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[–]MGMOWNow1978245 points246 points247 points 3 years ago (57 children) | Copy Link
100% chance she is overestimating how hot she is.
[–]Honest_SolutionSr. Toxically Masculine Care Boi165 points166 points167 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
She’s also dramatizing how the guys acted on the dates. I used to take women at their word when they’d tell these horrible date stories. Then I learned how bad they just flat out exaggerate and make shit up.
[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™[S] 79 points80 points81 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's all about that golden attention...
[–]Whocares72755 points56 points57 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This is so true. A man can say one thing on a subject and they'll say he went on for hours about it.
[–]Red_Pill_DynamicsJr. Hamster Analyst38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
But best believe if he says, "I own my own business, have solid investments and save 50% of my over six-figure salary..." she'd be all ears hanging on every word and full at attention like she was in boot-camp.
[–]Jake-Orion24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Truth to this. I am a self employed truck driver, and easily make over 6 digits a year in my industry. The problem is when women find out what I do for a living, forget friend zone, they just want to pull the vanish. However, when they hear about my income and how well off I am, the legs start to spread open.
Nope. You closed that door on your own, and I'm off to go make more money rather than waste anymore time with you. Just going out on a date not spending anything still costs me (alot) of money. Those truck's wheels ain't turning, I ain't earning.
[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I guess you have to occasionally Bob-Tail for some tail.
[–]Jake-Orion8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh man, some of the trucking jargon out here can work so well for this page. Like how she wants to "disconnect" when she finds out I'm a driver, but will "connect" and do a "tug-test" when money comes onto the "board." 🤣
[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, I get it. Pick up a girl that you think is normal like a 3 speed but find out that she has an 18 speed and only Chad can find the range knob and Super Alpha Chad knows where her high/low selector switch is. You can double clutch all you want, but that bitch aint gonna slip into gear.
[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So you are saying we are like crab people?
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Women are incredibly good at creating fake narratives to rationalize away just about anything. So if she fucked a guy on the first date and felt bad about it, she can just make up a story about how he was “too drunk” or “mean” or whatever to be the right guy for her.
[–]askmrciaJr. Hamster Analyst8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My favorite is when they say the guy pressured them into sex and the women claim they didn't know how say no because they feared the guy would be mean toward them. Lol
I thought women were strong and independent though. Least that's what say all the time
[–]ismisechloe-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The irony of this comment is incredible
[–]SupraMehB.ring Y.our O.wn T.its Skittles Man96 points97 points98 points 3 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link
She probably also overestimates her intelligence at nausea.
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[–]thisisnotyourconcernCOVID-19 Ate My Homework27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
That fucking word makes me want to jump off a building.
[–]CSM_Pepper6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
"demisexual" is no prize either.
[–]x-typo6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
(As a fellow demisexual) hey now...
[–]Half-kratos22 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where people only experience sexual attraction to folks that they have close emotional connections with. In other words, demisexual people only experience sexual attraction after an emotional bond has formed.
[–]TraksimussJr. Hamster Analyst11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Which is hogwash, Chadconnect forms instantly.
[–]Celticpenguin851 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget empath.
[–]thisisnotyourconcernCOVID-19 Ate My Homework0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Insant left swipe!
[–]longlivestheking-4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
To my fellow man, I am demisexual and we are valid. Just go your own way and I'll go mine.
[–]422522528 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, don't be demisexual. Be yourself, and integrate demisexual as a part of you. When people use labels as their sole identity they let it subsume them. Just be you and let it be an adjective.
[–]Half-kratos20 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Older_MiggySwashbuckle born & Carol torn0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Makes me want to bitch slap a whole bunch of people.
[–]x-typo18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I have yet met a girl that is an actual sapiosexual.... Every single one of them couldn’t even carry a conversation worth a damn.
[–]BioStu7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Anytime a girl puts “be able to hold a conversation” in her profile, it’s just a giant red flag that she is boring as fuck
[–]x-typo3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. Plus, “make me laugh”.....
[–]Thinguy1234 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sapiosexual, is that a fancy word for are those who claim that are attracted to intelligence right? Yet when they meet an intelligent man the result is alwaaaaaaaaays the same.
"You always have something to say"
"Nobody cares about -x subject"
"Well sorry for not knowing everything like you!" (Expect to hear this a lot)
And many more, but you get the general idea
[–]x-typo2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From my experience:
“Sapiosexual” translation: I want you to carry ALL of the conversations
[–]Ishabaka21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"Ad nauseam". Intelligent people could read and write Latin as recently as 50 years ago.
[–]Thor-Loki-17 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, she's dumb as a brick.
[–]butt_uglee0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Loquor linguam latam...
[–]SexySPACsMan15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao, I can understand not knowing certain words, but to not know them AND have the confidence to use them is mind blowing to me.
[–]phantom2409 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
but to not know them AND have the confidence to use them
That's the hallmark of an idiot who overestimates their intellectual abilities.
[–]MGMOWNow1978-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You’re looking for ad nauseam 👍🏻
[–]MGMOWNow19780 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
U/53withtrollhair awww don’t delete the comment!
[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™[S] 38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
In her words:
I feel like I'm behind schedule.
Yup 🤣
[–]mustangfrankHamster Padawan #6928 points29 points30 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wonder what was she doing from 20 to 30? That is 10 years and no mention of that. When she hits the wall, then the concern for being on a time table is an issue. But she cannot write, I was a party girl who rode the CC for 10 years. The good men, the nice guys, were too boring and dull, so I passed them up for excitement, now that I am past my prime I deserve a good man and a good relationship. Boo Hoo WAATGM?
[–]27KHHVJr. Hamster Analyst7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
She already mentioned them. They're emotionally unavailable or want to date around.
Yeah bitch, you get what you deserve. That's why happens when the power balance reverses.
Feels so damn good to watch these angry bitter cunts stew before they become suicidal and depressed. Cats and Wine in this one's future. Also, a dose of FDS indoctrination.
lmao
[–]megacomicgeek26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
she is dating men on her level she doesn't know it.
[–]4Sammich6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And that is the reality not one of these women are able to accept. I'm sure she is just as boring as fuck too and unable to do more than bitch about (insert whatever here).
I still wish we had pics to see the truth.
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[–]b_a_d_r0b0t12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Probably a 49er
[–]phantom2409 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Looks like a 9 from 40 feet?
[–]b_a_d_r0b0t8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A 4 who thinks she is 9. But your logic can also be used. Best to stay away 40 ft anyways ;)
[–]Older_MiggySwashbuckle born & Carol torn6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fine from far, but far from fine.
[–]austin345619 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She may be thinking in terms of her 20s level of cuteness
[–]Ishabaka18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This. From 30 to 60, women are convinced they are their 20s level of cuteness.
[–]BioStu3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“So many of my girlfriends in their 40s are just stunning...”
[–]countnoxxferatu16 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not 300 pounds - “I am cute.”
She could still have a dress size bigger than a 5!
[–]neoj88886 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They seem to think that because they were a 7 or 8 when they were 23 that they still remain so 10 years later.
[–]ModernHagiography1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Not 9 or 10, but cute enough”
She’s a 6, at best.
[–]jihocechJr. Hamster Analyst105 points106 points107 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
The men who have great jobs, are stable, an available for a relationship...are already married/in a relationship at the age of 33.
The world is a really funny place with red pill lens.
[–]Honest_SolutionSr. Toxically Masculine Care Boi85 points86 points87 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Or they aren’t married because they don’t want to be.
[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™[S] 58 points59 points60 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Most men over 30 are much more ripe for RP wisdom because they're likely to have been burned by the "hot stove" one time too many....
Even more so over 35, when the little head starts to calm down and the big head gets wiser.
Good times. To anyone under 35 - look forward to this stage in life!
[–]TheApricotCavalier|-.,_,.-Troll Mind in a TRP Body-.,_,.-|4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
By 30, pretty much you are who you are.
[–]NippyRex5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was my take as well, she says "not available emotionally" when these men have been conditioned through their 20s and early 30s that their partners were the emotionally unavailable ones and are just continuing under that assumption. Why commit to yet another person that will hamster their way out of a multi-year commitment, especially now that the jeopardy music is playing faster and it will probably add cost to heartache because she's got to get you to propose to compete with her friends?
[–]sleepyweaselisawakeI never flair my posts7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You just described me.
[–]ismisechloe0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If men can choose to not be married cause they don’t want to be, why do you say women should be married earlier on in life? Why can’t they choose too?
[–]batfish5510 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or they're dating 23 year olds.
[–]ThaiEscapePlan78 points79 points80 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Guys are "emotionally unavailable." No. You are not hot enough to interest the quality of man you are interested in. Likely a 33yo 5 trying to lock down 7s and 8s.
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[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Jr. Hamster Analyst32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, she’s high maintenance, I’ll bet that she could still get guys when she was younger. Only now, her looks have faded and she has lost her bargaining power with Chad. Her best bet would be to change her attitude and discover that being high maintenance is a privilege only the young and beautiful can afford.
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[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™[S,M] 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Behind every beautiful woman is a man who's tired of fucking her"
I have yet to meet a man who organically lost sexual interest in his wife.
However, when you have to put up with her drama, bullshit, demands, pms, nagging, criticizing, crying, tantrums, cajoling, manipulating, invasion of your personal space, snooping and sexual rejections - eventually, you'll lose interest in her. Sexual and otherwise.
I met many, many men like this.
Therefore, I think this red pill axiom is overly simplistic and highly inaccurate.
[–]BlogginginvicecitySr. Hamster Analyst4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Makes sense! Maybe slightly better wording is "there's a guy tired of fucking with her," as stereotypically the hotter she is on the outside, the easier it is for her to trap her prey and start feasting --upping the ante on the
drama, bullshit, demands, pms, nagging, criticizing, crying, tantrums, cajoling, manipulating, invasion of your personal space, snooping and sexual rejections
[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Jr. Hamster Analyst15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, it would be like a high school drop out applying for jobs only at tech companies concluding that ‘no jobs are available’ when he is always turned down. When the truth is many are, they just aren’t applying for the ones for which they are a match.
[–]ProfessorChuckFinley51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
the men on my level don't seem interested or are hard to come across, what gives?
Your level is 5/10 but you think its a 9/10
[–]AncientMGTOWWISDOMSaves beached High School whales31 points32 points33 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
a 5/10 is super popular nowadays, if shes struggling, especially at 33, shes in 4 territory.
[–]HCHDGSH10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol at her thinking she's on the same level. You make your own money, you have friends and you take care of yourself. Eh, cool? Those men are entering their prime, you're past yours. Anything we'd value you for, a girl 7 years your junior can do better than you, because news flash, I don't give a fuck how successful you are in your career. It does not factor into my attraction for you, at all! In fact, if you think going through life a masculine ass boss bitch is the way to go because it gets shit done at work, I've got bad news for you. It's repulsive.
Also, you're probably in some rush to get into a relationship, get married and have kids because your biological clock is ticking. Those eggs are drying up. Not my problem. I'm not going to conform to your schedule because you missed the boat. I'd have to lower my standards significantly to do that. And from her little text it's quite evident that she's not willing to lower her standards, so why should I?
[–]Celtero36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can tell it's all about money because the only positive trait she gives of the men she's interested in is they have "Great jobs, are stable..." Meanwhile the other guys likely didn't meet her financial wants so she finds something wrong with them.
[–]malemedicine32 points33 points34 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
She hit the wall. Fast and hard.
[–]mustangfrankHamster Padawan #6914 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She hit it like the CC, hard and fast.
[–]Scourmont29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Not a 9 or a 10 but cute enough"
Every time someone says but, everything before the but is bullshit. My guess is at 30 she was still hot to trot but at 33 she's got extra pounds and extra lines on her face hence the "wasted time" and feeling "behind".
[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist26 points27 points28 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm 33f and just ended a 3 year relationship with a guy who was dishonest about things that had I known about earlier, I wouldn't have wasted 3 years with him.
Sounds an awful lot like u/aldabruzzo 's Light Switch Effect.
She thought that she could and would change him into being what she wanted and found out after 3 years that her pussy doesn't have that kind of power. She became too much of a pain in the ass (with the 'need marriage and need kids' thing) and the dude bailed on her wall approaching ass.
Dude was probably a couple years older than her and decided to stop (decided to start) thinking with his dick and moved on to better prospects. Now she has to hamster away how everything in the past 3 years was ALL. HIS. FAULT. Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa--"He robbed me of my best years and now I have to wait to make crotch fruit."
[–]AldabruzzoManage your own goddamn pain and life experience12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's not my Light Switch effect. I'm not the one who wrote the original post. That honor belongs to redpillschool, the lead moderator at r/theredpill.
[–]goodmansaysfuckyouBig 🍆 energy misogynist8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ah, my mistake. Well thanks for bringing it to my (our) attention in your post and thanks to u/redpillschool for the original.
[–]NippyRex4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a good write up. My friend and I came to similar conclusions. We called it 'retconning'. Had a girl tell me she never experienced intimacy before me, constantly told me unsolicited how happy I made her and that I was the most meaningful relationship she'd ever had and in a week it became "something was always off and I never said anything and I should have, I'm sorry". The only way to address it is to discuss about how statements like that don't portray reality, just their new, current mindset, but good luck having that conversation without then getting painted as a gaslighting, controlling asshole that doesn't listen
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The men who have great jobs, are stable and GOOD ENOUGH LOOKING for her to take enough interest to learn the first two facts....are 9s and 10s. She, herself, admits she is not a 9 or 10....meaning she most likely a 6 or 7, at best. She mistakenly believes that her friends, job, hobbies etc take her from a 6 or 7 to a 9 or 10 as a total package.....but that’s not how male attraction works.
The men in their 30’s who have all that going are either: already married and engaged in the process of betatization, divorced and not eager to have their heart ripped out through their wallet again, or they have such abundance that they don’t need or want to wife up some gal who’s biological alarm started blaring three years ago.
As for the men she has been dating...yes, the total package men are as above. What is left will be slightly flawed men. Guess what babe...you have flaws as well...you just fail to acknowledge or mention them. These men are there for your company in hopes of getting to have sex with you. Most of them are not trying to convince you that they are LTR material on the first date. It is HER job to sell them on the idea of committing to her as MEN are the gatekeepers of commitment.
Bottom line is....in addition to having hit the wall....the men she expects to be idealistic and naive like 21 year old blue-pill men are (like I was)....are older, wiser, more experienced and not in a rush because their internal clock doesn’t blare til 35-40, if ever.
You waited too long babe. Market conditions are prime when you are 25 and they are 25-33. You are now 33 and your target is 33-45. Those men don’t value pussy as much anymore and you’re too old for the ones that still do.
Ain’t biology a bitch?
[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Jr. Hamster Analyst4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She simply lacks the bargaining power to get what she wants, she is acting as if she lacks enough feedback to draw a conclusion, when her lack of success is more than enough evidence to draw the proper conclusion. She’s in denial. She’s like a football recruit who’s a 1 Star who walks around thinking he is a blue chip prospect and who wonders why Dabo And Nick aren’t calling, when their not calling is actually all the information the recruit needs to conclude that they aren’t in-fact a blue chipper.
[–]The-truth-hurts12 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hit the nail on the head here
[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Jr. Hamster Analyst14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s trying to play in the big leagues when she belongs in triple a. She is pursuing men for commitment who are above her pay grade. Just as the easiest way for an unemployed worker to find employment is to be willing to work for less, the easiest way for a woman to find a man is to lower her standards. It’s all about supply and demand, the guys who she wants aren’t buying what’s selling, she gotta come down off her high horse.
[–]Makhmalak12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
At this point its just sad to read these stories
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[–]MadeYouMadDownvoteMe9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is sad because women still perpetuate platitudes as advice to their friends that only serve to make them feel good in the short term, but do absolutely nothing for them in the long run.
[–]BlogginginvicecitySr. Hamster Analyst1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. They are a reminder to be my best self.
[–]Nitr0vert10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just saw the original post earlier and was wondering when I'd see it pop up here.
[–]Cristoff13Jr. Hamster Analyst10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I bet she's also left off that she's only interested in men who are attractive. She probably thinks her standards of what is "attractive" are reasonable, and have even lowered them from what they were. But still given how women misjudge male attractiveness, she would still be excluding most men off the bat.
[–]Mundane_Worldliness7Jr. Hamster Analyst5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s likely got a few men in mind (from work or who are the husbands of her girlfriends) who she would find suitable. These guys were wifed up by more intelligent women who saw the wall coming.
[–]CavannahEndorsed10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
33f "at nausea" [sic] Nobody who measures up to my standards is interested in me I'm not attractive, I have money and a job, am allegedly stable, claim to be "happy" despite bitching on the internet, and "take great care of myself"
33f
"at nausea" [sic]
Nobody who measures up to my standards is interested in me
I'm not attractive, I have money and a job, am allegedly stable, claim to be "happy" despite bitching on the internet, and "take great care of myself"
You're a past-your-prime pile of damaged goods who can't even be fucked to know basic Latin phrases like ad nauseum let alone understand why you do not get to have demands:
You yourself do not meet your own standards, clearly, else these mythical men who meet and exceed your standards would be available to you. You are also pretending that men want what you want, which is demonstrably false and belies your own ineptitude. No man worth his salt wants a half-baked pseudo-male as a life partner.
[–]dasanman698 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hate when people try using 'fancy' words incorrectly, it's ad nauseam.
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[–]dasanman695 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet"
[–]SoakMyBigCorkJr. Hamster Analyst1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
at nausea
r / boneappletea
[–]peguy20007 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
May the hamster wheeling begin
[–]shrinkshooterRoast Beef Butcher9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her question is "what gives?" Allow me to state rhetorically: what do you expect? You have options. You don't want any of those options. What is it exactly that you're asking for? "Why isn't my Mr. Perfect dropping into my lap immediately following the end of my last relationship?" Such a vague and generic question, she's only asking this because she wants pointless online validation. There's so much info missing, including what exactly she wants the answer to, that the whole post is pointless.
If she told us about the three year thing that just ended it would give us phenomenal insight into whatever bullshit is lurking here.
[–]dbs11467 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her examples, mean they would not let ME talk
I had to feign interest in their life’s, or as Dick Solomon always said one”3rd Rock From The Sun,”. “What about me!!!!!”
[–]Jr101010107 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The older women get, the higher their standards and expectations get. And the smaller the available dating pool of men gets. She should just give up and get a cat at this point.
[–]loneliness-incLvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™[S] 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget the boxed wine and dildo.
[–]cherryantacidsSr. Hamster Analyst6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like others have said, there's a whole lot missing here. What was she doing from 20-30 before she dated this "loser"? Riding the carousel of course.
Women, we've said it a million times before, and I'll say it again.
Do not believe other women when it comes to dating advice. Your sisterhood is going to tell you to sleep around in your 20s and not worry about finding someone with husband attributes. Just "have fun", they'll say. Don't listen to them, or you end up in the situation here.
The good men want to settle down early. The good men don't want their partner to have ridden an entire football team worth of cock. No, they won't always be there in your back pocket. And guess what, if you wait too long, or you mess around "traveling" or "trying to find yourself", then he's going to move on, likely with someone younger.
[–]ChestBras8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"a guy who was dishonest about things ..."
Among the classic will claim are lies are such things as :
... etc Any guy who got into a relationship with some girl who wanted to be handed stuff now knows the feeling. Just because I say I want kids doesn't mean that the instant we date, you'll be the one that I want to have them with, there's a lot of road to go through between dating and having kids. Same thing with saying "I might want to get married one day", it might also involve a prenup, might happen after kids, and might does not make a guarantee.
In any case, it's female entitlement, and it shows up pretty hard around early 30ish when they realize that if they don't lock a provider down now, they're going to have a hard time even dating.
Meanwhile, the ones who aren't riding every attraction at the dick carnival have already started building a life with a guy they'll stay beside through thin and thick.
Ffs, it's easier to get with an amish girl and unamish her, than take a 30+ fuckgirl and make her into a wife. XD
[–]meeritaJr. Hamster Analyst7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
100% chance she's fat.
Hey! It's 110% for giving it her all! ;)
[–]OverkillengineCasts Pearls to the Swine6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men who have great jobs, are stable, and available for a relationship can get younger and thus better women, and usually have already done so.
Also, on top of that, men have a higher mortality rate than women, so past about 30 or so, there are literally fewer men than women per age group.
So it behooves a woman that wants a long term relationship to find a mate well before that point and to not be stupid enough to fuck it up or throw them away after that point.
[–]NotherThrowaway2845 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the men on my level don't seem interested or are hard to come across
Almost certainly, then, you're not on the level you think you are.
[–]masquerage4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The men on my level don’t seem interested
Sweaty, if a certain caliber of man is not interested in you, then it means you are punching above your pay grade and are delusional about where your “level” actually is.
[–]Newbosterone4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
emotionally they're unavailable (still want to date around).
"They're not willing to focus on me, so they have a problem!"
[–]jakethegreatwhite2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Says she's a 9 or 10 😂 bet she's a 6 at BEST, and with that personality even less
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe the guys she wants to marry could not care less for her job, financial assets or past.. 'achievements' but only care for character. And since she fails to mention anything not so positive about herself, it probably is a huge red flag to any man who could also date someone like her, ten years younger and less desperate to settle
[–]coldsteel862 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
After age 30 the tables turn honey.
[–]HolyGourdofJerusalem3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
first three words sum up the issue
[–]TheApricotCavalier|-.,_,.-Troll Mind in a TRP Body-.,_,.-|2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shes probably fat. Theres a lot here to analyze, but Im betting thats exhibit #1
[–]Mein_Tarnaccount2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so funny.
I’m a pretty gal (not a 9 out of 10 but cute enough)
No, honey, you used to be cute enough. And that’s what you still see in the mirror. That’s why people want to grow old together: if you see someone every day, you don’t really see them age. That’s why old men look at their old wifes and smile at how pretty they are. But thanks to your choices, the only one who doesn’t see you age is you. That's why the good ones suddenly don't want a relationship anymore once they see you in person.
have many friends
… who will weigh in on everything he ever says and does. And that’s if they’re women.
am financially independent/well off, have a great job
„I work 80 hours a week and then complain about my job for what’s left.“
many hobbies
E.g. going to restaurants, festivals, on holidays. Or any other way of being catered to without having to contribute.
emotionally balanced and stable, generally very happy
That’s a plus. Most women can’t pull off sarcasm.
[–]JimmySage3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It always amazes me how delusional the vast majority of women are
[–]SirKolbathYeah, yeah. “Mods are incels.”[M] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The men I think are on my level aren't interested in me.
Fixed it for you, toots.
[–]deepak84112 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe when I am 45 years old I will start looking for woman in their mid 30's.
[–]ChiTownBobAnalyze this finger bitch!2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's a narcissist and brings nothing to the table.
[–]American__Jedi2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ha. I responded to her when she originally posted this. Pretty much what people are saying here. I made it clear she was the one not "wowing" anyone either. That she was not that great and her standards are too high and she should be ready to enjoy her future cats. She didn't like that too much.
[–]Tikhon142 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
(not a 9 or 10 but cute enough)
I.e., fat.
[–]NickTesla2018Built his own hamster wheel1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I pity the poor bastard she "settles" for in a few years. He never had a chance.
[–]giantgladiator1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my god the tldr says it all :(
Are you sure they're on your level?
[–]3HardWaySr. Hamster Analyst1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tries to use Latin to appear smart... fails.
ad nauseam
"at nausea" is a better description of how I felt by the second sentence of her rambling.
[–]MrUnknownorNobody1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are not on your level like yo deluded yourself into believing that. You are WAAAAAAAY below them. Like some attractive, High status Chad would be interested in settling down with your old used up ass, when he can get young and fresh pussy.
[–]PrincessSmiddiana1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You bitch... it’s ad-nauseam!
[–]Thetrvler1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re 33 and definitely not as good looking as you think you are. Pretty simple.
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