Using a throw away for obvious reasons.

What is everyones take on "hetero-normative" (for lack of a better term) gay relationships? Personally I find myself more attracted to feminine (though not queeny or diva personalities) men and the idea of having a "house wife" is appealing to me. I believe that this is a relationship style that is most likely to last longer and be healthier since there would not be two people with masculine energy trying to take control. Thoughts?