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Wife and Mother of 2 Seeks to "Find Herself", by "Opening Up the Relationship".

June 23, 2018
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Title Wife and Mother of 2 Seeks to "Find Herself", by "Opening Up the Relationship".
Author NotLuceBree
Upvotes 215
Comments 115
Date June 23, 2018 5:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”168 points169 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

If he's her "number one" then she doesn't need a number two.

I explained this to my (ex) wife in this manner: "Go ahead. I won't be here when you return."

This man is a fool to tolerate this. He's literally paying the bills for her whoring.

[–]afkb39sdfbHas an eye for Cherry Pie34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They just want to fuck other men without the guilt of cheating.

I was the side man in an open marriage (w/ two kids 4 & 8) about 4 years ago. She convinced her husband to agree to it. Had fun with her for 3-4 months. She started going to swinger clubs with her girlfriends all the while hubby was having no fun himself. They ended up divorcing a year or so later.

Open relationships are great if you're the side guy, not the main guy.

She was bangin hot too. Met her at the bar on a "girls night".

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

"Wife, you can do anything you want. I cannot stop you from doing anything you want to do.

"I can, however, control what I do. We're over. It's over. Get your shit and get out. You can do that if you want. You just don't get to be my wife while doing so. My wife does not fuck other men."

[–]Stahlboden5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He's either gonna pay child support and alimony next 15 years or suck it up and it's all because his wife decided to whore out. Isn't marriage just a wonderful thing?

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Alimony, probably not. Child support? Well, if he negotiates hard he could get 50/50 residential if they live in the same school district. By negotiating hard, I mean he tells his wife in no uncertain terms he will drag her name through the mud, tell everyone she intended to open up the relationship, tell everyone she's probably an adulteress, she's essentially abandoned her marriage, that you are divorcing for her "fault" (adultery, abandonment), and that you will drag her through the nastiest, costliest, and most contentious divorce he possibly can.

[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

If he's her "number one" then she doesn't need a number two.

Reminds me of an add that says - we're number one in the number two business.

[–]Stythe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Roto rooter?

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey79 points80 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

but is still very much adamant that I can't satiate all of her sexual desires, simply because I am her husband and I'm safe. She wants danger and excitement.

There you have it. Protect and provide for your loving wife dries up her pussy. She wants edge, excitement, more than a safe dick. It is just simply not good enough that this man does everything she wants. She needs MOAR!

To be fair, so far through this process she has been very gentle with me, trying to support me, and we have had some wonderful sex due to her excitement.

The thought of cucking her husband and having him go along with this, is enough to spur up the bedroom. Just the mere thought of having side dick while her husband is back at home taking care of the family and all her needs. As soon as he accepts this and finds his "own side tail", his bedroom with her will be more dead than the Corpse of Chivalry. And her excuse for stoping the sex train with her husband? "You have sex with other partners too, so don't act like I'm the only one doing this and agreeing to it." While you had that fling that one time, and she is the middle car in a train on thursdays, and getting double stuffed on saturdays.

It must be the way the guy is asking for sympathy in his question and reservations, because the comments are surprisingly apologetic for his cause and not trying to convince him to "go for it, she's still loyal to you" or some other lie women make up to ensure husbands accept cuckery across the board.

[–]sleepyweaselisawakeNeighbor of the Beast63 points64 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

And, the moment he starts banging hotter, younger women who are much more adventurous and limber than she is.. the relationship is going to slam shut.

[–]motorscuz40 points41 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

She will be disappointed when he brings home younger and hotter females than her. She will get lots of thirsty guys online, but thwy will be bottom of the barrel guys who will bang a 38 year old

[–]LotBuilder59 points60 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Fast forward post divorce:

My ex hubby just didn’t get me. I gave him everything and even offered to let him see other women but the connection was lost. Then he became very mean and abusive (aka stopped handing her money hand over fist).

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey35 points36 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I knew an old divorcee who claimed her husband "financially abused" her. I asked a lawyer if she had ever heard of that and her exact words were, "What does that even mean?"

[–]LotBuilder27 points28 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I believe my wife made the claim of emotional abuse when I took her off my AMEX. I did so because she spent $5500 the month before on Amazon changing out or dinnerware and flatware twice and new bedding... all because the seasons changed from fall to winter.

[–]RecallRethuglicans10 points11 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

That is financial abuse. Who are you to control her like that?

[–]LotBuilder6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes, according to her I was using financial manipulation. She is starting her first job in 10 years after the 4th of July, I can’t wait to see it.

[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

She will quit in 2 months due to "everyone being mean to her".

[–]LotBuilder1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She will want to but I’ll force the sale of house if she does. That’s her hot button so she will cry every morning but suck it up.

[–]frikabgJr. Hamster Analyst2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I knew an old divorcee who claimed her husband "financially abused" her.

That is an actual crime in the UK right now and is punishable by imprisonment ... just saying.

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It can include using credit cards without permission, putting contractual obligations in their partner’s name, and gambling with family assets.

Except she was just not allowed to spend more than 50$ per week. That was her 'abuse'.

Most of this is 'identity theft'.

[–]xxcups4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't forget, ”Not here for hookups, must be tall"

[–][deleted] 48 points49 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

And people are still trying to sell men the lie of marriage lol chivalry is dead, marriage is dead. And I used to be so nice.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

metoo

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

#metoo

[–]TomahawkSuppositorySurvived the hoe hunger games4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The blue pills are slowly waking up to this reality.

[–]BluepillProfessorMRP Mod46 points47 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Notice the language and what she is doing to him emotionally. He is a wreck so I am sure it is "fair" for her to fuck hordes of men while he chews his fingernails, can't eat, and feels completely alone. Just the perfect combination for attracting girls!!!

Not that the wife planned it that way or anything. It just happened.

[–][deleted] 43 points44 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

My ex of seven years wanted this and we were supposed to married soon but I left. It was painful as hell but I did it.

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good for you! Sunny days ahead in your future.

we were supposed to married soon but I left.

Just think if she was smart enough to wait until after you married her. It makes me sick even thinking that was a possibility for you.

[–]lulz3r9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s the only real option at that point, at least you didn’t marry her.

[–]JJ3314Sr. Hamster Analyst8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm happy to hear you stood up for yourself. To hell with her.

[–]TomahawkSuppositorySurvived the hoe hunger games6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good, and since you were not married there was no drawn out divorce. I always tell guys that there is nothing wrong with telling a woman no. What is she going to do? Deny you sex? Rub one out and go to sleep. Never give a woman so much control of your person that she can manipulate and coerce you with sex.

[–]houseoftolstoyHeavy Marauder of Truth Bombs6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It would have been far more painful to go through a divorce, so it was for the best.

[–][deleted] 36 points37 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

She's gonna be living the perfect empowered female life, she gets to have a worker bee making money for her, and a free babysitter to look after the kids while she gets all the cock and cum she can handle.

[–]no_its_a_subaru25 points26 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Hopping back on the cc at 39? The older I get the more I realize women are just flat out stupid.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Even at that age women can, and do ride the carousel. If theyre somewhat attractive they'll get attention from younger guys who just want to use them for sex. Being used for sex is what being an empowered female is all about.

[–]4L4SK4N6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Serious question. How exactly do women feel empowered by letting someone use their body for sex? Is it because she has a choice in the matter? Doesn't make sense to me.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's probably because forcing their husbands into slavery and cuckoldry makes women feel like they're in control. They actually do want to be treated as sex objects and this scenario allows them to do that with dignity.

[–]xxcups3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe because they are breaking the rules and doing what men want to do i.e. Unattached sex.

Just like how men want a 10, Women have a strong sex drive too (for Chad). But for some reason they hide it and pretend to be wholesome.

[–]AWALT_Whitman3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Serious question. How exactly do women feel empowered by letting someone use their body for sex? Is it because she has a choice in the matter? Doesn't make sense to me.

Imagine you are an average looking, non-obese 21 year old woman. You will have tons of orbiters and random guys kissing your ass. Being desired like that would be extremely empowering.

[–]PhilhelmSmashing the patriarchy one single mother at a time1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They don't even have to be attractive.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s sick how these women make it seem so benign almost lovely with phrases with “opening up our marriage” and “play with others”.

😡

[–]BachelorIncSr. Hamster Analyst10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

AND -

We're very secure

Non judgmental

Open

Exploring

Want one another to be happy

Crock of shit.

[–]OldFashionMarineGunnery Sergeant Hoeman28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If she wants to find something introduce her to the front door......! Get out cunt, see ya. Also give her the address to the nearest free clinic.

[–]SoulLess-1Jr. Hamster Analyst28 points29 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Am I making a huge mistake

Y E S

She is trying to discover herself

Why is it, that so many women seem to need dicks to discover themselves?

because surely stopping this now will breed resentment

Given this post I would assume continuing would too. The difference is for whom it brings resentment.

[–]BachelorIncSr. Hamster Analyst18 points19 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why is it, that so many women seem to need dicks to discover themselves?

Revolting, isn't it? Sorry sweetie, sport-fucking isn't some spiritual experience. I'm sure that - hot, smelly, strange cum dripping down your lips and neck was a grand revelation of divine degree. They speak of stuffing their orifices with random man-meat as though they made a trip to mecca...Oh, and that spit-roast between Pablo and Felipe? Was a personal Taj Mahal. God, taking all of Tyrone's 11 inches was a proud moment. Such a moment of self-discovery. It was like climbing Mount Everest. " I've made a lot of mistakes and had more than my share of experiences, but you know what? NO REGRETS! It's made me who I am today - a toxic, filthy, superficial woman whose incapable of forming any deep and meaningful bonds; but, it's EMPOWERING !"

Sex, outside of a real and meaningful relationship, is pretty fucking base. Cockroaches do it. Making it out to be some spiritual experience of self-discovery is just utter bull shit. But, you know what? I bet most women actually believe that shit.

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Burnt to a crisp!

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

The difference is for whom it brings resentment.

Better the woman than the man, right? Because, "happy wife means happy ..." ughh. I can't even finish that cliche.

[–]PhilhelmSmashing the patriarchy one single mother at a time2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Happy wife means crappy life.

[–]ace_kantrillo25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

We all know how this plays out. If he got as much pussy as she got dick, she'd NEVER allow this - she would completely flip her shit.

The modern female is literally unpleasable in every way. You give them the world, and they'll burn it down and demand that you give them more.

[–]BachelorIncSr. Hamster Analyst14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The modern female is literally unpleasable in every way. You give them the world, and they'll burn it down and demand that you give them more.

And yet they still think guys going MGTOW are just neck beard, basement dwelling incels. Because they can't possibly fathom why any man would not want a piece of those golden meat flaps.

[–]KingRobotPrinceSluts Forbidden Fruit3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What about some sort of compromise?

Since it's way easier for her to find men to bang, and there's not even any guarantee that he will find anyone, let alone someone hot. Why not have the rule that the woman can bang as many men as the guy can bang hookers in Thailand?

That way they both get to discover their sexuality and enjoy sex with someone attractive.

[–]CommanderHeMan17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, I will open up the relationship so wide that I won’t even come back into it.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

Omg he has the perfect out, record himself telling her no he does not approve, then record evidence of her cheating, easy divorce. But no hes in love, how pathetic

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

He is not the pathetic one she is, he’s a decent human being she’s a selfish jerk

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Look up the definition of pathetic and tell me hes not pathetic

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey12 points13 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

That word brings a more negative connotation with it aside from the fact that it is a sign of weakness. Most people hear it and think, "someone stupid, unreasonable, severely lacking".

Also, and I'm not disagreeing with your assessment, but the man is blue pilled as fuck, as most men are, so it's hard to really oust him as a loser when it could have happened to any of us.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Thats on you not me, i never called him a loser i called him pathetic so why the downvote? Bad karma bad

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey7 points8 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Well, what I am saying is, that word brings more than the definition with it when used in this context.

When talking about a man, it means weakness because he needs sympathy to carry out his agenda.

Your words, "But no hes in love, how pathetic". He has not made the decision to stay or leave, that is an assumption on your part that he will continue being a cuck because he is weak. You may not have stated it, but your intention was that he is a loser. That isn't on me for anything, it was what your comment exuded. That is what I, and someone else apparently, gathered.

Like I said before, "I'm not disagreeing with your assessment", that [it is pathetic] to ask for advice on a cuckolded marriage. But, and I'm just going to be clear here and leave it at that, is many men are blue-pilled to no fault of their own into believing their marriage has hope when this happens. With that, we have hope that he will come around, because it could have happened to any of us in this deceptive society.

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

You sound like you dont know the definition of pathetic as youre literally projecting dude, it is pathetic as i feel pity and sadness for this man who is not yet red pilled. I never called him a loser as we have all been there, in fact sometimes i feel youre more of a loser for being red pilled as it means you let a woman break you so bad you ran to the internet for answers on their nature instead of just giving no fucks.

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

sometimes i feel youre more of a loser for being red pilled as it means you let a woman break you so bad you ran to the internet for answers on their nature instead of just giving no fucks.

Nice edit. I see no distinction with the topic at hand, but I'll address it nonetheless.

The assumption is that, "I am a loser" predicated on the alleged fact that, "A woman was able to break me". The negative connotation being that, "I am weak minded enough to being manipulated by an inferior being".

So, you have stated an opinion based on your opinion that women are inferior, mentally with regards to social interaction to men, and also that I must have been manipulated so harshly by them, that I could not contemplate or bring about my own standing as a man.

None of that is true, so your original premise is also poorly stated or completely wrong and fabricated by your own bias.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

when I said “you’re” I wasn’t speaking of you in particular so you can calm down. I was actually referring to myself. I feel like you just want a debate

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, the idea is that women are actually superior to men with regards to social interaction. Given that man is biologically prone to giving himself freely to a woman, it actually means that any man, I or otherwise, would have a hard time disconnecting our emotions from that woman. So, to be a loser in the regards, you would have to be at a disadvantage not common among the population. But, it is actually common to be manipulated by women, so your opinion is bunk.

I feel like you just want a debate

I want clarity and truth.

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

You previously said:

and tell me hes not pathetic

When you should originally have said:

it is pathetic as i feel pity and sadness for this man who is not yet red pilled.

So thank you for clarifying.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

It means the same thing, if it doesnt then feel free to give me an english lesson

[–]where_muh_good_mensSheriff Goodmonkey2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Well, one way is attributed to the person in question, the other is a stated personal emotion.

If one is pathetic, as the way you used it, where, "but no hes in love", the subject is "he" where the adjective is "pathetic". Then you completed the loop of your intention when you said "and tell me hes not pathetic" meaning, "he is pathetic" or "he is eliciting sympathy", a sign of weakness because he cannot continue or make decisions without someone else "feeling a certain way for him". He is dependent on other people for understanding his emotions.

In the other way where, "it is pathetic as i feel pity and sadness for this man who is not yet red pilled", the post is pathetic, in that you have been aroused by the feeling of sympathy for him. He is no longer attributed, but the situation brings about a feeling in you.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Here ill do it for you

arousing pity, especially through vulnerability or sadness.

[–]EmuNemo14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

This man is the best thing that could've fucking happened to her

[–]empatheticapathetic6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

By our standards of success yeah

[–]Angelic2TheCore14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

he is the total definition of a cuck. not a cuckold fetishist. a fucking cuck. she told him shes doing it. and he knows she will eventually do it even if he begs her not to. and all he can do is blame himself. he already gave up a job, a location, and a hobby he is passionate about for her. i'd file for divorce and go back to surfing.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

easy to say when you don't two kids in the picture.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude. Leave her, NOW. If this is tearing you to pieces just thinking about it, it is going to burn you alive when it actually happens. You sound like a caring and loving husband and you deserve better. Just because she's scratching her seven year itch doesn't mean you have to be a party to it, put up with it or let it consume you. Let her slut around--later she is going to regret tearing her family apart. She might sugarcoat it on the outside to family and friends. She might act like it was no big deal. Let her be the one to be consumed with bad feelings later--she deserves to carry them, not you.

[–]MadeInBeirut1311 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I feel like people who cannot control their sexual urges (especialy when it can tear apart a family you swore to keep) its the same as a pedophile or rapist. I see people like this the same way I see criminals. With no control over ones self.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree to a large extent.

[–]trevmon210 points11 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

i think what happened here is what usually happens, a guy says yeah let's have an open marriage, he tries hitting on women out there and gets no success, while his wife gets tons of dudes easily. Then it dawns on him what happened.

[–]dustman833 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's true. As we all know, women that are as low as 4s can go to any bar and find a suitor by 12 am after only 3 or 4 cocktails. As a man, you better be in damn good shape and have awesome game, and above average looks if you're gonna pick up a moderately attractive women in this scenario. Add in logistics and cock blockers, the odds come pretty stacked.

If she says you can have a side piece, ask her to set you up with one of your choice then.

[–]trevmon22 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

and a man who is already in a relationship and has a wife will start to think his market value is pretty good. I mean one woman wants him at least, can't be so bad right? Well not really if she is looking to get boned by other dudes, the husband must not actually be very chadly and is unlikely to get any success with a woman at the bar or on tinder.

[–]houseoftolstoyHeavy Marauder of Truth Bombs10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

When you get to the point where you are asking for advice about this sort of thing, it's already too late.

[–]the_unseen_oneSr. Hamster Analyst7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, that relationship is dead. It dies the moment she wants to get filled by other men, but still be financially and emotionally supported by you and have a good father for the kids.

[–]MustacheCel7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Pretty sure she's already fucking her "suitor". She's just going to chip away at her husband until he gives her his blessing. Whatever happens after that she will be able to portray herself as blameless because "he said he was okay with it". In fact, when the eventual divorce happens this dude will be considered the asshole. Women never accept responsibility.

[–]Redsqa8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Here's the master plan. If he has money... Get a hot sugarbaby or even an escort that is in on it. They have to be younger than the wife, and much hotter. Flaunt them to the wife. Pretend everything is going good and you're having the time of your life and having crazy sex. I can guara fucking tee the wife is going to come and beg him to stop this open relationship and go back to the way things were.

Not that it would be in this guy's interest though. He's obviously married to a hypergamic whore, there's no saving her. Even if he stopped her, does he really want to be with a partner who was prepared to do that?

[–]pepehimself2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

another commenter pointed out that this guy is probably physically and emotionally unable to find anyone else who isn't crackwhore tier. Just by the way he approaches the topic, hes probably lucky to have found a woman above a three. Best case scenario for this guy he humiliates her with your strat and that keeps her in line long enough for her to become invisible to chads.

[–]I-am-the-lulAll Ass No Stick5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Finding herself = Wanting to find a better monkey branch.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It didn’t happen initially but I did move out and fell for her stupid game of “ it’s not a break up it’s a break will be back together after I work this out”. Me and my blue pill mindset at the time believed this. I basically waited a year for her to do what she said and on the anniversary of the day then I found out she was pushing into an open relationship I told her I can’t do this anymore.

In hindsight I could’ve save myself a lot of heartache and loss of sleep and mental anguish by just walking away and moving forward. I’m not believing the whole bottom of it being a”break”.

That’s stupid concert came from the TV show Friends. Life is not a fucking sitcom.

Never be afraid of walking away from a woman.

[–]AllahHatesFags3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I forgot to mention, and it may be important. She recently came off her birth control, and I'm unsure if a surge of hormones might be at play here.

She is openly demanding her husband be a cuck! I think she already had the bull picked out before she brought this to him. He should kick the bitch to the gutter where she belongs.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok fine, in this case it does not deserve the pejorative intention on him that’s given usually.

[–]kissxokissxokill3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

As a 31 year old woman, mother of a almost 5 year old, in a long term relationship; I can't imagine fucking anyone but my fiancée. Even in our worst arguments, I don't want anyone else, and he's said the same to me.

No thank you to that kind of strangeeeeeeee d.

I can't even believe there are women out there that think this shit is even remotely okay. FFS.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You can blame Cosmopolitan magazine and all the other leftist media garbage pushing this on women. It’s almost like sucking a dick from a guy behind your husband back or in an open marriage is the current equivalent of a Virginia slims cigarette. “You’ve come come a long way baby” has a new meaning now. Essentially cuckolding your husband is some sort of female empowerment backed up by third wave feminism

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You guys reminded me of something. That story I told you about the ex that I was with for seven years wanting an open relationship. Well the guy that she had contacted that she wanted to screw and she did said that him and his wife were in a cycle of revenge sex in there open marriage because apparently he cheated on his wife then she cheated on him to get revenge on that incident and so he felt like it was his position to fuck someone in their bed while she was gone and tell her and essentially they got to the unhealthy fucked up revenge obsessed marriage. This is where it leads if they stay together. An unhappy miserable existence.

[–]PerfectNemesis2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The husband is posting regularly on r/cuckhold by now. He finally overcame his jealousy demons and realizes his wife having sex with other men is only physical and at the end of the day she's still with him. /s

[–]cycloneousJudge Hoe Cheese2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh boy! Honestly, like /u/Sirkolbath said, you can do what you want, but don't expect myself AND the kids to be here when you get back from whoring around.

Basically in a nutshell, what she is saying is that she has lost all respect for her husband. She is rationalizing it by virtue signaling that he is still number one in her life but if that is the case, why does she need to chase number two. This guy needs to grow a pair and lay down the law and tell her outright, either be my wife, or leave and you can whore around all you want!

I've said it many times, her wanting to do this is because of that modern day feminism that says, you can have sex with other men other then your husband and it is okay! If a man doesn't approve of this kind of whoring around it is because he is not understanding and doesn't appreciate his wife.

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The thing was she did this after weight loss surgery, buying a brand new house, and getting a big promotion at work. She finally had the tools to let her inner feminist narcissist out.

She was 5’3” 420 lbs. When she got down to 275 all this started.

She married a moron who has no idea about this because her family and friends covered for her and didn’t warn him. She married a girl who cleans her 3,000 square foot town house, cooks dinner, puts up the Christmas lights, cuts her grass, and this is the craziest..... “he gets me real well, and will bring me a cup of coffee without asking”.

The guys a broke as shit assistant land surveyor who lived on a friends cot in their basement while playing Dungeons and Dragons and Magic Gathering and smoking pot all the time. He’s just thrilled to live in the palace of the red head goddess. He won’t even think to look at who she’s been on Facebook with or what she’s doing on Fetlife (yeah she’s still on it) or other dating sites. Has 100 pct trust.

She’s fucking other men on business travel and when she goes back home to see her family. And he has no clue and is such a shithead he can’t put two and two together and see that those “late night work meetings” don’t involve actual work for her boss.

I used to joke before we moved in that I hope the “queen bee” didn’t kick me out of the hive because she found a new worker. Six months later it basically happened. Except she tried to get me to stay by allowing me to fuck other women.

She just wanted me there because I was paying half the mortgage, all the food costs, and half the utilities.

No. Hell no.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re making up definitions or laws/distinctions in language that quite simply don’t exist

[–]johnny_qcb1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If this isn't a reminder to never get married, I don't know what is.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's over. Done. Finito. F U C K E D.

He should prepare divorce papers and go over the prenup (they did sign one, riiiight? XD) before she does it.

Not much else to do here. Proof that even a Good Man Chad is not enough.

[–]oh_no_aliens[email protected]1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Time to divorce the cunt. "Find herself", bitch, you do that shit before you involve the state into your relationship.

If I were him, I would immediately lawyer up and get full custody. The cunt of a wife thinks she can have her cake and eat it too?? Bitch BTFO.

he needs only see into his daughters eyes to get perspective.

[–]Cissnowflake1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In any deal where the outcome benefits may be lopsided, make sure you get yours first.

“Sure you can have sex with other men. But it’s one fuck for you for every one fuck for me. And I fuck another woman first.

That is, if he insists on continuing with this insane and self-destructive plan.

[–]Lis4561 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Joy... the thrills of getting herpes, antibiotic resistant stds and prolly meeting a psycho that can off your family. Old slag

[–]dustman831 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is quite the situation.

I can see the allure of swinging, as you can both find a piece. However, doing it exclusively independent of each other is just ending relationship.

See if she's receptive to you both going with another couple. It works for a lot of people.

Otherwise, dump her ass

[–]ContradictFatePushed the Pussy Cartel Beyond The Wall1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The best thing about heartless cunts like this is no matter which way you move, whether it be despondency, anger, acceptance or any other way, none of it matters, she's already long gone. Then it's a psychological mind fuck tornado trying to re-run through the steps where it went wrong and what you could have done differently when there was fuck all you could have done and this would have happened anyways.

When you have some Disney princess bitch here in her near 40's prancing around for fucksticks like the world is still her oyster, what hope do we have for women half her age if we are trying to get into a serious relationship with them? "Finding myself" at 40. YOU ALREADY FOUND YOURSELF, BITCH, THEY'RE FUCKING 3 AND 5. Those kids are the best destination you can hope for and you still aren't satiated, you fuck. Screwing a man's life up is one thing but when you fuck up a child's life, that pisses me right off...

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