Yes you should be honest. Yes it may cost you the relationship. No he's not wrong for not wanting to be in a relationship with you.

Fhaze1117 · 2019-05-31T12:08:25+00:00

Feminists: no it's not his business what your n count is. If he can't handle your worst,he can't have you at your best! Yassss,you go girl,slay!

Also feminists: what! He lied about being 6 foot?he's just 5'11.99"?!? Dump him, you can do better! Yasss you go girl,slay!

Aldabruzzo · 2019-05-31T13:13:56+00:00

Or, honey, maybe you could give this guy the great sex you gave the hot alphas. Maybe you could fuck him the way you fucked the other guys.

Yes, yes, I know.

"But I'm a NICE GIRL now. I'm not LIKE THAT anymore. I don't do THOSE THINGS anymore."

"But, just, ewww, gross."

"But he's such a NICE man. He won't LIKE ME if I do THOSE THINGS with him."

"But I was a DIFFERENT PERSON when I did those things. I'm so much BETTER now."

"But that was when I was a bad girl party girl. I'm not like that anymore. I just wanted to be a wife and mother, and wives and mothers don't do those things."

anyoneinamerica · 2019-05-31T12:10:03+00:00

awwwww...is you afraid that the billy beta that you found will go find a new pussy? Poor wittle ting.

Yep tell him that you were a big huge slut and that time is over and he will never get the sexual satisfaction that you gave to so many other men. That's gonna go well for you. I highly recommend spilling your guts.

SelectAirline · 2019-05-31T13:41:49+00:00

"The past is the past. My dating life before we met is none of your business! Pig!"

also

"I would never date a guy that has only had short term partners in the past. He's probably afraid of commitment."

Velvet_Hammer_ · 2019-05-31T13:48:58+00:00

She's not "terrified my partner will find out", she's "terrified my partner will judge me for it after finding out". We all have our lines in the sand for past indiscretions, one of mine is not dating anyone that has EVER practiced Wicca/Satanism, regardless of how long ago it was. Unfortunately for her, MANY men share the common line in the sand of not dating a woman who has been a mattress-back for any stretch of time.

BertTheWelder · 2019-05-31T14:53:40+00:00

We've talked about how sluts have more difficulty pairbonding before, but the worst thing about dating a "former" slut is that all the FWBs and ex-boyfriends will come sniffing around whenever they hit a dry spell. And I can all but guarantee she hasn't blocked them on her phone and social media.

empatheticapathetic · 2019-05-31T12:57:43+00:00

Of course she’s Indian.

Captainbuttman · 2019-05-31T15:30:56+00:00

Reminds me of this thread from AITA that got locked yesterday.

https://www.removeddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/bv1xx4/aita_for_calling_off_the_wedding_because_i_found/

Guy thought his fiance was reserved sexually, but found out she was just not interested in doing more adventurous things WITH HIM.

Top post was YTA, your the asshole, but team woman realized too many men were about to discover Alpha fucks Beta bucks, so they pulled the plug.

CursingWhileNursing · 2019-05-31T12:22:38+00:00

He will find out anyway. Even if he is not wondering that there is an echo between her legs, it might be the fact that her vagina has its own weather system.

Cissnowflake · 2019-05-31T15:25:08+00:00

I wonder if there’s more — “I did a little porn at the time.”

The thing that women simple CANNOT handle is that — and I’m quoting someone here, but I don’t know who — “Women want men with good futures. Men want women with good pasts.”

As much as women might flip out, shame men, and call this toxic, or whatever, only the low-quality men that they DON’T want will change in this respect.

Men who have options—the men they want—will keep caring about this, and no matter how hard women try to shame men, that won’t change.

biomaverick · 2019-05-31T15:22:14+00:00

She's so fugly tho? Women live life on easy mode 🙄

[deleted] · 2019-05-31T15:30:43+00:00

It's amazing how many women will live in the complete delusion that sleeping with as many guys as possible in your 20s is completely fine but deep down they know they're absolute trash and no decent man wants them... It's sad really because their slutty behavior is encouraged by their peers and the argument of "well men do it" doesn't hold up.

RealMcGonzo · 2019-05-31T14:12:51+00:00

Future post:

"After being encouraged to ~~lie~~ show my best side and finding out how easy it was, I ~~cheated numerous times~~ accidentally fell on some dicks. But now he found out everything! How can I convince him to stay?"

theorymeltfool · 2019-05-31T14:24:58+00:00

If a girl won’t tell me, or has a high “n count”, then it’s over or she’s a FWB, pretty simple.

SirKolbath · 2019-05-31T14:30:21+00:00

I think the worst part of this is “I’m so ashamed of my past.” It seems like the feminists left something out of their “You g-ho girl!” cheerleading.

ToldU50 · 2019-05-31T13:15:38+00:00

Issue: Integrity

subissue: she's a whore

explanation: This bitch is actually asking if it is okay to lie to her intended boyfriend. What makes that worse is that she wants to keep information from him that would be key in his decision making process. It really doesn't matter how many people a person has slept with, per se, as long as they were smart about it, used protection, and stayed HEALTHY. However, this bitch has made it clear that she doesn't respect the man she is with because she is willing to hide something so insignificant. She has also demonstrated that she doesn't trust him and hasn't communicated any of this to him.

And so she goes further away from him asking STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET if she can lie to him basically for the rest of their lives and try and get validation for her actions.

x420PussySlayer69x · 2019-05-31T14:05:57+00:00

Maybe you should've listened to your momma and not been a whore, ya think?

oh_no_aliens · 2019-05-31T15:23:09+00:00

Honesty is the best policy.

Also, her face just screams "I'm easy".

heyitsjdn · 2019-05-31T13:55:12+00:00

Just like Bruce Willis says in the movie The Last Boy Scout, "The truth is a beautiful thing".

discreetFL · 2019-05-31T16:52:48+00:00

She is so ugly tho. Who would touch that? Yuck

ImAWhoDat · 2019-05-31T18:33:29+00:00

Immediately zooms in on photo of her

I don't believe you.

Content_Not_History · 2019-05-31T16:05:47+00:00

If the dude loves you, he'll accept it.. if not, you'll get the boot. Bitch should just tell him.

Bennyjig · 2019-05-31T14:07:31+00:00

Yeah why be honest! Just hold it until you’re married and then he leaves anyways!

Dawknight · 2019-05-31T15:13:48+00:00

Uh, this one I can't really agree with, doesn't matter how many partners you had as long as you're clean/healthy.

And actually, why would you ask that? I don't want to know that about a girl and I doubt she'd want to know that about me.

qantuum · 2019-05-31T12:33:39+00:00

I don't get the hate?
Girls wants to stick to this boy anyways doesn't she?

In my mind she may tell the truth if asked, or keep her secrets if not.

The important thing is she stops craving dick once she's engaged, not how much she had before, AMR.

Title	Yes you should be honest. Yes it may cost you the relationship. No he's not wrong for not wanting to be in a relationship with you.
Author	DeeplyDisturbed1
Upvotes	350
Comments	103
Date	May 31, 2019 9:47 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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