I feel like there are so many HVW out there but literally slim to none HVM.

I'm reflecting on my life and realizing that I don't think I've really encountered a high value man in my life. When I look at the level of guys I want to end up with, the HVM of that set all seem to have found their true loves in grade school as childhood friends (see: Alexander Arnault and his now wife). It literally feels like it's impossible to find a HVM who's successful, handsome, loyal, etc unless your presumed parents set you up with the right folk at birth. Otherwise where do we find them?

I have extremely high standards and don't know where I can possibly find them. Since I found FDS I quit OLD, because I had a realization it was a waste of time and the men are 99% LVM. I really don't know what to think. I'm literally also not attracted to 99% of men because they don't take care of themselves. I'm really picky and at this point don't know what to think. Thoughts?