So I have decided to not have sex for the foreseeable future.
It started about 2-3 years ago where I started to really listen to what I wanted sexually, resulting in less and less sexual activities. It is now full blown that I don’t care to have sex. I feel really happy about that.
But obviously a guy with a sex drive would be incompatible with me. [I also wouldn’t want a guy that watches porn or cheats]. Would it even be likely to find a guy like that?
I think my main reasons for not wanting sex are:
1- sex in this culture is just something that kind of sickens me, but moreso men who enjoy or expect that
2- I don’t know if I’ll ever like/respect/trust a man enough to be that intimate with
3- my own past sexual behaviors of not listening to myself
4- lower drive/pleasure derived
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