You deserve more! You deserve better! So why aren't you finding it?!?! Here are 19 bubbles of flatulence to explain why ? | WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

ogrilla99 · 2021-12-16T07:46:15+00:00

1) Hookup Culture Makes It Difficult To Date

Apex fallacy. Only 20% of men get to participate in hookup culture. The other 80% of men have fewer sex partners then men in the 80s/90s. But women, even women not in the top 20%, all want those same 20% guys, expect that they deserve them even, and assume that since those guys are hooking up all the time, every guy must be doing it.

2) You’re Using The Wrong Dating App

All dating apps are written by for-profit corporations, and someone who finds the love of their life and never needs their app again is not good for profits. Also, see my posts from a while back:

https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre/comments/dtbwdo/why_online_dating_sucks_hint_its_a_feature_not_a/

3) Some Men Are Intimidated By Strong Women

Hahahaha. Not wanting to deal with a "strong" aka bitchy woman is not the same as not able to deal with her. I deal with flat out psychopaths in my daily job, and I handle them fine. What does she bring to the table that overrides her bitchiness? Not even 10/10 supermodel looks is worth dealing with nasty personalities.

4) The “Man-Child” Phenomenon

Maybe women are just intimidated by man children? Oh yeah, that's right. I guess intimidation only goes one way.

Also, man child, meet woman child: she texts and scrolls through instagram all day, making the same catty remarks she made in high school to throw shade on her frenemies. Except it's worse. Since she's no longer taking an English class, her language skills have degraded to emojis, LOL and OMG!!!! She can no longer have a conversation that involves actual verbal speech, much less grammar, and she still thinks having dog ears and cat whiskers on a photoshopped duck face is the height of photography. And her knowledge of the world is limited to the latest thong being shilled by Kim Kardashian.

Who's the child again?

5) People Have Emotional Baggages

A man who was once an amazing partner might be more reserved and unable to show his true colors precisely because he’s no longer prepared to get into something more serious.

Somehow, this author thinks this only happens to guys...

6) Being A “Commitmentphobe” Is Normal

Why get into a relationship when you can get all the perks without any of the work?

That's what feminists advocated, and when men agreed and adopted the same principle, it's somehow a problem?

Anyway, I'll stop there. It's instructive to note that this was written by a man. The most charitable explanation is he's trying to ingratiate himself to modern women so that they'll click on his site and watch his youtube videos. The less charitable explanation is that even self-professed "relationship experts" have no idea what they're talking about...

Thinguy123 · 2021-12-16T08:30:23+00:00

Dating apps taught men that they can easily skip to dessert with just one swipe, so why bother going through the entire dinner?

Projection and Apex Fallacy as the user mentioned above

Fellas, does the following scenario sound familiar?

Go into OLD

Make profile the best you can

Not much action (if at all)

Notification that a Girl matched with you

Try to initiate conversation with said girl

No response

Open app the next day

Unmatched

meerita · 2021-12-16T11:29:18+00:00

Why these articles keep lying women with this statement "The men you have dated were either too casual, too intimidated by you, or not charming enough."

No woman on earth will intimidate me. I laugh to all women who think a man can be intimidated by a woman, how so?

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2021-12-16T07:22:53+00:00

Very little in this article about what men expect from a woman. This would have value. Complaining where are all the good men does nothing.

With sex cheaper than ever, and marriage and family court legal risks LTRs is a men's market. - There are legions of ledtover 28+ women who are desperately looking for LTRs. - Men choose if at all and if yes with whom. It's only going to get worse for women because they get damaged and become hookup material only very early. - OLD, social media, feminism indoctrination and lack of social norms only exacerbate this issue.

There are numerous examples on this sub of females damaged for life as early as 18-19 years old.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2021-12-16T08:29:52+00:00

Another bright emission from the septic tank of Relationship Clickbait for glasses-wearing hipster chicks.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-12-16T11:19:17+00:00

1) Hookup Culture Makes It Difficult To Date

No, Hookup culture is the dating culture. All you have to do as a woman is to stop hooking up

.2) You’re Using The Wrong Dating App

There are no dating apps, they are all hook up apps. Where is my proof? Are more or less people getting married?

3) Some Men Are Intimidated By Strong Women

I am intimidated by strong women the same way I am intimidated by snakes, they are unpredictable.

4) The “Man-Child” Phenomenon

Men are bad and wrong; didn’t you know this?

5) People Have Emotional Baggages

But not women, women are perfect.

6) Being A “Commitmentphobe” Is Normal

Just look at the divorce rate and who is initiating the divorces.

7) You’re Failing to Understand What Drives Men

Men are driven by being wrong (intentionally) and not making women happy.

8) You’re Too Easy To Get

I don’t want #metoo after me on this one.

9) People Tend To Hold Out For The “Best”

And if you watch KS, you know that the “best” is buy a dog… alone. Men are not on your level!

10) Good Men Are Already In A Relationship

All single men are rapists. Did your wife die like ten minutes ago? You are single and therefor a rapist! Women, go after men already in relationships. Make sure they have multiple baby mommas, because they are good men.

11) You Might Not Be Looking for the Same Kind of Love

Are you saying that there are differences between the sexes? Misogynist!

12) You Don’t Know How To Lead Love

Men love it so much when women lead, because the results are always perfect, unless men ruin everything by being bad and wrong.

13) You Aren’t Ready To Negotiate Right

What’s there to negotiate when you are a queen?

14) You’re Waiting For Your Perfect Man (Who Doesn’t Exist)

Don’t let this misogynist mislead you! The perfect man does exist and he is looking for you at and only at the following places:

-The club

-Tinder

-He might even be your drug dealer

15) You’re Letting The Small Things Get In the Way

Everything under 666 is small and a waste your time.

16) You Act Too Desperate and It Turns Guys Off

It turns on our dicks, it turns off everything else.

17) You Aren’t Really Trying

How dare you! She is breathing, isn’t she? That’s more than enough!

18) Your Social Skills Could Use Some Serious Work

Actually, Mr rapist. She gets to sleep with top Chads on a regular basis and this proves she has excellent social skills. You are just butthurt because you can’t handle her.

19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time

You can’t improve perfection. Her dog agrees!

Here are 7 places you can go to find a good man

1.Not hook up apps

2.Not the club

3.Not the bar

4.Not your drug dealer

5.Not festivals

6.Not in your FWB zone

7.Not anywhere near you

Don’t worry, your dog and inseminated children will love you unconditionally.

sqorry · 2021-12-16T07:14:57+00:00

They barely explain anything, they are dancing around and spinning in circles. No wonder they cant find good man.

panzer22222 · 2021-12-16T10:40:24+00:00

TLDR - men at fault!

Who knew!! Why does media and society in general not talk about how crap all men are and if they were just better at being a woman everything would be great. Dont get me started on slut and fat shaming.... /s

loneliness-inc · 2021-12-16T12:20:30+00:00

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Aldabruzzo · 2021-12-17T15:07:12+00:00

Dear women:

Reason number one why you can't get more or better:

You're a shitty woman. You're a bitch. You're crazy. You're a slut/whore. You're broken and damaged. You're unavailable.

It's typical that women never figure out that the main reason why they get shitty relationships or get treated like shit, is because they themselves are shit.

2021-12-16T09:31:13+00:00

Yes, we men do deserve better than the thotpocalypse.

Thanks for pointing it out, article writer!

Old_snowboarder · 2021-12-16T15:45:32+00:00

Ah the old 'we're intimidated by their general wonderfulness'. I have yet to meet a woman that makes me feel intimidated but I've met plenty that annoy the hell out of me.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-12-16T07:32:41+00:00

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RunawayGrain · 2021-12-16T13:15:58+00:00

It's a lot simpler than that:

1.) Good women aren't hanging around on hookup apps.

HedgeRunner · 2021-12-16T16:16:59+00:00

The author is a master of psychological manipulation. The article is written from a voice that puts women both as the victim and at the same time the one with power, which ipso facto is contradictory.

Look at the closing statements after 19 BS reasons:

Do you really want to meet a good man? Or is it peer pressure?
Why can’t you be happy alone?
Are you sure you’re looking for romantic love?

Followed by:

Like us on Facebook to receive useful articles in your feed.
Hack Spirit just launched a YouTube channel… And it’s awesome!

It's in the name "Hack Spirit", this dude is targeting "Stronk Independent Women" who also strongly believe just because they make more than the average household salary in their region and has a Master degree from a top 100 university, they are entitled to a great man.

The last 3 questions hit home, because these kind of women are incapable of living alone - as much as they scream on top of their lungs to say they could - and these questions toy with that very fact. Do you really want meet a good man? "YESSSSSSSS" For real? Can't be happy alone? "Um, NOOOOOOOO, errrr" "Sure you don't want true love?" "NOOOOO, I mean YESSSS, UGHHHHHHHHH".

It creates more questions than answers and that's how he gets these women to follow his blog for "more".

The real reason (as we all know) why women can't find good men is because all the good men are here, literally and figuratively. They are OUT of the game and OUT of the market by choice because both the game and the market are full of despicable people whose intelligence and values are so sub-par that it's a complete waste of time to engage.

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-12-16T20:38:35+00:00

Even just the illusion of being hard to get and working for it is enough to keep a man coming back for more. Things that feel “normal” like replying to his messages promptly or saying yes when he invites you to take you out might be too much in this affection-saturated world.

🤣Crabs in a bucket! I couldn't have sabotaged her more if I tried.

Pemrocks · 2021-12-16T21:10:34+00:00

Women love to over complicate what men want, men want this, men are intimidated by strong women. No, we just want someone hot who isn’t a bitch with kids.

Buster_Cherry92 · 2021-12-16T15:34:07+00:00

Despite the new wave of female empowerment, some men just can’t grow out of their hero complex and are stuck idealizing The Perfect Female.

Well if that's not the most hypocritical statement I've seen in a while... Sounds like textbook projection to me.

PlzSendDunes · 2021-12-16T15:27:19+00:00

The only thing that has sense in that article is "Instead of constantly searching for the right man to come to you, become the right woman". The rest is nonsense. It is like company not finding candidates for a position. You know what? We will increase requirements to a ridiculous levels. That surely will help us to find a good fit instead of bunch of liers.

LondonDude123 · 2021-12-16T16:33:15+00:00

Just want to point out this this is a guy writing this!

Some of these are actually true but spun in a "Men Bad Women Good" way, and some are just flat out lies!

1) Hookup Culture Makes It Difficult To Date

2) You’re Using The Wrong Dating App

5) People Have Emotional Baggages: Because of hookup and app dating culture......

8) You’re Too Easy To Get

9) People Tend To Hold Out For The “Best”

Women are the ones allowing hookup culture to work. If you dont like it, stop doing it!

Also welcome to dating apps 101. They're fucking terrible! Men are suffering on them, Women are loving them!

3) Some Men Are Intimidated By Strong Women

"Intimidated". No I just dont want to be with someone whos gonna make my life a misery...

4) The “Man-Child” Phenomenon:

If you’re constantly justifying his poor decisions (like being late to your dates) or walking on eggshells about commitment (unless you want him to run for the hills), there’s no doubt that you’re seeing a man child.

So... Thats what Men do when they're in relationships. Walk on eggshells to not piss off their GFs. "Woman-Child".

6) Being A “Commitmentphobe” Is Normal

80% of divorces are started by Women, but its MEN that dont want commitment? Sure buddy...

7) You’re Failing to Understand What Drives Men

At a base level, Men want someone to love them for who they are. Thats it. Theres nothing else. Just love your Man.

But "Noooooo tHe PaTrIaRcHy"

10) Good Men Are Already In A Relationship

Yep, with someone who ISNT you. If you seriously need this "guide" (and thats a loose definition), you shouldnt be surprised.

11) You Might Not Be Looking for the Same Kind of Love

Waffle waffle waffle

12) You Don’t Know How To Lead Love

13) You Aren’t Ready To Negotiate Right

17) You Aren’t Really Trying

18) Your Social Skills Could Use Some Serious Work

19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time

Noooooo what do you mean I have to work towards a relationship. wOrKiNg Is ThE pAtRiArChY!

14) You’re Waiting For Your Perfect Man (Who Doesn’t Exist)

15) You’re Letting The Small Things Get In the Way

There you go. Summed up in 2 sentences. All these "He must be 6ft tall with a job earning 200k a year and must cook and go to the gym but also be sensitive and dominating and also caring and hugs cuts" profiles... You're in dreamland. There was a website out there that proved just how insane the demands were. Women in general want (and think theyre entitled to) the top 0.1% of Men, and are SHOCKED (angry) to discover its not gonna happen.

bunkbedflower · 2021-12-16T09:34:50+00:00

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maruadventurer · 2021-12-16T15:46:13+00:00

Been on this planet 70 years. In all that time I never met or saw a person get what they wanted because they 'deserved' it. Most acquired it by dint of hard work sprinkled with a few who by pluck and luck had it land in their lap.

hatefulreason · 2021-12-16T13:15:45+00:00

i'm saving this for all the tradcon-mgtow pills covered in 90% woman-click-baiting-bullshit :)) i'm sure they'll read the article and only focus on the parts they like

LandscapeClear1630 · 2021-12-16T14:36:24+00:00

"19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time"

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2021-12-17T03:22:51+00:00

Hookup Culture Makes It Difficult To Date

Well, sure. It has created a pool of women who don't need to date because they can obtain sex on demand. For 80% of men, it has rendered them invisible.

2) You’re Using The Wrong Dating App

No app is an issue for women.

3) Some Men Are Intimidated By Strong Women

Yeah, no. We are just tired of dealing with women who turn everything into a fight because EMPOWERMENT! Guess what? We prefer the old fashioned feminine behavior for a logical reason. We don't want a helpless lady (i.e. can't do anything for herself) but we don't want competition over everything. (BTW, click the link to the article about 15 things guys need to do in a relationship. It marks provider as archaic but necessary.)

4) The “Man-Child” Phenomenon

Overblown.

5) People Have Emotional Baggage

Yes. Women generally have more than men.

6) Being A “Commitmentphobe” Is Normal

Because society has called commitment outdated. The author says that himself!

7) You’re Failing to Understand What Drives Men

Well, your advice in the other sections contradict the science that you claim to follow. Which is it? You should be telling women to be more traditional then.

8) You’re Too Easy To Get

For the top 20% only. Any men below that is ignored.

9) People Tend To Hold Out For The “Best”

Women do that. Most men would kill for any attention hence why whales have a full inbox on Tinder.

10) Good Men Are Already In A Relationship

Not really. Depends on your definition. If you are talking decent, hardworking guy, then no. If you are saying top 20% , then no. He has no reason to do so.

11) You Might Not Be Looking for the Same Kind of Love

OK. Probably true. But guess what? It is easy to tell what man is looking for the pump and dump and what man wants a long term relationship.

12) You Don’t Know How To Lead Love

You can't lead Chad to the altar.

13) You Aren’t Ready To Negotiate Right

Decent advice, actually.

14) You’re Waiting For Your Perfect Man (Who Doesn’t Exist)

Again, decent advice. If a bit juvenile in its ending.

15) You’re Letting The Small Things Get In the Way

Three sections in a row of not stupid advice. Bizarre.

16) You Act Too Desperate and It Turns Guys Off

Eh. Maybe for Chad. But it depends on the situation. If you are a single mother looking to lock down the wallet, then yes.

17) You Aren’t Really Trying

Women really don't have to try. They have plenty of options by just existing. Next.

18) Your Social Skills Could Use Some Serious Work

Filler

19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time

Good advice because many women just coast on their youthful looks.

CarpAndTunnel · 2021-12-17T15:30:20+00:00

Just for fun I read through the list. It was basically a constant stream of insults against men, until finally, the very last one

> 19) You Haven’t Improved Yourself in a Long Time

Whole_Clock2565 · 2021-12-17T21:17:12+00:00

The “Man-Child” Phenomenon

Experienced this a lot with my buddies wives bc i have either casually dated (wont commit) or wont date their single friends "who are just perfect for me". I like my bachelor life style. I dont want kids so why would i want a wife? A possible life partner would be great, but never signing a marriage contract.

loneliness-inc · 2021-12-21T00:28:36+00:00

I have never understood a woman complaining that men are "intimidated" by them. I can't begin to imagine how a woman would intimidate me. In what possible way? Especially when the intimidation is suppose to come from her job??? How???

ItsJustMeMaggie · 2021-12-16T10:03:42+00:00

They’re right about all the good men being taken. A single guy in his late 30’s who’s never been married probably has a lot of problems. That’s why it’s best for women to bag a good guy and settle down in their 20’s before their sexual value plummets.

Title	You deserve more! You deserve better! So why aren't you finding it?!?! Here are 19 bubbles of flatulence to explain why ? \| WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Author	loneliness-inc
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Date	December 16, 2021 7:00 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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Everyone is equal you bigot!