+00:00

"If your 11-year-old nephew is displaying more gentlemanly qualities than the guy you’re meant to be dating, then it’s time to cut the cord, move on, and find someone on the same maturity level as you."

I feel bad for that kid. He's obviously being raised to treat women with respect and to be a good person, the exact opposite of the kind of guy women actually want. Hopefully, his aunt red pills him before he gets ripped apart by some ungrateful woman.

B1G_Fan · 2021-12-26T16:13:09+00:00

Where are all the grown men??

For the most part, they don’t exist

One of the most fundamental rules of economics:

Incentives matter

If 13-27 year old females make it CRYSTAL CLEAR that marriage is not the fastest way into a female’s pants, 13-27 year old males will respond by not developing themselves into husband, father, and provider material

Now, the 28+ year old females look at their lack of options not understanding that they brought this on themselves

SolidStateDynamite · 2021-12-26T15:02:10+00:00

Look at what happens to men and their capacity to actually adult when they develop man flu.

I don't take anyone who still uses "adult" as a verb seriously. Anyway, I guessed after the first few sentences that this girl one of those fixer types. Sure enough:

I know I enabled my ex-boyfriend’s bad behavior by seeing him as a personal project I could eventually ‘fix’.

I've met a few just like her before. Spent too much time and money at college getting a master's degree for a job that pays $40k/year, always "on" in the sense that they can't just turn off their brains and interact like a human being, everyone and everything is a project, etc. They're good for keeping your brain sharp. But so is sudoku, and sudoku won't complain into the aether about how it chose to drive around for an hour looking for Mexican food and then blame you for it.

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2021-12-26T15:07:00+00:00

Sorry lads, didn't make it too far into this one. I just don't have the time, desire, or wherewithal to weather yet another diatribe that explicitly lays out all the reasons that it's some guys fault that she didn't learn to keep her clam to herself.

Pour one out for anyone who made it to the end of that self indulgent thesis paper on all the ways she should have made better choices, but I'm not going down that rabbit hole any further.

NBA_MSG · 2021-12-26T17:34:31+00:00

Where are all the grown women? I'm sick of dating woman children who look at me as a bailout, a wallet, an opportunity, and a human eraser for all the past mistakes they made.

Boar_excrement · 2021-12-26T15:25:29+00:00

Oh my....this 'manbaby' sounds like a serious disorder. I think, in the interest of public safety and health, we should compile a list of risk factors for your average dude to be turned into a 'manbaby' by a supposed girlfriend.

The most commonly reported risk factors include the following:

Over six feet tall
Chronically unemployed
Six pack abs
Prison record
Rockbanddrummer
Multiple baby mamas

Fortunately, there is an effective treatment for those at risk of being a 'manbaby':
Be nice and respectful to women. In fact you won't be noticed at all. Well, until it is time to help move her in with her new manbaby.

I find it funny that the only introspection this trollop wrote was how she was being used for food. Funny, I thought women wanted equality.

Oh, wait. True equality is a tool of the.....oh dammit, what is the word?

PirateDocBrown · 2021-12-26T15:59:05+00:00

She throws out a phrase I get a lot:

"Where is this relationship going?" What if it's already where I want it to be? Maybe I have arrived where I want, and dont want it to go anywhere. Why has she hidden her planned destination until now?

This happens much too much.

LVL50JustThisGuy · 2021-12-26T13:42:05+00:00

People like this make me want to tie-on a beach-towel cape and jump off the roof. XD

If your career is writing about these sorts of things, the reinforcement will have you repeating these mistakes for a paycheck.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-12-26T17:06:14+00:00

man-flu

I cannot take anyone seriously who uses that phrase. Influenza is no joke, and kills more people than covid. If the flu knocks him on his ass, then the dude's fucking sick. Don't be such a bitch.

Man children have been running for the hills whenever any form of commitment has been mentioned since the first woman uttered “I need to know where this is going”.

Did it never occur to you that not wanting to commit to you isn't a sign that the man is immature, but rather a sign that you're unworthy of commitment? That he has assessed you as too great a risk?

Most men aren't scared of commitment at all, but rather rightfully concerned about committing to the wrong woman and losing everything they worked for.

And unfortunately for us alpha female types

No such thing. You're pretty much a dude with a vagina, or a biological woman who chooses to act more like a man. That's not attractive for anything long-term.

If there’s one thing that strengthens the spread of the man-child, it’s a woman who enables it.

Hey, you actually got something right! It only took several paragraphs of rambling nonsense, but hey, small victories.

ArrowGantOne · 2021-12-26T18:00:22+00:00

The author is Aussie as far as I can tell. She is attractive and has done some modeling in the past. https://www.modelmayhem.com/misspeta If she listed her real age on the MM site she is 33 years old.

First let's address her man-flu comment. Influenza is one of those things that the larger you are, the more you will suffer. Being taller with much more muscle mass to ache means men will suffer much more when they get something like the flu. Women think men act like babies when we are sick, and many do. But any chick bitching about helping their SO when sick is a giant red flag. Don't get cancer, don't have surgery you'll need time to recover from; because she's the type that will not stick around.

Everyone has heard the expression, "beggars can't be choosers". At no point in her life has she ever had to be a beggar because of her looks. But as we wall watchers know, it's coming. It will be very interesting to monitor her articles and their "tone" over the coming years. As her looks rapidly fade it will be interesting to see if she doubles down on her bitching about and blame of men. Her audience is aging as well and already dealing with wall issues. Give it a year or two and 90% will be begging for a man child to give them a child.

The pussy power women hold fades with each year. Their mom's experienced a world where men were still chivalrous and polite regardless of their genitals. They killed all that and will end up alone with nobody treating them as "special". Being a 50 year old women who opens her own doors, moves her own things, carries bags and pays for someone to do simple things she can't will open quite a few eyes. But it will be FAR too late. Some introspection would do a lot of women a lot of good. But they are too busy bitching and buying into propaganda like this article.

Five_Decades · 2021-12-26T22:15:02+00:00

this quote was dead on

Did it never occur to you that not wanting to commit to you isn't a sign that the man is immature, but rather a sign that you're unworthy of commitment? That he has assessed you as too great a risk?

Most men aren't scared of commitment at all, but rather rightfully concerned about committing to the wrong woman and losing everything they worked for

committing to the wrong person is extremely dangerous if you're a man.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2021-12-26T17:37:59+00:00

Woe is her. She had to buy a taco for him and they weren't even dating! Geez, welcome to the world of men. In WW1, men were pressured to enlist to impress women that they weren't dating or marrying.

She ended up doing it. And continued to do it. Because she thought he was hot. She made the decision to play along. That is on her.

CarpAndTunnel · 2021-12-26T18:08:32+00:00

Women seriously write multi page articles complaining about their boyfriends.

> And unfortunately for us alpha female types

ahahaha, what a tool

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2021-12-27T05:00:18+00:00

You rewarded bad boys, childish with good looks in your 18-24.

Now you're 25+, probably 29+, and want a HVM?

HVM due to social media know all of this. No mercy, no sympacy, no bailout.

You made your bed, lay in it until the day you die. Enjoy being pumped lifestyle. It's all of your one doing.

Chgralac73 · 2021-12-26T14:15:14+00:00

so the author still looks somehow okay. that being said her nose is already touching the wall so it really wont take long for the nature to take its way :P

Braucifarian · 2021-12-27T02:54:00+00:00

They tell on themselves for those able to read between the lines:

I don’t even think we’d had our third date

someone who took zero personal responsibility for their life

Gradually, I’d become his mother, not his lover

These include, but are not limited to, being selfish in bed, having the same amount of career aspiration as a peanut

She phrases the article within the context of writing it to her younger self, but her younger self would laugh at these articles. The tingles conquer all. Of course she thought she could "fix" Chad. Naive women indeed do love a project like trying to tame a bad boy.

There are no younger women reading this article and taking it to heart. Instead they do what she does: deflect any accountability for their own decisions and blame the other sex when it doesn't work out.

This woman only laid down her ultimatum regarding behavior when her biological clock started ticking down and she needed a Beta provider for a husband. If she could have children through her whole life she'd still be chasing Chads.

I-am-the-lul · 2021-12-27T08:00:04+00:00

Where are all the grown men?

They were an option back in your early 20s, unfortunately you ignored them in favour of the hot exciting MaN baBIeS, but now you are ready for a "real man", they have either found someone already, dropped out of the dating pool (MGTOW) or they learnt how to emulate the mAN bAby characteristics thus becoming more sexually successful with women (TRP).

LetTheRainsFall · 2021-12-26T19:13:44+00:00

Yeah, simple way to not have something to complain about.... just say no. Put on your big girl knickers and say, no.

Why can they never take responsibility for their own actions? If the guy is acting like a child it is because you are enabling it. Say no at the beginning and you won't end up playing mother to him. Sure, he is a prick to treat you like that, but at the end of the day, he treats you like that because you let him.

Just say no and if he won't act like an adult, move on.

MouseMiIk · 2021-12-26T22:38:18+00:00

Wait... what?

She dated ONE (1) immature 20-something manchild with and no mention of other men/dates in her life, and this is enough for her to through the blanket statement that all men are childish?

What the hell is wrong with her? She's got issues and they're all her own.

I wonder if she'll ever contemplate admitting that she's responsible for choosing a deadbeat. It's 100% her choice.

Overlordofwhatever · 2021-12-27T04:18:20+00:00

This bitch, so you were someone’s bitch and now you’re mad because you didn’t figure it out because he gave you the butterflies. The entire article is just insulting with no actual point. She’s just using it to vent because unlike normal people she probably doesn’t have any friends. And she talks about being a mother to her ex but I can guarantee that she knows nothing about being a mother let alone a girlfriend. If a man makes something like this public he would forever be shamed especially with her language using word like all men. And to show that she’s an actual bitch she actually mentions how men act when they are sick with flu, not in general, not when they have power, but when they are sick. I just want to know what kind of person does that (my comments are also insulting only which is intentional )

bunkbedflower · 2021-12-26T14:56:04+00:00

The police station is calling

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-12-26T15:42:39+00:00

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Arnold_Incelinator · 2021-12-26T21:56:56+00:00

im not reading all that, its words words words, talk less wahmen

gfgdhj5784yu8 · 2021-12-27T01:58:45+00:00

Everything is either her way ........ or you are a man-child. No possibility that she is just another wannabe controlling bitch. lol

knucklz74 · 2021-12-26T18:25:45+00:00

Their married.

Braucifarian · 2021-12-27T00:22:36+00:00

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Where are all the grown men? I'm sick of dating mAn cHiLdReN 😹

Doing nice things for a man is misogyny!!!

Being a guy is a tool of the patriarchy!!!

Title	Where are all the grown men? I'm sick of dating mAn cHiLdReN 😹
Author	loneliness-inc
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Date	December 26, 2021 12:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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