Which is it...generally, do gay guys subconsciously look for their mother or father when dating? (Thoughts on yourself?)

Maybe both?

I've heard that straight girls look for their dad and straight guys look for their mom. Wondering what the deal is with gay guys.

In terms of WHAT about the parent we are looking for, I doubt it's limited to looks and career. I'm sure that the parent's attitude, vibe, distance/intimacy patterns play a part.

Inb4 "what if he has gay parents"