So I have decided to not have sex for the foreseeable future.

It started about 2-3 years ago where I started to really listen to what I wanted sexually, resulting in less and less sexual activities. It is now full blown that I don’t care to have sex. I feel really happy about that.

But obviously a guy with a sex drive would be incompatible with me. [I also wouldn’t want a guy that watches porn or cheats]. Would it even be likely to find a guy like that?

I think my main reasons for not wanting sex are:

1- sex in this culture is just something that kind of sickens me, but moreso men who enjoy or expect that

2- I don’t know if I’ll ever like/respect/trust a man enough to be that intimate with

3- my own past sexual behaviors of not listening to myself

4- lower drive/pleasure derived